My partner has a female friend he mentioned I "might think she's better looking" when I met her I didn't think she was attractive, what do you think?

[Dawnlind92]

I am on the left she is on the right

[SarcasticBrother]

Ok, straight truth no chaser!
1st looks - this doesn't always mean a pretty face. Because, some men base beauty off of more then a face. Too a guy who thinks the face is the most important no she isn't the most beautiful. But, I have known men have chosen women for reason that range across a spectrum. 2nd her pheromones 3rd Lust
4th Connection 5th Good Companionship 6th I have meet befriended and dated ladies before whom you may consider very good looking. But, their personality or character sucked, and I slowly found myself seeing them as less attractive than before. (the juice isn't always worth the squeeze) 7th I have also experienced the reverse of this too with people that I have know who seemed more and more beautiful to me as time passed.

Ladies looks may open the door to start a relationship with a man but looks alone won't keep that man in the relationship. Because, how else could some of the most average and below average women steal the man of some of the most attractive women? Ask yourself that question...

[Zolly99999]

You might find her better looking? Sorry but I'm not sure what your you are trying to say..
And for what it's worth you are better looking then her in my opinion.

[Dawnlind92]

He just sort of told me he had this gorgeous friend and not to be envious.
When I met her I thought she was plain and it hurt my feelings...
If he hadn't said anything I would not have thought anything at all about her appearance because she's his friend not his girlfriend...

Overall he made me feel like I had to compare myself to Her and when I saw her I was hurt because I did not feel that she was way more beautiful like he said

[Zolly99999]

Ohhh ok i understand now. I agree he went about it all wrong.. hopefully he didn't do it on purpose to try and make you jealous or upset.

[artstatues]

You aren't ugly, you're pretty, but I don't think it's right to post other people's photos on here, without their permission.
How do we know you aren't hating on this woman for some reason (maybe she's dating a guy you like)?
I doubt your boyfriend would actually say this about another girl, and if he did he's a loser and you should dump him

[Aurora1010]

You mean that your boyfriend told you she's better looking than you? A boyfriend should never say that, first of all... he was rude. And he was wrong, you're better looking than her.

[Dawnlind92]

Thank you...
Like I told the other people I wouldn't have judged her appearance, or any other girls for that matter if he hadn't said something...
Basically he said he was concerned as she was very beautiful and I might feel intimidated.

When I met her I was a little sad and hurt

[Aurora1010]

I understand. Yeah, seems like he exaggerated

[Flower7]

Your partner should never be comparing your appearance to that of another woman.

[Flower7]

And no, she’s not more attractive than you.

[Dawnlind92]

Yeah I find it disrespectful.
I honestly feel that he just lacked common sense when it came to dating...
I would not have judged her appearance if it hadn't been for him, in fact it would never have entered my mind.
He simply warned me that he had this very beautiful friend and he felt that I might feel intimidated and that concerned him.
I honestly expected her to look like a supermodel and when i met her I found that she was rather plain, and it made me feel like I must be a 2 to envy a 5.

Overall it hurt my self esteem

[Flower7]

She looks old enough to be your mother. And she has a double chin.

[Dawnlind92]

She's 9 years older... used to be skinny when he met her but not after 2 kids but she isn't exactly fat either...
She is wearing lots of makeup she has no eyebrows and severe acne

[midnightmoon05]

Meet her then see how he looks/treats her. If they are just friends then let it be. You are his girlfriend.
If he doesn’t respect you… you have a bigger problem than his one female friend.
this has nothing to do with who looks better.

[DaveJord]

Nah... you're better looking than she is. Your partner sounds like an asshole for comparing you to any other person... that is if he/she is a real partner.

[Dawnlind92]

Yeah...
Honestly I feel he just didn't know the difference between what's appropriate and what's not in a relationship.
All I know is he warned me his friend was very beautiful and he was concerned I might be jealous.

The way he was talking I thought she would look like Adriana Lima...

If he hadn't said anything and I met her I wouldn't have thought to compare myself to her or judge her appearance but I was a little hurt when I met her and did not think that she was stunning like he said.

[DaveJord]

You should be hurt period, even if she was better looking... WTF was trying to say right?

[Dawnlind92]

Yeah he obviously had no consideration for my feelings at all
A friend of is said that he told her about how beautiful the lady was but then when he met her he found her average...

[homegardenerisback]

One on the right looks like the mother of the one on the left

[TheMajesticKing777]

You are better looking in my opinion, for starters your face is slimmer and just looks better in general

[Dawnlind92]

She used to be thinner but her features were the same

[TheMajesticKing777]

My opinion stands

[spartan55]

Sounds like you are trying to create drama. Just let it go.

[Dawnlind92]

It hurt me lots and confused me like it made me feel like I must be really ugly to him for him to think the other girl is so much better looking.
When he first described her before I met her he acted like she was supermodel material

[spartan55]

I know you probably won't buy this but I honestly don't think he meant anything like that. He obviously doesn't understand women very well if he would say something so stupid.

[Dawnlind92]

Yeah honestly he didn't mean anything rude but he did keep saying she was beautiful and a friend of his said he remembers my boyfriend talking about how beautiful she was but when he saw her in real life he said he found her rather plain and couldn't understand it

[spartan55]

Oh well, what can you do? Is this guy your boyfriend? You said partner, so maybe he believes it's more casual and he can say that type of stuff?

[spartan55]

I think you should stop trying to make it a beauty contest and have confidence in who you are. There will always be someone better looking out there.

[RebeccaBI2000]

You are prettier for sure, but it looks like he has a thing for red heads. He should not be hanging out with her

[Dawnlind92]

She is actually a natural brunette with grey, she dyes it and it looks more red in the pic
He told me he prefers brunettes...
He has known her for 20 years and always wanted to date her but she was in relationships all the time.

[RebeccaBI2000]

She needs to go if he told you he had wanted to date her for a long time.

[Dawnlind92]

I agree
He puts her on a pedastal, she has kids 18 and 12 he said she's the best mom ever but she is also a severe drug addict ☹️

Mentioned she's a nurse when she's a care aid...

Just basically sugar coats everything and I find it inappropriate since he is dating me

[TonyV]

You look better but she don't look bad either. Honestly i think you two look pretty similar.

[james183]

You're way more attractive than she is and have nothing to worry about.

[Anonymous]

I think you’re prettier but she’s not unattractive either. Maybe you partner just has a different type of look that they find attractive

[bowenw]

You are much better looking in my opinion.

[Dawnlind92]

It made me upset and is hard to get past because he talked about her like she was a supermodel and when I met her she was like a 5/10... I literally thought wtf.
The photo of her also appears to be filtered...🤔

[bowenw]

You have every right to be upset. Why is he comparing you physically to this other woman?

[nawtee_me]

One on left is better looking.

[Dawnlind92]

Thank you

[Abdulwahh]

No she looks much superior to you in years more matures but you look much more youthful

[Wise4myage]

You're much prettier.

[KylieRobidoux]

You’re quite a bit prettier to be honest.

[Dawnlind92]

Thank you,
I'm not trying to be mean about her... I don't think she's that bad looking but I also don't think she's a model

[Andres77]

It's a trap!

[Dawnlind92]

Yeah I sometimes wonder if he was playing mind games...
He did confirm that he found her better looking than me again later on. 🤔

[gangs_and_guns]

Emma Stone? Really u look like Emma Stone

[Dawnlind92]

Thank you

[Iron_Man]

You Look a lot better

[Dawnlind92]

Thank you. Tbh I became very angry about it and hurt... i thought she was going to be model material but when I met her thought she wasn't all that attractive...

[Iron_Man]

Well at least you look a lot better

[Dawnlind92]

He literally kept going on about her beauty to his friends talking about her like she was a supermodel

[Iron_Man]

So sorry to hear that

[Dawnlind92]

Yeah I guess I should accept everyone has different definitions of what they find attractive. I honestly didn't think she was model material though but that's just my opinion.
I though I must be really ugly for him to think I'd be intimidated by a 5. She had nice hair but that's about it in my opinion 🤔

[Iron_Man]

The fact is that you win

[Shy_Steve]

I definitely think your more Attractive.

[Dawnlind92]

Thank you
Like I said I'm not trying to be mean. If he hadn't given me the impression that I might have competition I wouldn't have even thought to compare myself to her...

Basically I thought she was going to be model material and when I met her I sort of though "that's the girl you've been going on about this whole time?"
Overall, it hurt my feelings

[EaterPeter]

So you and other woman is in the pic

[Dawnlind92]

Yes I'm on left she's on right

[EaterPeter]

I think what you think

[EaterPeter]

I remember you

[EaterPeter]

Why don't you use this pic as profile pic?

[Dawnlind92]

From where

[EaterPeter]

From here only 🙂

[noohair]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[Puppystarfish23]

She's not.

[Dawnlind92]

I don't think she's super pretty or anything just a plain Jane.
It made me think "I must be super ugly if Im intimidated by a 5!

[Anonymous]

She looks like your mum 🤣🤣

[Dawnlind92]

She is 9 years older...

[jjj101010]

U r way hotter

[Dawnlind92]

Thank you... I honestly don't think she's that beautiful 🤔

[jjj101010]

Tbh for her it would be a hard pass from me, for u, it would be a most definitely!

[Anonymous]

you're better