Are most men with golddigger gfs/wives actually that dumb to believe that their girlfriend/wife is romantically in love with them?

[Steven8000]

It seems many of them are stupid enough to think so.

[hahahmm]

I know a couple from India who have been happily married like 60 years. They told me about how in their generation getting a divorce was always unthinkable even tho their marriage was arranged and they barely knew each other before marrying. The idea that you have to be "in love" to get married is modern bs. The idea that marriage isn't a business deal is also modern bs, invented by women to get suckers to think that there's such a thing as a woman who will marry him without expecting to benefit financially and/or in other ways.

For example, women need more emotional support than men do. Women get stressed more easily. The list goes on. Who do you think women expect to help them with that stuff? So maybe the guy who thinks because he doesn't hand dollar bills to his woman that he doesn't have a 'digger' is wrong. She's getting stuff that's worth pure gold to her even if you think it's nothing. The main PROBLEM is when a woman is disloyal because at that point he's not getting what he values or what she promised in exchange for what he gives. Probably why the guys you think are dumb aren't complaining/upset/having a problem with the women you perceive to be gold diggers. Because they haven't broken contract yet. You're like the guy jumping up and down at the car lot, telling prospective buyers that they will be scammed by the dealership. They look at you like you're nuts even if you're right in many cases. There's some cases where you'd be wrong tho. Cause some of those shoppers are very savvy...

A rich man may think it's a good deal to pay $400 for a plate of food while you laugh and think it's silly. Meanwhile you happily pay $8 for a plate while someone in the 2nd world laughs at you and eats their free homemade dish that tastes better than anything you've had in your entire life. Everything is relative.

[hahahmm]

I have a way bigger problem with guys who are simping/putting women on a pedestal (unless she does the same to him). I think they're going against male nature. While women who marry up are just doing what is female nature.

[StephiC]

That's such a joke. Women's biggest complaints about men is that they're emotional work. Even worse when they try and turn the woman into a psuedo-mum/girlfriend.
Marriage did used to be a business deal, a woman traded her fertility for a man's financial security and both parties would cheat with the people they 'loved'. It was essentially a form of long term prostitution.

Now women don't need the money in many countries which means the rates of them being trapped in abusive relationships is much lower and there's the opportunity to have the relationship with people they love instead of focusing on trading see for food and shelter for themselves and their children.

It sounds like you're just upset that no woman loves you and you can't buy her time and body because you don't earn enough relative to other men I your country.

[DermalPunch]

Yesssss! Marriage is very much a business deal. If you can find a partner that you are head over heels for out of it then woo hoo!

[hahahmm]

@StephiC "That's such a joke. Women's biggest complaints about men is that they're emotional work." Yeah, because those women who complain are dealing with men who have gone against masculine nature. Men who were programmed to be what feminists thought would make a better man but those women and whatever simp men supported them were wrong. I did say I think simps are a bigger problem and that is exactly the kind of guy you are complaining about here.

[hahahmm]

@DermalPunch Exactly. I have more than a business deal with my wife but that was just icing on the cake. Why even get married if there's no business side to it? You could simply keep dating people and have lots of exciting romantic times. Some 'dates' could last many years. It's not on the same level of marriage.

[hahahmm]

@StephiC. Meant to write "Men who were programmed to be what feminists thought would make a better man *by* those women"

[hahahmm]

@StephiC. Oh, I guess 'by' or 'but' works. I need coffee before I post follow-ups

[StephiC]

I would say men with attachment issues rather than simps. Though Simps might fall into that. There are plenty of 'alphas' who are also emotional labour. Sometimes more emotional labour because their ego is more fragile.

[hahahmm]

@StephiC If by alpha you mean guys who act macho, I don't think that's the definition of alpha -- plus I don't really put much stock in the 'alpha' label. There's guys who are leaders & there's guys who are followers of women.

[Anonymous]

Either yes, they are really that dumb enough.
Or they are too scared to be alone again, so they "submit" to the demands of their gold digging girlfriends and wives e. g. she wants kids, he'll give them those. She wants a particular car, he'll get it. All at the cost of a piece of themselves and their health and of course their money. Is pussy really worth it all (one of them said so to me, that if i love pussy, then i better align to that)? To these "men" the answer is obviously yes.

This is what happens when you woo women using your money as your primary element of awesomeness. Some of these men don't even have any adequate personality and end up overcompensating for it by making so much money to give in to their gold digging girlfriends and wives demands (and then also jack up their body too as if that's their only values).

You (not you in particular) think she loves you? Try to pretend you are seriously broke for once and break down in tears. See if she stays or strays!

Go figure the high divorce rates (and infidelity too).

[Cathy7734]

I know women who do fall in love with a man who "gifts" them. For example, I know a Filipina woman who wanted to marry a man for his green card. He flew from the USA to the Philippines to meet her and court her. He paid all the expenses to get her to the USA. She fell in love with him.

On a side note, I once heard a comedian say something to the effect of, "Do you know what the problem you run into when you have a relationship with someone who is 30-years younger than you? You have to put up with all that crap you did when you were that age.

[Gwenhwyfar]

I’m not sure whether they really believe that or just don’t care. The old guy in the Eagles song Lyin’ Eyes defo believes she loves him (though to be fair it’s unclear what her motives are for marrying him). Fortunately gold diggers (at least successful ones) aren’t that common.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Interestingly my own namesake Queen Guinevere has been depicted in some stories as sort of a gold digger, especially in the ones where Arthur is much older than she is.

[Desconhecida]

They got rich so they are not that dumb. Can you blame them for ignoring the truth? Although it's not a rule, most rich old dudes treat young hot wives like a prize or a new shiny toy. When the girls get old, they just replace them for a new one like an iPhone.

[bamesjond0069]

My girlfriend and i live in a way that appears like it could be like this. I take her shopping and i dont go crazy but she might get like 10 dresses and 3 pairs of shoes and a baby brand designer purse. We go out like 3x a week to fancy restaurants and stuff. She doesn't work. She also gets an allowance and i pay all the bills she never sees a bill. That being said she works hard in the house and definitely provides value. She also didn't know anything like this when she met me. She just said i was hot and thought id be really good in bed. 😂 she didn't know anything about my finances until a few months into dating.

I think many people just assume a big boob young blonde with an older rich guy is a gold digger but in my opinion its often not. I've dated plenty young girls and never gave any a penny. I dont show off my money or anything either.

Some girls just get turned on by the dynamic not even the money.

[ScottStevens]

I’ve never been in their minds to know what they are thinking. We only see what we see in the outside.

some may believe there is love, some probably don’t care if there is or not. Either way they are happy where they are at. It’s not judgement to say.

[shaysh87]

Because these types of men are usually ones who can’t attract many women. So they put out piles of money for women to be their gfs or wives. Once they marry , he wants to believe that she is truly in love with him in order to bolster his self confidence

[TacosRAwesome]

I think in most cases they're aware of the exchange that's happening whether it's consciously or subconsciously.

The problem is when they start off as a similarly paired couple but one of them becomes rich and the other shows their gold digging nature.

[Kaamraj]

If they made their wealth by themselves then they are not dumb, they're very smart. They have converted love and affection or at least the perception of it into a transactional relationship. Leveraging their wealth, they can secure the best looking and youngest partners for as long as they want and on the terms they want as well.

[Heartache0405]

They’re probably just blinded by love and can’t see that she’s actually using him. These types of men tend not to want to believe it either. Their own loss though. They’ll figure it out eventually and when they’re red pilled for a while they’ll come to their senses and start seeing women for what they are. Selfish. I mean, aren’t we all? They’re just better at getting away with it

[sacrifices]

they will never get away with it

GOD is above the dome watching everything



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NskX9xoN1IE

[Heartache0405]

I’m still waiting for many to atone for their sins instead of being congratulated for them

[sacrifices]

most will die in their sins and be put inside the snake to be tortured
for they have no CHRIST

[andreasderjuengere]

If you have a gold digger wife, then you must be a gold owner?
Such men are usually driven by greed, 'status' and 'show'.
I think that both sides here play ''their game'', and there's nothing stupid about it; ... just shallow thinking.

[ChiTown33]

Honestly I don't think the type of guy that accepts a gold digger really cares about what she feels really so long as she plays the part he wants her to play. I think those types of guy only care about control.

[globetrotter22]

It’s loneliness and the belief they can’t do better without money. Can’t say i always blame. Western women are generally horrible when it comes to dating. It’s only gotten worse.

[CasaNorba]

yeah extremely dumb. if I was them I would rather use all my money to hire escorts once a week a least. they will always leave and dont have to worry about them leeching my life away

[DermalPunch]

No, I think they are very much aware. If it doesn't bother them, why should it bother you?

[Subarugirl]

What is stupid, is men using money to attract a romantic partner and then whining about how women are gold diggers lol

[CasaNorba]

yeah I agree, is just as stupid as women dressing up slutty to attract a romantic partner and then whining about how supposedly ALL men just want sex

[Subarugirl]

@CasaNorba you sound like the type to blame a woman's choice of clothing for being raped and not the rapist.

[CasaNorba]

ok I'm not sure how rape found its way into this but regardless honey if you really are trying to steer this into a rape conversation then you're bound to fail cause I know what I told you and I'm not the only one who's aware of what I just told you

[StephiC]

@CasaNorba No she's right. What you're doing is blaming the woman for men's feelings. If a woman walks down the road in shorts, trousers or a skirt, your response is your problem.

If you go to a bathhouse in Germany men and women of all ages are completely nude. The women aren't considered slutty for being naked, he men just have a decent control of themselves and their emotions. In hot countries women wear less than cold etc.
A woman making q kiss face in any clothing would be provocative. You'll find it's the duck lips pose rather than the ass hanging out

[Subarugirl]

@StephiC thank you

[CasaNorba]

@StephiC aahh no, just you are just trying to put words in my mouth. again I never said anything about rape, if you are illiterate and can't read what that picture I posted says then that is your problem

also its pretty irrational that you are using BATH HOUSES as an example for the fact that everyone is aware that people go to bath houses to relax and have a good time, clothing or not. not to socialize and hit on others like you would in a bar or a club.

[CasaNorba]

@Subarugirl and I did agree with your opinion as much as I agree with mines which is what the picture I uploaded is trying to say. its trying to say that both of our logics are correct because both genders are guilty of the same crime

so it sounds to me like you are desperately trying to turn this into a one way road because you are desperately trying to deny that women do this as well

[Subarugirl]

@CasaNorba except I don’t equate people to objects and currency. That’s what they did with slaves to justify exploiting them.

[CasaNorba]

@Subarugirl who said you do?

[Random_girl_lol]

yeah they are. or maybe they know that she isn't really in love with him but still are with them for sexual pleasure etc

[JSmuve]

Well you know what they say... the mind sees what the penis wants.

[TheFlak38]

yes there are many men who are dumb enough to believe that

[Nagatoro]

They probably know and just don't care because they're desperate.

[Andro36]

Sometimes they know but they just dont care... It is like a game and they both agree on the terms

[Yunganddumb6765]

I wouldn't care if they're "in love" whatever that means. I'd do it if they were faithful.

[GMANN56]

Men who have the jack to get a hot woman 40 years younger than him
are not stupid men.

[Wilhelmstrasse]

Tbh no woman on earth loves a man. they are all golddiggers. yes. men are fools to believe women actually love them for them. that's facts 💯

[Andres122]

Nah, they know and don't care. It's probably the only way to attract a woman!!

[Anonymous]

most men are denied the red pill at a young age

so they fall for it

[Anonymous]

yeah pretty much

https://www.youtube.com/embed/KPqk98FiOUw

[Anonymous]

I don't think all of them are dumb some just want to legalize prostitution and this is the only way

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

I don't think they are. They know and don't care.

[sacrifices]

most young men do not know

older men should know

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@sacrifices young men don't have enough money to be targeted by gold diggers. And if you happen to be a young millionaire, after 20 you are already very much aware that many people around you, not just women, want your money.

Old men do know.

[sacrifices]

women in general are gold diggers...
pay attention to WOMEN IN GENERAL

their actions scream
that they are prostitutes

so young teenage girls are prostitutes

HOW DO I KNOW THIS
cause its reality

and very easy to prove

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@sacrifices being that in the US today most of the workforce today are women I don't think most of them are gold diggers.

Prostitution is actually not only legal, but also pays taxes in some countries. Yes, developed countries.

As long as they are over 18, they can have as much sex as they want. Just like we can.

[StephiC]

They definitely know. Most have spent decades stepping on or over people to get to where they are. What matters is status rather than affection. They're more interested in the look than the love. Also by the time they're there they don't trust anyone to like or love them for who they are. Genuinely loving women get pushed away because they're scary to the man who considers himself a lone wolf. But a gold digger he can understand and trust because he's of a similar personality.

[sacrifices]

then you have no CHRIST in you

and you will enter the snake
just like the rest of them

[sacrifices]

@StephiC

why would most men waste their time in old age
you girls had your chance when young

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@sacrifices I am not religious at all that is true.

[StephiC]

@sacrifices how old are you exactly you have the anger of someone who has spent decades being denied by women but the outlook and reasoning of a teenager.

[sacrifices]

@StephiC

my GOD Christ is above the dome
you are without excuse
you are but a child compared to me

and please stop trying to play the sex game
cause I can fuck you whenever I want

im a guy you are a women learn your place

for you are a women
you are the weaker vessel

GLORY TO MY CHRIST ABOVE THE DOME
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EmBYV4kxS4w

[sacrifices]

well you better get in line or good luck inside the snake when you die

[Hellraiser1984]

Yup.