Why don't some men listen, when we ask them to take it slow?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy, he seemed nice. I had told him that I want things slow. But he didn't listen. i think I got coerced into having sex. He would call it a day whenever I said I don't wanna have sex today. Clearly he was disinterested in me other than sex, but why do guys not listen when we say we things to move forward slowly?

[Whatever2929292]

That is all they want. They don't want a meaningful relationship. Sex is really for after marriage. For me personally I don't do that but some men and some women out there all they want is sex.

These bad men wonder why they don't get a good woman... Since really they just are with people with the same morals.

With that being said if you feel you were raped or a crime was committed against you file a report to the police

[one1wild00]

Some may have an even higher drive than me or only want the sex and not the rest of the gal. If a guy is looking for a relationship or a long term friends with benefits then I'd figure he'd respect the gal a LOT more.

[NZGirl07]

Because they're not a good man. Any man who ignores your feelings and wishes is not a good person. You don't owe a man anything, not your body, nothing. If someone isn't respecting your wishes break it off with them. There are great men out there who are kind and respectful. You just have to find them.

[Anonymous]

Many men think they can take whatever they want whenever they want it. And they’ve noticed they can usually get girls to comply if they nag and harass them enough. It happened to me with a guy recently. For this reason, I enjoyed turning him down even more.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why guys are that way doesn't really matter because you can't change guys like that. The more important question is: why did you continue dating that guy, and why did you give in and give him what you know was the only thing he wanted?

[Asker]

I bashed myself with same question for days, truth is i am in such bad phase, that i will be a fool for any small emotional support that I get... But now I have learnt a lesson, won't be a fool again.

[rob119]

If a guy doesn't respect that, move on to the next one. If it helps, I'm a guy and I have the same problem, though I have not dated much so I hope I've been unlucky.

My one X even got mad at me when I told her I wanted to wait. I would have thought any woman would have been delighted to hear that.

[LazerBean]

Because too many girls let them get away with it. As long as there are girls who will give them what they want, there will be men who take advantage.

[itsuptoyougurl96]

Because some guys get stupid when they get horny and think with their dick. Either give him some tough love to train him or get a new one lol.

[Faith18letsgo]

I’m sorry that this happened to you. It shouldn’t have happened. I don’t know why. It’s fucked up.

[jasco]

Some of us just haven't learnt the meaning of patience, It takes time

[rob119]

I don't think patience has anything to do with it. It's called entitlement.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry I wasn't listening. What were you saying?

[spartan55]

Because they don't take you seriously.