Why are a lot of girls "mean" to me as opposed to other guys are not in their "leagues"?

[Anonymous]

For the longest time many girls have chosen me as a target to act like complete shallow cunts

Many of them older than me & from what I've noticed is how other "lame guys" don't even land on these girls "radar"

I'm the one that's solely targeted

That's that are 8-9/10's tend to target me which I'll never understand because I'm an outliner... a 6/10 at best

[UniquelyBasic]

They need to make someone feel bad to increase their own ego

[Asker]

So why am an outliner compared to the other "low their" guys?

[UniquelyBasic]

You just happen to be around them all the time, I guess

[Asker]

Sadists are targeting me then

[UniquelyBasic]

Yup, dont go around there anymore

[Anonymous]

Here you go again🙄

[Asker]

Step in my shoes instead of judging

[Asker]

That's right... ignore me when it's convenient to have a proper discussion

You're not eligible to speak of my situation when your life is handed to you to an extent

[Opinion Owner]

Dude you’re the problem at this point. Take some accountability for your own actions instead of acting like every single woman that passes you and looks a certain way has it out for you. That’s just not the truth.

[Opinion Owner]

You’re not even cordial to them you just give dirty looks, don’t laugh or talk even when they acknowledge your presence. How do you think that comes off to people? It’s just rude.

[Opinion Owner]

We’ve had this conversation months ago and you still pop up on here complaining when you don’t even try to find a solution.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s right... ignore me when it’s convenient to have a proper discussion.

[Asker]

I've never understood why many of your kind (not all) tend to act like complete cunts towards people below their "level"
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Men aren't any different

[Opinion Owner]

Dude, it’s not the women it’s you. You’re the one being the jerk and clearly oblivious and in denial. That was cool in 12th grade but you’re an adult now.

[Opinion Owner]

If you had one or two women being that way towards you, that would make sense. You accuse multiple women of being “cunts” and treating you below their level. When will you look inward?

[Asker]

I've been provoked in many different ways

Instigated to argue with them at school
Flipped off

Being called a "f'ng "weirdo" just because I happen to either live by them or pass by them

I've been poked at by a few for on going days where I'm told I like "horrible" with nasty stares but they turn into "angles" with everyone else

Guys have done the same

[Opinion Owner]

It’s not because you live by or near them it’s because if they try and even make light conversation or be sociable towards you, you don’t smile, laugh, engage, or anything. Maybe it is a defensive mechanism from high school, but not everyone is acting like that anymore. If your personality is to be antisocial, not talk or etc then that’s fine, but people’s response will be to think you are weird. It’s not about being rude it’s just your anti-socialism that’s odd to people.

[Opinion Owner]

There absolutely has to come a point in your life where you take a step back from saying “them them them” and say, maybe it’s me. Not always on the defense, in your fight or flight mode, but thinking coolly and saying “am I the one acting a certain way towards people for them to have this response”. That mental conversation has to happen at least once in your life without you instantly rejecting it as if you are a faultless human being. Not a single grown body on this earth lives without fault.