A lot of guys follow me, watch my stories religiously and like every photo I post but never message me. Like what’s the point of following me then? Am I that intimidating?

I don’t know man. I’m old. I don’t I get my identity or have relationships from social media.

Definitely not. You're just another splitail they're collecting. Think of yourself as one of somebody's thousands of Facebook friends.

Just tried to, and your settings say you need to follow them back before they can message you :)

I’d love to message you but I think you have yo accept my friend request first

The internet makes guy with small balls feel big and why do you feel your intimidating anyway

It's a well known fact that to a lot of girls a guy sliding into your DMS in considered creepy. Girls will put you on blast. You only do it to those you trust.

It's not our fault we just want to gain followers because the more followers we have the more answers our questions get and the more MHO and reputation and XPER scores we get

I was going to message just now but apparently I’m not allowed to

They probably see you as someone interesting but not as a partner... Which is what you are after.

everytime i would message someone 90% of the time they would block me, But I follow most because of the questions they ask.

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Anonymous
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I don’t know man. I’m old. I don’t I get my identity or have relationships from social media.

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- DaySpring
  
  +1 y
  You're not missing out brother.
  
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)

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Definitely not. You're just another splitail they're collecting. Think of yourself as one of somebody's thousands of Facebook friends.

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scooogy Follow
Master Age: 34

+1 y
1.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Just tried to, and your settings say you need to follow them back before they can message you :)

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Curiousnesshmmm Follow
Xper 7 Age: 45

+1 y

I’d love to message you but I think you have yo accept my friend request first

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driven159 Follow
Yoda Age: 71

+1 y
471 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

The internet makes guy with small balls feel big and why do you feel your intimidating anyway

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Neilbud Follow
Xper 6 Age: 44

+1 y

It's a well known fact that to a lot of girls a guy sliding into your DMS in considered creepy. Girls will put you on blast. You only do it to those you trust.

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spiralshape Follow
Xper 4 Age: 26

+1 y

It's not our fault we just want to gain followers because the more followers we have the more answers our questions get and the more MHO and reputation and XPER scores we get

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Xtendable Follow
Explorer Age: 51

+1 y

I was going to message just now but apparently I’m not allowed to

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- Xtendable
  
  +1 y
  He might think you’re too popular for him and won’t reply anyway
  
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jshm2 Follow
Master Age: 48

+1 y
920 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

They probably see you as someone interesting but not as a partner... Which is what you are after.

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eagle1951 Follow
Master Age: 74

+1 y
1.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

everytime i would message someone 90% of the time they would block me, But I follow most because of the questions they ask.

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- eagle1951
  
  +1 y
  i have no idea who you are on those
  
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Zygum Follow
Explorer Age: 48

+1 y

Follow me , I will message you and read your posts and comment

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crossdressingrihno Follow
Explorer Age: 24

+1 y

I really don't know but I hope you find out

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- Alyssa_11
  
  +1 y
  Well thank you
  
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Moviedirector85 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 40

+1 y

I tried to text you a lot. But your inbox is private. I can't send a message

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ThebestIndian Follow
Yoda Age: 27

+1 y

Seems like you only allow personal messages from people you follow.

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Juxtapose Follow
Master Age: 37

+1 y
1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Well we assume you get your DMs flooded and won't take us as seriously as we'd like cus of it 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous
(18-24)

+1 y

They came for your stories and photos, not your messages. Do you message the actors every time you watch their shows?

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- Alyssa_11
  
  +1 y
  Haha so funny 🙄
  
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Anonymous
(30-35)

+1 y

The point of following is to see more photos, not to message. But the same question goes to you. If you want a message then send one.

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Guy13 Follow
Master Age: 32 , mho 55%

+1 y
5.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

You must smell very good 🤔

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Jouth Follow
Explorer Age: 33

+1 y

I'll slide into them dms. Watch

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- Alyssa_11
  
  +1 y
  Loool omg I love that
  
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- Jouth
  
  +1 y
  hahha just follow me back
  
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gabby100 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 46

+1 y

Maybe they are trying to get your number..

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Aakash_Hangargi Follow
Guru Age: 35

+1 y
642 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Because girls make a big deal of it 🤷🤷

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Anonymous
(18-24)

+1 y

Guys message me but I don't respond

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Iron_Man Follow
Mentor Age: 46

+1 y
14.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

I would love to talk to you

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Still-alive Follow
Master Age: 42

+1 y
664 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Cause 90% of the time gitls don’t respond

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- Still-alive
  
  +1 y
  if YOU message them first however you may find success
  
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Twalli Follow
Master Age: 35

+1 y
1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

I follow people whose questions I find interesting

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2021biguy Follow
Yoda Age: 58

+1 y

That happens all the time on here.

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TallAnon Follow
Master Age: 30

+1 y
2.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

No, you don't follow back! 😂

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ChiTownLov Follow
Xper 7 Age: 47

+1 y

You never responded when we messaged.

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nik4play Follow
Xper 5 Age: 51

+1 y

Cause there sad, I will speak to anyone I follow

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WhiteBoyChill Follow
Yoda Age: 25

+1 y

We can talk anytime if you want

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TX651 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 74

+1 y

You're not accepting DMs on here at 1st.

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SignedAutographs Follow
Xper 6 Age: 37

+1 y

On what?

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- Alyssa_11
  
  +1 y
  Social media
  
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- SignedAutographs
  
  +1 y
  Uh, righhhtttt
  
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BigBull91 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 34

+1 y

I would message you but it won’t let me

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YourToy69 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 37

+1 y

I would. Give me a chance

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lucas262 Follow
Yoda Age: 31

+1 y

lurker simps.

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Fuentes Follow
Master Age: 34

+1 y
4.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

message them

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legalboxers Follow
Master Age: 49

+1 y

-blinks-

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Avgbrisbaneguy Follow
Explorer Age: 39

+1 y

Can you follow back

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JesseJayNeak Follow
Guru Age: 27

+1 y
763 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Maybe

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