What does it mean when a man knows that he has to be the one who ask the woman to marry him why don't men be doing it?

[Anonymous]

When people be together for about 7 plus years and the man still doesn't do what he is supposed to do.

[spartan55]

Probably because he doesn't want to marry her... duh

[Asker]

Well why continue to waste her time captain obvious

[spartan55]

Why is she wasting her time with him? He can do whatever he wants.

[Asker]

So can a woman she can do what she wants to do too. There is no excuses for men being childish. He knows what he is doing. Are men retarded is that why they have more excuses for doing dumb stuff then women.

[spartan55]

So why is it childish, retarded, doing dumb stuff etc? Because he doesn't want to marry her?
What is stopping YOU from leaving? You can't control what he does, only what you do.

[Asker]

Men do this all the time I'm saying that women get called out for doing wrong but a guy gets nothing said to him. men are slower in the brain I guess that is why people pay no mind to it.

[spartan55]

Men do what? Wth are you talking about?

[Asker]

And then when I ask why I get answers that doesn't make any sense that isn't explaining anything to why people choose to do the dumb stuff that they do.

[spartan55]

What dumb stuff? You aren't making sense.

[Asker]

You're not by saying why don't she just leave. Why waste your time with someone you don't love. What he is doing is just as bad or maybe worse. I'm not saying it is right for her to stick around but if you are with someone you don't love you are worse. If roles were revise you would see it.

[spartan55]

I would never be in such a predicament to begin with.

[Asker]

I guess they do it because they are an asshole.

[spartan55]

So if a guy doesn't want to marry you that makes him an asshole... oookay.

[Asker]

Yeah because nobody made him stay in a relationship all guys want to get married. Just let the bitch cry if he leaves. He clearly don't see her as the one.