I asked a guy out but he said I'm currently focusing on my studies but we were not even in the same country do you think he deliberately did that?

[Anonymous]

Just to get rid of me

[TheMajesticKing777]

I don't see why he couldn't have at the least said that he will get back to you on that question as he is currently in the zone in his studying, I don't know but see if he gets back to you on it

[Asker]

No he never text me after that

[TheMajesticKing777]

Then he did it to blow your question off, just say "I'll take that as a no"

[TheMajesticKing777]

And don't respond to him no more, he didn't even have the balls to reject your offer

[Asker]

Yea i also didn't text him since then you it was the first time i asked someone out

[TheMajesticKing777]

Don't stress it, you didn't die lol

At some point someone is gonna say yes, was it that big of a deal tho

[Asker]

Yup u are right

[TheMajesticKing777]

👍👍

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe he thought it was silly that you asked him for a date when you were not in the same country.

[Asker]

But i had a crush on him i could not help

[OlderAndWiser]

How would you have a date if you were in different countries?

[Asker]

I know it's difficult but i did like him

[OlderAndWiser]

LDRs are exciting and romantic when you begin, but the reality eventually hits you between the eyes and you realize how difficult it will be for you to ever see the other person even once. Talking on the phone or Skyping isn't an adequate substitute for having someone by your side to hold hands, kiss, and be romantic.

[spartan55]

So how were you going to go on a date if he accepted anyway? Seems like your timing was poor.

[Iron_Man]

Maybe 😳

[Asker]

Ohh i see

[In_Trance]

Yeah