Guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend's boss is always buying her presents?

[Gloree]

My boss is always buying me presents and my boyfriend is mad about it as he suspects the man has eyes for me. Would you feel thesame way? And what do I do? As it is starting to out a strain on my relationship. Thanks in advance. (Long version of this question with more details is in my profile)

[Anonymous]

If the girlfriend did not enforce boundaries all by herself and put a stop to it, I would lose respect for her. As soon as anyone has to tell a partner how to treat them, or how they should be acting then... it's over.

Any woman worthy of my time would have strict unwavering boundaries and the backbone to enforce them in an assertive and feminine way. A simple 'I appreciate the sentiment but I would prefer it if you did not buy me any more gifts please' or 'my boyfriend has already bought me enough dresses but I appreciate the thought, but there is no need for any more gifts'

Any gifts after that would have been refused by her. The woman's lack of boundaries and lapse understanding of what it means to accept dresses from another man as a gift are very telling.

[Gloree]

Everyone seems to be against me. This is unfair.

[Opinion Owner]

If you know your actions are sound, wise and correct, then it does not matter how many are against you. In your main post you said 'A harmless quality present.'. If that is the case then you can safely disregard everything said against you. There are opinions I have in life where 99% of people I know disagree with, but I am sure they are wrong. They are all against me but I've weighed up everything they have said and came to the conclusion, that without any doubt they are unwise, and incorrect.

Therefore, the same can be applied to your question.

[Gloree]

Thanks. I deeply appreciate your contribution

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome.

[DermalPunch]

You are not seriously this naïve? Yes of course your boss is trying to get into your panties.

[Gloree]

Even when he has never made advances at me?

[DermalPunch]

Yes he has. He is buying you gifts. Slowly ingratiating himself to you.

[Gloree]

Thank you. I will be cautious now.

[DermalPunch]

Please do! I don't know your boss ut he may feel entitled to you. He will lokely make an advance and may react in a vry string way if you reject.

[Gloree]

Thank you so much. I appreciate.

[spartan55]

Yeah, I wouldn't be havin that.

[Gloree]

Even when it's obvious there is nothing, since my boss is older. He is 62.