Is it possible to make guy friends?

[Anonymous]

y'all. I just want male friends that don't fall in love with me. How do I make this happen 😂

[coldmarch]

Hi, I had all of my life almost only male friends, and many. I am a big proof of how this type of friendship can exist, so I can tell you what are the best scenarios to make it happen:
1) Pick a gay male friend.
2) Care about making your friendships with males based on actual shared interests and attitudes. Make sure you have relevant interests in common with them (not just "music", "movies", "omg I think the same about X", etc, but actual interests in something specific that defines your hobbies). That way, the friendship would be built on actual topics or things you can do together. While if you don't have big things in common, of course all the rest is based on "caring", and a friendship made of mutual caring-only can bring to feelings more easily.
3) Pick male friends who are already taken from long time or married, and don't try to become their "main" friend, as their main person is already their partner. Hang out with both of them together if you're friend with his partner, too.
4) Pick male friends while you're taken (and don't be flirty; hang out all together with your partner, so it could be one of his friends, for example).
5) Don't behave like a flirty girl: some guys could be attracted to you not because of your features and mindset, but just because you give them flirty signals, so they get activated. Just don't behave like trying to make them like you, or trying to make them feel exclusive, or special, etc. Don't play games. Plus, if you behave like when you're at home, like being very loose, no makeup, no attempt to look decent, but just relaxed, they will get the hint you're "too" comfortable with them, more like a sister than a potential partner. Let them friendzone you from the beginning.

[Femphile_xoxo]

Make a ton of dude friends. Then constantly talk to them about feminism. Like no shit, I've had the same issue as you! Basically, you just have to find people who aren't nice guys or y'know aren't simply like that.
It's also kinda natural to feel attraction towards people your friends with (SOMETIMES!!!) so if they ever confess I just simply turn them down and assure them nothing will change between us.

Tbh anyone who says that you just need to be ugly or anything like that is wrong. It's never your fault that people just are attracted to you 😒

Or the alternative: b friends w/ us girlssssss 💅 we're here for you 😂.

[Anonymous]

If you have a vagina, you can not have actual guy “friends”
We do not need you for friendship and do not waste our time on females we don’t want sex from.

You want the attention and thrill of having male attention and someone to flirt with but don’t want to actually give anything back.
No guy wants to sot around listening to you whine about the assholes you fuck while saying you wish you could find someone like them.

[Asker]

Men like you seem bitter for no reason.

[Opinion Owner]

Shaming tactics don’t make the truth untrue

[Opinion Owner]

Yup thats what women who use shaming tactics say.

[kinggeorge007]

You can't. It's the simple answer. There's one way you can do this but make sure you are not his type. Befriend him on a macho level. And there you go.

[glowingrachel]

I kinda have this problem too, just gotta find guys who aren't necessarily looking for a girlfriend at the moment because its natural for us as humans to develop feelings for someone who shows you affection, also best to set boundaries like make it known you're just friends very early on.

[Asker]

I specifically look for guys that aren't looking for a relationship and Im so clear everytime it's brought up that I'm strictly looking for friends and no amount of time spent talking or hanging out will change that. But here I am dropping yet another guy friend this morning because he wants more with me 😔

[glowingrachel]

Could always just be friends with gay guys, I have quite a few gay male friends, I feel they'd never develop feelings for me like that

[Asker]

This is true, I try not to make a point of finding gay friends but maybe I should 😅😅

[spartan55]

Remember: given the choice no guy ever wants to be your friend.

[Anonymous]

Either be ugly or filter out the pervs by telling your friends they're like a brother to you. Girls look less attractive around men so talk about the other guys you want to get with and date in front of them. The friends will stay and the players will leave

[megabamse]

There is no code for it, it just sort of happens. One thing i can think about is that if you lose the sensual interest, you might just be left with friendly feelings.

[Sour-rose]

Making it is gonna get you the opposite effect, baby ;D

"If you build it, they will come."

[spartan55]

They may not fall in love with you, but they will want to have sex with you.

[maverick2022]

I knew a girl that said this and she was a huge flirt honestly. She would attract guys then complain when they developed feelings for her.

[garykingg]

Hey whats your name? Let's be friends

There, boom, you made a friend with a guy, so it's possible

[KrakenAttackin]

There is no such thing as "friends" of the opposite sex unless they are gay AF.

[Anonymous]

Not that hard. If you can't do it it's probably because you're socially inept.

[hopegirly]

It is possible x

[ashish804]

may be u must be fucking sexy

[In_Trance]

No it isn't