I don’t feel protected by my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I don’t feel protected by my boyfriend. How do I tell him without making him feel weak?

[DaveJord]

What is it you need protection from? Might be a you problem and not him problem... you living in fear of something or you just crazy insecure?

Honestly there is noting you can tell him that will not be insulting... so best not to tell him and just end the relationship and tell him its about your own insecurities and not anything he did to you.

[TonyV]

Not really his job to protect you anyways.

No sure what you should do about your insecurity about a situation that's most likely never gonna happen.

[Anonymous]

As you shouldn’t.
Why is it his responsibility to protect you?

You are a “strong and independent” female, or so we are force fed by society to believe.
You wanted the equality, now you have it. Protect your own ass.

[TheFlak38]

just another woman who knows how to pick the best man possible.

[msc545]

Why don't you feel protected? What do you expect of him that you are not getting?

[Anonymous]

He's assuming you're an independent strong woman who ain't need a man to protect her.

It would be sexist he try to protect, bc that means he thinks you're weak. So he respects you.

[spartan55]

What made you feel that way?

[In_Trance]

explain your logic to him

[Anonymous]

But I thought women didn’t need men?

[Anonymous]

Hire a bodyguard