So I've been with my bf roughly around 5 years. (On & off) we are trying to work it out. Just began hanging out again after 8 month break. He's always been nice& caring. I love that about him. But sometimes I wish he was more aggressive. When we go out to bars I feel like he can't protect me. One time when we were younger some guy grabbed my ass at a party and he didn't say anything to the guy. Which hurt my feelings. Recently we went out and some guy grabbed my ass & again he didn't do anything. It's like such a turn off. We've been together for so long. Why is he like that? Doesn't he care if someone disrespects me? Makes me want to go out and look for a "real" man.