Not relevant to be called his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I asked why he presents me to his friends as his friend and not his girlfriend and he said "must be they were not so relevant to tell them you are my girlfriend"
can someone explain me this,?
So people dont deserve to know im his girlfriend and not just a friend
Why not?

[Rüya6]

You should leave him or discuss this with him. Why would someone hide that he is together with the person he loves?
If I would be together with the person I loved I would be open to them and ask if it's okay for me to tell my friends that we are together.
I bet he isn't the one. But, well, it's just my opinion.

[Asker]

I dont know how to take this answer

[Rüya6]

I'm sorry if I confused you. I just meant that you might not be as important to him than you think.
I just brought it to the point. I don't mean to sound mean and I could be wrong.

[Asker]

Why do you think?
He said those guys were not important for him
So thats why he didn't bother tell im his girlfriend so he won't go into too deep with the topic

[Rüya6]

Still. He can mention it.

[Asker]

Why he didn't

[spartan55]

And you accepted that answer? Biggest bunch of bullshit today

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Asker]

Why bullshit?

[spartan55]

Because he is implying that those friends aren't important enough for you be given a proper introduction. You should dump him.

[Asker]

Well
Those were guys he bought weed from
I mean... they are more like his dealers
Should i worry about that?
His close and real friends know im his girl
Because they see us kiss, hug, eat together me entering his house etc
Them joking and teasing him about having a girlfriend
So... im a bit confused

[spartan55]

So why can't he refer to you as his girlfriend to his drug dealers? It makes no sense.

[Asker]

I know
Whats the posible reason?

[spartan55]

He wants to appear single for some reason.

[Asker]

Why?
All his neighbours and friends know the women who enters his house its me
At his house i didn't see anything suspicious of other women
Still my hear still my stuff

[spartan55]

Have to ask him, no idea.

[WhitneySnow]

They’re not important to him

[Asker]

So? why call me his friend

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe you’re not that much of a priority to him

[Asker]

What me being or not being his priority
Has to do with Them not being important to him
Makes no sense

[WhitneySnow]

No clue lol. But if he introduces you as his friend you’re probably not that much of a priority to him.

[Asker]

Then why he said those guys were not important?

[WhitneySnow]

What he really meant was that you’re not that important

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe he’s afraid his dealer will kidnap you and hold you for ransom if he owes him money and the guy knows you’re his girlfriend