Guys, Why guys giuve mixed signals?

[rainn_stalker]

Sometimes he pays a lot of attention, is close, LOTS of eye contact, laughing at all my jokes and sometimes he barely even looks at me.. why?

[Vikkrram]

Coz he doesn't know that's what going in ur mind, so obviously he don't want to be that guy who will show his feelings and things would end in Awkwardness. And yes he knows that you have crush on him and he also have crush on you.

[rainn_stalker]

But if he knows I have a crush on him why he thinks it would be awkward?

[Vikkrram]

Coz he is not sure , look even if anyone would give signs of liking each others still there would be a confusion coz we will think that maybe we are raeding too much coz we have crush on them. These are the normal behaviour of them but the fact is we don't find others reacting same wid us , others don't give signals that they are interested in you

[Vikkrram]

Sometimes paying attention , sometimes avoiding , eye contact , awkwardness , nervous around each other i bet these are going between you both... Am i right or not?

[rainn_stalker]

Haha yes.. not so much being nervous, at least not from me. What you said before is the same way I see things actually, he gets my attention with some attitudes he has but at the end of the day I just think it's all in my head and it means nothing. Once he held eye contact from th other side of the room for like 6 secs while saying nothing for example, but I always downplay all of that

[Vikkrram]

Yes our mind works like deleting all good memories or mixing them wid overthinhking and storing all bad memories and making us confident that they don't like us.

But the fact is that when anyone likes you , that's where u notice things changing... and mixed signals would be there till there would be a confession...

Sorry i am not a psychologist but i love to observe people that's why i am telling all these things wid my observations

[rainn_stalker]

It was very helpful.. thanks!

[SolitarySolace]

Because that’s what girls do. We’re just showing them what they themselves do to us and see if they like it.

[rainn_stalker]

Even if you're attracted to that girl?

[SolitarySolace]

Yup. I’m attracted to women. Doesn’t mean I want/need one. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[rainn_stalker]

No, I mean.. with a spicific girl, if you like a girl would give her mixed signals anyway?

[Anonymous]

For the same reason you women are hit, cold, hot, cold, hot, cold. You invite him over and then reject him. Lol

[spartan55]

Because you aren't the only thing in his universe.

[rainn_stalker]

Ofc I'm not talking about the times when he's occupied and doing his things... I'm talking about when he gets close to me just to ignore me

[spartan55]

Doesn't change my answer. You can't read his mind. So why is it up to him to talk to you? You can't talk to him?

[rainn_stalker]

I do but he barely looks at me.. until I say something funny and he laughs

[spartan55]

Who is 'he'?

[rainn_stalker]

The guy I like

[spartan55]

Does he even know you are interested?

[rainn_stalker]

That's the thing.. just like he gives signals, I do the same, does he notice? I have no idea

[spartan55]

'Signals'... sigh. What a waste of time.

[rainn_stalker]

Not if you're not bitter

[spartan55]

What do those two things have to do with each other? Please connect those dots for me?
It doesn't matter how not-bitter he is, guys do not receive female 'hints' very well at all. So, if you are going to keep trying that route you will likely fail.

[ShadowMonarch]

Unfortunately he is not interested

[In_Trance]

Probably because you give him mixed signals too

[rainn_stalker]

What would be a good direct signal? Ofc a kiss would be super direct but something not so agressive