This man I like told me tonight that he’s done with women and relationships for good. Then, he goes and has these conversations with me where he tells me about his day and in-depth describes his job and then leaves me pizza because I might be hungry. It’s incredibly confusing.
What’s confusing about that? You’re reading into something that is only on your mind. Even if he is done w women as far as relationships doesn’t mean he can’t talk to them. Now if he was trying to hold your hand or said certain things that made it sound as though he was interested in you sure that could be confusing. But nothing you wrote gives me the indication that he’s interested in you. Are you thinking well if he wasn’t interested in me he wouldn’t tell me all these things about his life? Women tend to think oh well he’s telling me all these important details about himself, his life, does that mean he’s interested? No it doesn’t. Again nothing said that makes me think otherwise.
He told you about his day he didn't give you a kidney. I told three different women about my day yesterday. It's called making conversation.
You were hungry. He left you pizza. There are no "mixed signals". That's called not being an a-hole. He'd have left it for his male friends too.
I'm sorry I'm dense. Where's the confusion here?
Him telling you about his day isn’t an invitation for a relationship with him - you are just allowing yourself to continue to talk to a man that isn’t going to provide you what you want.
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What is confusing about it? He was very clear he didn't want a relationship.
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