His signals are not at all mixed; they are quite clear:
He enjoys fucking you. A lot. But that's all he wants from you. I doubt you can give me even a single example of something he's said or done that contradicts that.
Casual sex/FWB/fuck buddies is perfectly fine if that's what you both want. You are an adult, and are perfectly allowed to have that if you like. But assuming that ISN'T what you want, then why did you accept only that?
The world is full of men who will happily have sex with you (and nothing else) if you let them. Unless you were super-sheltered your whole life, you MUST know that. That a man wants to have sex with you, or finds you physically attractive (which is really the same thing), isn't unique or special - there are literally billions of men on the planet who could say the same.
YOUR job, assuming you are looking for a more serious relationship, is to sort through and filter out all of the guys who AREN'T looking for a relationship, because YOU are the only one who you can count on to look out for YOUR interests, at least during the dating process.
This guy clearly only wants the sex. Sure, he'll say things to keep you coming back, or to maybe give you a bit of false hope, but he's clearly not interested in a relationship, because he's had PLENTY of time to try to move towards a real relationship, and hasn't done it. Why hasn't he? Because he's already getting everything he wants: free, easy sex at HIS convenience. Hopefully that's enough for you too, because if not, then you are cheating yourself.
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A lot of guys that are assholes like this are severely hurt and too proud to admit it. Also in society it is known that a man can be sensitive but can't be weak. So we as men shit off our emotions completely and just fuck women. And if the woman acts too clingy and needy then we run away more or play games. And I think that gos the same with women to guys. If a guy acts too needy or clingy to a woman, then the woman is less of a value. People want more of a challenge to the opposite sex. My suggestion is to do what you can to not have sex with him next time and see how he acts. Maybe make yourself more busy and less available so it is more of a challenge because you aren't there all the time. That is if you really like the guy.
its not mixed signals. he's attracted to you and he's getting what he wants without having to do much work. I don't se anything inconsistent. when he wants you you're around. if he's tired of it he can go fuck off. you're not in a relationship so he has no obligation towards you. you can have the most beautiful eyes in the world, doesn't man hell feel like testing. esp since he's getting sex either way.
if you want something more than friends then you should recognize that, because it isn't what you are getting. if you're happy with just being f buddies then I'm not su where the discontent with the lack of texting is coming from. you're having sex. why do you have to text as well?
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I don't believe men give mixed signals.
I believe they give no signals. And women see signals in everything, and assign random values of positive or negative to these things, and that is why they don't seem consistent.
From the mans point of view :
Looks at her - means nothing
Looks away from her - means nothing
Laughs - means nothing
Doesn't smile - means nothing
etc...
From the girls perspective:
Looks at her - that must be positive
Looks away from her - that must be negative
Laughs - that must be positive
Doesn't smile - that must be negative
etc...
Girls would rather think that virtually everything the guy does is influenced by how he feels about her, rather than face the far more likely truth, that he isn't thinking about her much at all.Hmm..maybe he honestly just wishes he could spend more time with you but thinks a young girl like you just wants sex and doesn't want to freak you out with more than that? Otherwise he's playing some good game mixing his asshole side with his polite side to confuse and disorient you.
Your title doesn't fit the question. He likes to have sex with a pretty girl and why buy the cow when you get the milk for free. Long term you are hurting yourself and maybe one day you will believe in your heart you are worth more than a fun time.
LOL I think its the other way around. Women give off mix signals that they expect the guy to pickup on and when he does, she doesn't like him like he thinks she does.
Women give men they like all of the power and control over them and then complain . Figures.
yeah not really...its usually the other way around
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