I met a guy at a night club a month ago. He mentioned he separated three months ago; talked about his feelings and thoughts. I told it would be fun to talk more, he said he'd love to, so we exchanged number. I texted him the day after and he replied. He was quite flirty. He asked if I'd like to meet up and I replied yes. We kept texting a couple of times per day until then.
We met for dinner. We kissed when we left. He texted and thanked me for the dinner and we kept texting. But he slightly stopped being flirty. He still writes a lot; lots of emojis. And he started to write about things he wanted to do together. He asked me out for dinner, I said yes. He asked if i wanted to join some of his friends and brother the day after. I said yes. They clearly knew everything about me and talked a lot with me.
They were going to a huge party some days after and his brother asked if i was joining. I was puzzled as i had not been invited, even though I had other plans. The guy I'm seeing just said "no she has other plans".
We dont call. He doesn't talk about feelings or emotions. I was disappointed when we met for first dinner as i thought we were going to continue or talk. That's why I suggested to keep contact.
He doesn't give compliments unless i do first. Once we were going to leave he said "This sucks, I'd rather be here with you instead of going home. Hehe just kidding". I have never heard "just kidding" like that. Last time we met he asked if i wanted to stay over. I replied i had to get home to my dog, and he said "Boo. Just think about the dog, will'ya?" I asked what he meant. "Ah nothing I'm just tired and its in the middle of the night". When I was going to get up from the sofa he started hugging me and kept me sitting there. I left eventually.
We've been in contact for 4 weeks and 0 talk about future relationships or the past. We talk like we are good friends. He shares a lot about his life but nothing about love or romance. The connection doesn't deepen.
