Boyfriend asked me to give him 6000$ and when I said I can’t he got so defensive, rude and angry at me. What should I do?

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We had an argument about he kept on saying he is not mad but told me to f*** off and leave him alone. Now he is ignoring me all day. What should I do?

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Rob1n Follow
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Don't give the money. He is acting like a child and should not be rewarded for that. If anything, if he keeps on acting rude to you, he is just a shitty boyfriend. You can do better than that.

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20yearsolder Follow
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Keep your money and get a new boyfriend. It's all manipulation, eventually you'll give in and give him the money. Whatever the six grand is for is his responsibility not yours.

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Bambalicious Follow
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He wants your money but not necessarily you. If a man really loves and respects you then he’d never treat you like this. I suspect there’s something up with him and I question his loyalty.

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Ms_Facesitter Follow
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Gold digger alert. Abort Mission. Cancel relationship. End End End.

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  yes, sound weird
  
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TommyMountainFigure Follow
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What should you do? Go out enjoy yourself and find a better boyfriend.. Preferably one who doesn't want to sponge off of you!
After all, isn't that what he TOLD you to do?

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mandyfire98 Follow
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6000 dollars sounds like something illegal is happening, I'd run run run

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Friendlybro79 Follow
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Are you seriously unsure of what to do? What would you tell someone else to do in this situation?

This isn't meant to be sarcastic but I know you can figure this out.

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TheMajesticKing777 Follow
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Break up with him cause clearly he seems to just be using you for money

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worldscolide Follow
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Wtf sounds like he was using you for money. I'd drop him if I were you.

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Baylay Follow
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Do not give the money. He should understand it's your money and not behave like that. Leave him on his own

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Jackblue Follow
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6000 dollars, seriously he expects you to just give it to him, what is it bail money

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Crankor Follow
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Tell him to f off and find yourself an actual boyfriend

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Shamalien Follow
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6k? That’s pretty steep. Wtf does he need it for? In debt with the mob?

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jimmy2 Follow
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If he that way say goodbye then due to life is so hard trying to get bills paid so he be that way and worse

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Anonymous
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Dump him and find someone who doesn't ask you for money.

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spartan55 Follow
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Sounds like a great dude.

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Anonymous
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Nothing. You sound perfect for eachother.

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Agape93 Follow
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Break it off

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anon1903 Follow
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What a pussy

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