If a man keeps saying I should go to the strip club with him, why? What does he think will happen if I go to thr strip club with him?

[Anonymous]

[Impalitteri]

I don't know. I personally find them repulsive. I've only been to one in my life, when I was in Virginia where they have a no public nudity law. I bought a Pepsi and watched the trick shot pool competition on TV as I didn't want to be there. Unfortunately, I had to be there because of a "battle buddy" policy while I was stationed down there.

[Asker]

Whats battle buddy? You literally HAD to be there?

[Impalitteri]

Yeah. When we left post we had to go in groups of 2 for safety purposes. We were spending Halloween weekend in Norfolk, Virginia and unfortunately my buddy wanted to hit up a club. So while I could have refused it would have made for a tense weekend so I took that hit. I payed not attention to the dancers until one sat at the table and started talking to me about random stuff.

[Asker]

Well I am glad you hate those places. I always have to hear about guys liking them at my job. Yeah its u professional. there's two guys who randomly bring up stripclubs and strippers a lot and i just think these guys must be braindead.

[Impalitteri]

Yeah. I don't get the appeal. I know people both male and female who enjoy strip clubs. I will never understand, nor would I ever ask a woman to go with me. Definitely sounds like their intentions are less than pure though.

[Iron_Man]

He wants you to grind on a stripper in the back room

[Asker]

He likes to watch lesbians?

[Asker]

Also... i thought the strippers are the ones grinding!

[Iron_Man]

He probably wants to introduce you to a stripper get her phone number and pay her and watch you have lesbian sex in person don’t ever do that

[Iron_Man]

He’s a bad influence on you you should get rid of him

[Iron_Man]

Does it really matter once you’re in there you take turns probably then he’ll take it to a hotel room next Like I said get rid of that loser

[Asker]

Gotcha 👍 yeah i can't believe a guy would try to do all that to me... Some guys are just plain crazy. I would never do that atuff1.

[Asker]

Stuff* and thank you for letting me know.

[Iron_Man]

Awesome you’re a good girl I appreciate you

[Asker]

Thank you :)

[Iron_Man]

Thank you so much dear for most helpful Award

[Asker]

Thanks for th help

[Iron_Man]

Yes of course 😊

[Bambalicious]

That you’ll be interested in girls and be more willing to have a threesome.

[Asker]

Wow... he thinks a woman who gas no sex is gonna jump in and have a 3 some men are truly delusional!

[Bambalicious]

If you’ve never had sex then he’s trying to get you to have sex with him.

[Asker]

Ooh... Still thats really weird way to entice a woman to have sex. Thanks for the heads yp thoguh!

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe he is trying to prime you to agree to a threesome with another girl.

[Asker]

I dont even have sex period. 🤣

[OlderAndWiser]

Does he know that?

[Asker]

Im an innocent type person. Its pretty obvious but if he's dense i guess he might be assuming im like other girls he seems to either know or hear about.

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe he thinks you have some repressed sex drive, like Marian The Librarian, and being in an environment like that will awaken some arousal in you.

[Asker]

Thats what came to mind to me too. He can just go get a loose woman there's plenty around. Im sure he's been in contact with his share... He should stop fantacizing about me