Help please I am confused?

[lilyxsosa1]

I was chatting to a guy for approximately 5 months, and we had a lot of ups and downs since he was a fuckboy. I liked him and was in love with him, so I started acting crazy at one point, telling him how much I loved him in paragraphs, calling him 100 times when he ignored me... all because I was in love and sad and suffering a lot. I began to leave him alone after he told me to do so. Although I still have feelings, I try to hide and deny them as much as possible. However, he isn't around me as much as he used to be, and his friend is He says he despises me and doesn't want to know anything about me, or that he doesn't like it when my name is mentioned, or that he doesn't want to talk about me or the situation at all... What could this possibly be? Is he really mad at me? Should I give it more time? I was thinking about texting him again soon because I still love him and he is very nice to me when he is around me, but we no longer text or talk on the phone.

[Daniela1982]

So you love a fuck boy? Maybe he is afraid of getting cooties from you. Come on! Quit trolling.

[TenkRealist]

Move on. Get over it.

[lilyxsosa1]

Not as easy as it sounds but I appreciate your opinion.

[TenkRealist]

I know. I've even had exes cheat on me. Not worse than that. It'll take time but yeah. That's the best thing to do.

[lilyxsosa1]

Oh wow :( it’s been a year already and I’m still not over him I love him so much… and the hard thing I’m not willing to let go I’m willing to make it work but I don’t know how

[TenkRealist]

Oh it took me three. First is to cut off all contact. Distance even thoughts. Focus on yourself. Focus on hobbies, I took a crappier route but this is the better way.

[lilyxsosa1]

Thank you for your advice I’ll see if I can take it into consideration 💗 because it’s hard part of me still wants to make it work I think about him everyday it’s inevitable

[TenkRealist]

That's just false hope. The longer you hold onto it, the longer it will hurt. Just like weight being held on to. Let it go. If he comes back in time, great. If not, leave it. You'll find someone else.