Am a bitch for leaving him blocked on his birthday?

Anonymous
My ex and I have been broken up for a year and a half. Couldn’t seem to get it right no matter what. I started dating someone else recently and he was very offended. Even called me a bitch and a whore. The other guy didn’t work out but I still did not go back to my ex. In fact we didn’t see each other or speak in over a month. He called everyday using *67 because I have him blocked on everything. I finally gave in and answered and allowed him to come to my law school graduation. He came, then left to go to his friends sisters graduation. He came the next day to meet my family then left to once again to celebrate someone else’s graduation. My family and I all thought it was so weird that he literally begged to speak to me and come to my graduation but left both days to celebrate someone else. It’s the bare minimum that I’ve always gotten which is partially why we are not together.
The second day he left I asked if I could see him the next day and that I wanted us to go to a winery. He said okay but then when he tried to book it, they were booked. Fine. He made no other plans despite me asking what we could do. Didn’t hear from him until 5pm the next day when I made issue that he publicly congratulated some other girl on Instagram on her graduation but didn’t mention me at all. I told him to just leave me alone and stop trying to contact me since he can’t even make me happy.
I haven’t spoken to him since then (over a week) but yesterday he tweeted, “I’m not going to over extend myself to be the fantasy you created in your head. A woman is a treasure but all that glitters ain’t gold.”
It seems like that last part is him saying I’m not a woman that’s a treasure.

his birthday is today and I have no plans of contacting him, which would be the only birthday out of 3 I’ve known him that I don’t speak to him. We typically exchange really nice gifts. I returned his gifts after he called me out of my name. Does this make me a bitch since he went to my graduation?
Am a bitch for leaving him blocked on his birthday?
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