I WON’T WISH HIM A HAPPY BIRTHDAY?

Question

Boyfriend of 5 months didn’t wish me a happy Valentine’s Day. Because he usually never does anything for me I thought today he would take the opportunity and take me out at least or WANT to spend the day with me since he doesn’t want to break up or take a break. His birthday is tomorrow. I don’t want to wish him a happy birthday since I’m hurt and don’t feel like he deserves it from me. Is it justifiable?

Answer 1

Rob19777

Xper 6

So you're going to sink to his immature level and do a tit for tat well if he did it/didn't do it then i will too/then i won't too type if maturity. Try turning the other cheek and being the bigger person in the relationship and if you're that miserable just break up with him

Asker

1 y
I tried breaking it up but he says no! So I was thinking he would do something about it. It was me seeing if things would change and they won’t. So I will end it

Answer 2

Asker

I tried breaking it up but he says no! So I was thinking he would do something about it. It was me seeing if things would change and they won’t. So I will end it

Answer 3

winterfox10

Master

If he doesn't do anything for your birthday or Valentines Day, then he probably won't care if you don't wish him a happy birthday. Some people just don't care about that stuff.

Asker

1 y
Yeah he’s the kind to not care about these things

Answer 4

Asker

Yeah he’s the kind to not care about these things

Answer 5

ciitruskiwi

Influencer

Not really, you're just being extremely childish and immature. He usually never does anything for you so why did you expect differently this time? With him not putting in effort and you acting childish over it this relationship is doomed. Just break up.

Asker

1 y
I know but then why is he refusing to break up or even go on a break? That’s why I was expecting him to make the effort now
ciitruskiwi

1 y
Not sure, you'll have to ask him but you two don't sound too compatible.
Asker

1 y
I know! I meant it as a rhetorical question. He refuses to break up yet he doesn’t make an effort!

Answer 6

Asker

I know but then why is he refusing to break up or even go on a break? That’s why I was expecting him to make the effort now

Answer 7

ciitruskiwi

Not sure, you'll have to ask him but you two don't sound too compatible.

Answer 8

Asker

I know! I meant it as a rhetorical question. He refuses to break up yet he doesn’t make an effort!

Answer 9

SarahsSummer

Master

No being vindictive in a relationship is not healthy at all. Communication and understanding each other’s needs would be far more beneficial. If you can’t do that, that relationship is doomed.

Asker

1 y
Kind of already is doomed because of what he did (n’t) do
SarahsSummer

1 y
Then you should just leave. Don’t waste time and energy with negative bullshit.

Answer 10

Asker

Kind of already is doomed because of what he did (n’t) do

Answer 11

SarahsSummer

Then you should just leave. Don’t waste time and energy with negative bullshit.

Answer 12

boggboss | 50 opinions shared on Valentine's Day topic.

Master

Lol throwing mud in a relationship will never make the relationship be better or work but meh play games if u want u both will get hurt

Asker

1 y
You didn’t answer my question. I asked about it being justifiable
boggboss

1 y
No it's not justifiable to act like a child
Asker

1 y
Men always stick up for other men REGARDLESS of the facts. On some level you all must be gay!
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boggboss

1 y
If u was a guy say it this I would equally say u are being retarded I just told a guy to stop being clingy and a cry baby so relax lol

Answer 13

Asker

You didn’t answer my question. I asked about it being justifiable

Answer 14

boggboss

No it's not justifiable to act like a child

Answer 15

Asker

Men always stick up for other men REGARDLESS of the facts. On some level you all must be gay!

Answer 16

boggboss

If u was a guy say it this I would equally say u are being retarded I just told a guy to stop being clingy and a cry baby so relax lol

Answer 17

TheFlak38

Guru

as I always say love for women is only what the man does for them. It's all about them and their vagina. Women are incapable of love.

Asker

1 y
I’m asking for a fucking text message you dumb dumb

Answer 18

Asker

I’m asking for a fucking text message you dumb dumb

Answer 19

Destinyjean

Xper 3

Valentine's day is not a big deal... however his birthday is. You seem very materialistic.. not a good quality. Do as you please with this information lol.

Asker

1 y
Lol I seem materialistic because I expect my boyfriend to wish me a happy birthday? Are you fucking normal?

Answer 20

Asker

Lol I seem materialistic because I expect my boyfriend to wish me a happy birthday? Are you fucking normal?

Answer 21

elite665

Explorer

Wtf this relationship sounds toxic

Asker

1 y
It kind of is and is not.

Answer 22

Asker

It kind of is and is not.

Answer 23

DiscomfortZone

Explorer

#Stupid
#AttentiinWhore

Asker

1 y
Just like your mother
DiscomfortZone

1 y
Stay in school, brat 😆
Asker

1 y
You’re the one throwing insults at me and I’m the one who should stay in school? Lmao you’re so fucking ugly
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DiscomfortZone

1 y
Insults? No. Criticism for the pathetic attention whoring waste of space that you are. You? You answer with "yo momma!" and "you ugly!" like some pathetic 13 year old. Forget school, just hit the streets and try to make a buck off your body, that's obviously your final hope.
Asker

1 y
You’re fat and ugly momma should have swallowed you lol the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree right! You sound resentful and bitter as hell. Where did you go wrong in life? You need a major attitude adjustment.. OR MAYBE some therapy.
Asker

1 y
Or a mental institute. The first step would be to ACKNOWLEDGE that you’re a failure and then see what suggestions the therapist has for you?
Asker

1 y
Also trying to “insult” or as you put it “criticise” someone you don’t know on the internet tells me EXACTLY what type of person you are lol ugly, fat, bald, bitter. You get my drift.
Asker

1 y
How fucking dare you try to spread your toxic shit
DiscomfortZone

1 y
Please continue embarrassing yourself further, cunt :) It's quite hilarious, how you drop from highschool, to elementary school, to kindergarten level "insults" 😆 Like I said, a stupid attention whore. You're enjoying this, aren't you?
Asker

1 y
You make me laugh 😂 me and my friends talk about dudes like you all the time lmao we’ll all laugh at you later. Your fat momma cunt should’ve swallowed you. Period.
DiscomfortZone

1 y
Yeah, attention whores usually move in groups :) Good luck on the streets, cunt!
Asker

1 y
Hahahahaha! your momma is a cunt and she should have swallowed you. PERIOD
Asker

1 y
On a serious note though. I really hope you die.
DiscomfortZone

1 y
You seem to know a lot about swallowing :)
DiscomfortZone

1 y
Hey, you're the one on the streets swallowing for drug money, most chances are you'll die before me :)
Asker

1 y
I hope you die from all the cock sucking your gay ass haha been doing lol
DiscomfortZone

1 y
Oh, a homophobe! You just keep digging your own hole :)
Asker

1 y
You gay boy.
Asker

1 y
I just saw you’re from Israel YUK you gay jew

Answer 24

Asker

Just like your mother

Answer 25

DiscomfortZone

Stay in school, brat 😆

Answer 26

Asker

You’re the one throwing insults at me and I’m the one who should stay in school? Lmao you’re so fucking ugly

Answer 27

DiscomfortZone

Insults? No. Criticism for the pathetic attention whoring waste of space that you are. You? You answer with "yo momma!" and "you ugly!" like some pathetic 13 year old. Forget school, just hit the streets and try to make a buck off your body, that's obviously your final hope.

Answer 28

Asker

You’re fat and ugly momma should have swallowed you lol the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree right! You sound resentful and bitter as hell. Where did you go wrong in life? You need a major attitude adjustment.. OR MAYBE some therapy.

Answer 29

Asker

Or a mental institute. The first step would be to ACKNOWLEDGE that you’re a failure and then see what suggestions the therapist has for you?

Answer 30

Asker

Also trying to “insult” or as you put it “criticise” someone you don’t know on the internet tells me EXACTLY what type of person you are lol ugly, fat, bald, bitter. You get my drift.

Answer 31

Asker

How fucking dare you try to spread your toxic shit

Answer 32

DiscomfortZone

Please continue embarrassing yourself further, cunt :) It's quite hilarious, how you drop from highschool, to elementary school, to kindergarten level "insults" 😆 Like I said, a stupid attention whore. You're enjoying this, aren't you?

Answer 33

Asker

You make me laugh 😂 me and my friends talk about dudes like you all the time lmao we’ll all laugh at you later. Your fat momma cunt should’ve swallowed you. Period.

Answer 34

DiscomfortZone

Yeah, attention whores usually move in groups :) Good luck on the streets, cunt!

Answer 35

Asker

Hahahahaha! your momma is a cunt and she should have swallowed you. PERIOD

Answer 36

Asker

On a serious note though. I really hope you die.

Answer 37

DiscomfortZone

You seem to know a lot about swallowing :)

Answer 38

DiscomfortZone

Hey, you're the one on the streets swallowing for drug money, most chances are you'll die before me :)

Answer 39

Asker

I hope you die from all the cock sucking your gay ass haha been doing lol

Answer 40

DiscomfortZone

Oh, a homophobe! You just keep digging your own hole :)

Answer 41

Asker

You gay boy.

Answer 42

Asker

I just saw you’re from Israel YUK you gay jew

Answer 43

Anoniemus

Yoda

I would do the same.

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