How to make boys stop looking at my chest?

[Anonymous]

For future reference, I'm transmasc. I get heavy chest dysphoria when guys look at my chest, because I hate that i feel like they're perceiving me as a girl. how do i stop this from happening?

[ohshee]

Buy a shirt that has a mirror on it so that way when they're looking all they can see is themselves so they can see what kind of fool they look like

I within say something like do you look at your grandmother or your mom like this I see they forgot to put your bib on this morning cuz you have drool all over your shirt

I mean I feel bad for you but I think in time you will figure it out and try new things like baggy shirts I know that's not what you want to do probably

I'm trying to think of something smart-ass to say that would just embarrass them

You could always say something like dude make up your mind I was watching you walk down the hallway and all you're doing is looking at guys crotches and how you looking at my boobs make up your mind don't worry when you grow up yours will grow to

I think first of all I don't know what age you but they might keep growing do you have to have other decisions that you're going to be up against I feel bad for you just love yourself embrace yourself somehow and you need to say something like would you stop would you just grow up and fucking stop and I mean look at them straight in their eyes when you said cuz that would embarrass them

[TheSpaceGnome]

Sorry, but that "transmasculinity" stuff is nonsense, stop pretending girls can't like the same stuff as guys.

As for your problem, if you have boobs, and they are in sight, people will occassionally stare. There isn't anything you can really do about that other than distancing yourself from those people or telling them off, because you can't control where anyone looks.

[Asker]

Didn't say girls can't like the same stuff as guys lol, I just experience gender dysphoria to a degree where I believe I am not meant to be a girl

[TheSpaceGnome]

Well you are a girl, and the only reason for you to think you weren't meant to be one, is if you think you like things that guys like (ie thinking you think more like a guy).

But you can think any way whatsoever, and it has no bearing at all on your gender.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I can think I'm a toaster oven, it doesn't make me one.

[Birdlegs]

If you got titties then guys are gonna look that’s just how it is. Wear hella oversized clothes that’s all I can advise really. Or use tape or something to make you look flatter😭

[EdwinLivingston_]

Never mind how your chest looks. It's beautiful in everyway and we men love to stare at those. You only have to worry when nobody stares at your chest.

[Asker]

I really don't want people to look at my chest though, how do i prevent this?

[EdwinLivingston_]

You cannot and you should not

[Asker]

... but I don't want to be perceived as a girl, and I want people to not look at my chest because that makes me feel uncomfortable?

[josephinelcajon]

Put one hand/arm over your chest and say "excuse me I am up here!"

[Anonymous]

You can't. I am 32 and men/boys have been staring at my chest for 20 years or more. I caught someone staring just a few minutes ago. As time goes on, you will get used to it.

[Kaivalahali]

You can't control boys eyes or anybody's eyes but what can you do is fuck what people to thinks and if he staring at your chest you can shut him upp. That's all you can do

[TenkRealist]

You can use stuff to make it seem smaller or wear baggier clothes/lose weight

[Wise4myage]

Over sized blouses can help, but guys are always gonna stare, so just try to ignore them.

[Iron_Man]

Wear a football jersey

[Avicenna]

You really can't as long as it's visible to them

[In_Trance]

Jesus...