Over the past few years of being online, it just seems that the number of men who hate and the condescension of older women is enormous and never ending. Can someone explain to me why?
Why do men hate older women so much?
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Explorer Age: 271 yMost guys fetishize younger girls so it's the opposite for them...
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Well women are shallow too but I understand your frustration...
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Maybe.. It depends on the person... There are cool guys you know
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Oh.. I see your point now
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- Xper 6 Age: 221 y
Well women do have an expiry age usually when it comes to relationships. Men don't. Maybe that's why. Either way, it's rude to just plain hate people
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That's fan. But how men in their 40s and 50s are pulling 20 and early 30 year old women? Most can. Women generally can't do the same.
- 1 y
Oh I've seen quite a few. Some even got married.
- 1 y
Empirical evidence has also accumulated in support of women's preferences for older men, and as you might expect, the data often overlap with those data supporting men's preferences. As this sample of Conroy-Beam and Buss's (2019) review suggests:
Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them.
In online dating, women make the first contact with older men at a greater than rate they do younger men.
Marriage records show that women are marrying men who are older than they are by about 3 years.
www.psychologytoday.com/.../what-we-know-about-age-gaps-in-dating-love-and-marriage - 1 y
Vast majority of marriages in the world are under 10 years age gap
www.pewresearch.org/.../ - 1 y
On avg, and "cross culturally". What was the sample sizes? Who were those "cultures?". If you put, Muslims for example in the mix, they get arranged marriages pretty young. I was talking about modern Western women. And sure, much of the population do get into relationships early on both fronts. That's not my point. My point is, after 35, women reach a wall. Men have options. At least until 50-55.
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"Globally" yeah. I'm bit talking about that. And please, do not send anyone wikipedia as a source of info. It can be edited by anyone.
- 1 y
hun, I am 26 years old. I am not attracted to men over 40. Vast majority of women my age are dating guys under 35. I know this for a fact. No need to spew BS to make yourself a few better.
Sure you saw a few 40 yr olds who married a 28 yr old. But these marriages are very few in between in comparison to billions of people. - 1 y
And I am 20. If you're not into them, that's totally fine. You do you. Good for your friends too. But again, that was not my point. Majority of 40 year old men can pull a late 20 - early 30 year old. Most women can't do that for men. That's my point. I'm not talking about averages here. These marriages are few because either the men live the hook up life with younger women or because they choose to not date that young. Not lack of options.
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Wikipedia isn't a research source my guy... the rest were on global sources. Meaning across the world. I'm a jealous guy for stating facts? And I'm scared of ageing? According to my theory, I don't have to be scared. That's my whole point.
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And I would say a good proportion of men (who didn't make brutal wealth mistakes) would have a decent sum. Much more than a woman at that age anyway generally plus be at a better position job wise.
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Dude, I'm not talking about you. I'm talking in general. You may be different. That's fine. If anyone seems to be angry, it's you. You're the one spamming comments. Look up the female "wall".
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At first glance, 5.4% of the US population makes a six-figure income every year. However, this number is a bit skewed. It takes into consideration the entire population. This means it includes infants, students, and spouses who choose to stay at home instead of work. When you factor out these demographics and focus only on full-time workers, around 9% of all earners in the US make at least six figures.
This means that almost 1 out of 10 full-time workers in the United States make at least $100,000 per year. Of course, this number increases when it comes to geographic location, profession, experience, and education level
www.credit.com/.../ - 1 y
According to new data from polling company YouGov exclusively shared with Yahoo Finance, just 9% of Americans are earning $100,000 or more a year. The survey checked in with more than 2,000 people on their maximum earning potential, also asking how much they currently earned.
According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS), the median weekly earnings across all ages, races, and both genders was $908 for the most recent quarter of 2019. That translates into just over $47,000 for the year.
www.yahoo.com/.../...n-xers-boomers-185011477.html - 1 y
@tenkrealist
Men hit the wall too. The wall for men is usually 40.
And vast majority of men will never ever be rich in their lives.
Only 5-9% of the population end up making six figures.
Nowadays due to increased cost of living, making six figures doesn't even buy as much as it used to. - 1 y
Who are the vast majority of that 5-9%?
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Answer my question. Are they mostly men or women?
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I ask you for the third time, please answer me. Who are those 9? What's the proportion and guess their average ages.
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Why are you dodging my question?
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Not "if" I'm saying, make your stand clear. And answer my question.
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Dude. I'm not pissed off. I don't even know you. Why would I be pissed off?
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You've still not answered my question? What's wrong with you? Why can't you just answer the question instead of deflecting it? Is it that hard?
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All you're doing is personally attacking me, claiming I'm "mad" like you know me, and not answering a simple question. You think inability to have kids, being overweight, likely poorer, wrinkly (women do seemingly age worse skin wise) and looser is attractive?
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young women are flooded with young attractive men with a full head of hair, tall strong and fast in their 20s-30s. Guys start becoming financially stable in their 30s.
what makes you think she's gonna pick an old aging man with hair loss, wrinkles, saggy balls, white hair, erectile dysfunction?
unless you have a shit ton of cash to give to her, she's not gonna give you any attention.
Men have a wall too. Once you hit the wall, watch the pretty young ladies stop coming. - 1 y
"Young" women, yeah. I agree. I never said young women didn't. But most of them at that age, use that skills to hook up like the train, have an abortion or two/give birth and be a single mother. (30s is pushing it, let's say late teens to late twenties). Guys become stable in 30s. Precisely. And they can pull most women, even a whole decade younger. With maturity and success, men's options increase. Until they're too old to move well. Maybe over 50-55.
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I did not "constantly" bring anything up. It is you who did. And you're right. I do agree that some women don't find that "attractive". And that's fine. No pain to those men. If not you, then another one.
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if you're a 50 yr old man, you're likely gonna be dating a woman who is at least 40. If you're 40, likely to be dating a woman at least 30. Realistically, marriages between a 40 yr old and a 20 yr old is highly rare. Most women in their 20s are dating guys , less than 10 years older.
And plus, single women can have kids / family without a husband. A single man can't have kids / family without a wife. Thats the gift of being a woman. She doesn't have to wait forever to have kids. SHe can just have them. Its not a curse, its a gift. - 1 y
If you're 50, then yeah pulling 20 year olds would be difficult, not impossible but 30s would be relatively easy and 40s much easier. A whole two decades younger. Women don't have that privilege at all. If you're 40, you can pull someone in twenties. It happens. 30s come even easier. Early to mid 30 men are the cream of the crop. It isn't a "family" without a man. She can't have kids after a certain age. That's her USP too. Especially after mid thirties. Men can get a girl pregnant whenever in general. Or go for adoption/surrogacy. Like I said, "options".
- 1 y
What data have you "enforced"? Some generic ones that talk about global population while you refuse to even answer simple questions. Why don't you just block and run? That's usually the next step. Because you do really seem offended. I don't know why. You are only 28. You have 7 more years, give or take.
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Yes, because men CHOOSE it. Not due to lack of options lol. 40 year olds can pull 20 year olds. It is very much possible. The phrase men age like wine, women like milk, isn't a lie.
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[What data have you "enforced"? Some generic ones that talk about global population while you refuse to even answer simple questions. Why don't you just block and run? That's usually the next step. Because you do really seem offended. I don't know why. You are only 28. You have 7 more years, give or take.]
how am I offended? I know what is true. I know for a fact that vast majority of 20 something yr olds do not date 40 yr olds. There is also data and statistics to prove that.
I'm in my 20s. I'm 26 and I'm not attracted to guys over 40. Simple as that. - 1 y
Yes because the majority of 20 year old women are busy hooking up and whatnot, preparing themselves to be second fiddle to older men later on. Either way, they win.
- 1 y
[Yes, because men CHOOSE it. Not due to lack of options lol. 40 year olds can pull 20 year olds. It is very much possible. The phrase men age like wine, women like milk, isn't a lie.]
I know what I'm attracted to. You don't need to tell me what I'm attracted to. Unless you're gay , you have no right to tell me what I'm attracted to. - 1 y
Yes and that's fine. I didn't say ALL women are/would be.
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Again. If not them, then someone else, guys have time my guy. And see? A whole DECADE of difference. Even you nonchalantly admit that. I push it a bit further to two.
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How do you know about their dicks? You've been with a few or what? More sexual experience, more willing to try in bed and have the knowledge as far as I'm aware, can still have kids safely in most cases and strength can be gained back to a large extent, not that you need it much in today's world anyway... Stamina can also be extended as far as I'm aware.
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Sweetie, have you taken a look at the data and research? Vast majority of marriages are 10 years or less apart.
I dont appreciate you telling me that we , young women, find wrinkles , hair loss , weight gain, erectile dysfunction to be sexy ok?
Sure a few weirdos find that attractive. But not vast majority of us. - 1 y
Many do. I'm sorry to hurt you. But yeah. Marriages? Lol.
- 1 y
Sounds like choking on too many 40 year old dicks have made you go crazy. Take it easy okay?
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Course not. But just giving you a taste locally. That's all :)
- 1 y
Did you bang someone over 40 yourself? Yes/No?
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Right. Thought you weren't into old and wrinkly. See? Only proving my point. Nearly 20 year difference. I wouldn't consider you marriage material either since you've been run over this much but yeah. Yup. Proved my point yet again. Good day :)
- 1 y
But i can say that banging guys in their 30s is most enjoyable. I've done massage and jacked off 40 something yr old guys before. Never had sex with them tho. Their dicks tend to be smaller, softer, less powerful, ejaculate less, slower to cum, less stamina, tire more often during sex
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Bro. I don't need to know. You sound like my ex who tried to get me into cucking telling me all your past stories like chill...
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Again. I don't need to know. I'm sure your "skills" are great but yeah. Use that on your boyfriend.
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Yeah. I'm not big about that hookup life anyway. So I'll be fine. Thanks for your concern though. Although you seem quite feisty, if you were in London area, I would be interested in talking with you at least. I like women who can hold their ground.
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That's sad. My condolences. Kids ideally need both a father and mother. Maybe enter a mutual relationship if you can't love. You can still bang and raise kids together.
- 1 y
I never had a boyfriend ever in my life. All the guys who liked me, i never liked back. The very few guys who i liked either didn't like me back or were too old or had personality issues
I fell for a 46 yr old man before. He also liked me too. But i rejected him cuz he was too old. He was 22 years older than me and he has kids. I couldnt imagine still wanting to be with him if im 40 and he's 62. I know i will leave him sooner or later - 1 y
Well yeah everyone has preferences and you're free to have them too. Tbh I don't think I would be able to be in a relationship with you either 😅 Although you may well make a good hook up though. A very feisty one. Just putting that out there. But yeah that's sad. Maybe you'll find someone nice who knows
- 1 y
Although I guess you would be fun to date or even get into a friends with benefits thing with. Don't know why guys haven't stepped up. Personally I like feisty women. They're totally my type
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That's only fair 😅 I didn't expect anything lesser anyway. So it's more like a truce then.
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Well like I said, you've been ran over quite a bit and have done prostitution. Most decent guys wouldn't be cool with that. Also, humour senses vary. I'm more of a stupid joke kind of guy. I've met girls who laugh like crazy for my dumb jokes and I've met ones too serious to even talk to. So yeah. As for Charisma, what I find charismatic won't be what you find so. Hence, yeah.
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@tenkrealist
Vast majority of guys dont care if i had casual sex. Literally out of 30 guys i have met said they didn't care if a girl has casual sex. And vast majority of them said theyve also done casual sex themselves
And as for the prostitution part, nobody would know if i dont tell anyone.
I tell u cuz i have no interest in you - 1 y
Yup. They wouldn't. Because they're looking to pump and dump you themselves. None of them would marry you :) Not one. Unless they were crazy in the head. I tell you this because I have no need to please you.
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Course not, but as with everything, it comes out eventually no matter how hard you try to hide it.
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I am not so sure about vast majority. Maybe in your circle. I know a large proportion has for sure. But yeah even if she doesn't open her mouth, it comes out eventually, either through a friend, or a blurt out. Tons of girls have only had a partner or two. Serious partners. Nothing more. And that's fine. Sorry to say, cumdumps are not desirable by high value men.
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Vast majority of the women in the US have done casual sex. Especially in large modern cities within the millenial population. The only places where causal sex is uncommon are traditional conservative all white southern rural communities where people attend church every Sunday. Out of the 30 guys I've met over the years online dating, i have only met 1 person who had a problem with casual sex. I dont have a hard time dating. I've had many guys fall in love with me over the years. You should worry about yourself
You think girls share their one night stand stories with their girl friends. They dont. I've had many girl friends over the years, none of them ever told me about a one night stand. The only stories of hookups that i hear are from guys I've slept with.
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Sorry, fell asleep. No I don't think it is uncommon at all. I'm sure in your slutty circle, it is even more so, and I don't know what diseases you're all carrying too but yeah. I don't believe all women are like that and that there is a sizeable chunk who are decent and respectable enough not to engage in that. How will I know? Are you saying nearly all women are pathological liars? Sure, I may not know. But you can almost weed out a large chunk through guessing and being with them, you'll be in the first group of weeds but yeah. You go until you find someone, if you later find out they've been a whore, you leave them. I've got options. I'm cool.
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No woman is gonna ever tell you she had a one night stand. You can't find out how many men a woman has slept with like you are trying to find out a woman's age on her ID card. There is no record of it. You can claim that you can find out all you want. But there's a higher chance that you won't find out than you would.
I have a friend who used to have casual sex in college In New York. Now he is 29 years old , moved to Texas and married to a woman with a baby. His wife had no clue he slept around in college. They're happily married too. - 1 y
Yup. But trust me. It'll come back to bite her. Sooner or later. On one fated moment, either through her own blurt out, through a friend she told, or an external factor, it will come out. I've seen it happen over and over. Truth can be hidden, but not fully suppressed. It may take some time, it'll be out :) And when it hits, oooh it would be better for her if she's dead.
- 1 y
[Truth can be hidden, but not fully suppressed. It may take some time, it'll be out And when it hits, oooh it would be better for her if she's dead.]
I think there is something mentally wrong with you if someone who has casual sex deserves to die.
I wouldn't wish anyone date a mentally ill person like you. - 1 y
Oh I was tricked already by my ex. I found out though she tried to hide it, she was at my mercy since well, I had stuff over her. But yeah, I let it go out of my own pity. She still to this day, fears I'll ruin her life, that's my little revenge :) That fear is sweet. But yeah maybe not, but it'll come out. I've been there. I know.
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I didn't say they should die, I said they would wish they were dead because of how differently their partner who trusted them, will see them. Like a slut. You don't decide who I date anyway and as I said, you're not that material as you've agreed yourself so relax.
- 1 y
Do you really want me to be honest with you? I am not a slut. I might've done casual sex with a few people, but I never truly enjoyed doing it. When I was younger, I've done it because I didn't have a boyfriend and didn't have a man to discover myself sexually with. Then it was about companionship and feeling less lonely. In the past, I only have casual sex with guys that I like, know, trust, and admire as human beings. I don't like doing it with any random guy off the street. I've never had a one night stand. I just had sex with guy friends that I trusted and personally liked. The time received money for sex was when I was in desperate financial need during college. Honestly, I've gotten so sick of it that I don't even have casual sex anymore.
A true slut is something who enjoys hooking up, sleeping with random people. And its not something that I can relate to or understand either. But I don't wish ill upon them. Its not like they are bad human beings or have done something morally wrong such as robbing or harming others. I have equal respect for them as people. But personally, I wouldn't marry someone who enjoys sleeping around either. I don't understand or share their values. But when it comes to people attacking "sluts", I will defend them as human beings fiercely. Because they do not deserve to be attacked that way.
- 1 y
Now, what your ex did to you was wrong. But you have to understand that you can't check someone's casual sex history like you can check someone's age on their ID card. There is no 100% guarantee of anything. Even nuns at churches have gotten abortions. Even priests have sexually molested children. Even some church girls had done unprotected sex. You can't always take things at face value.
You can date whomever you want to date. Whether its virgin girls, or church girls or nuns. I don't care. But you do not treat badly to people who do casual sex. They're morally upright individuals who do not harm others, do not rob, attack, steal, or kill. By hating on these people, it just comes to show how close minded and SINFUL YOU ARE. - 1 y
We are past the dark ages where a woman would be considered "unwedable" if she wasn't a virgin.
We are past the dark ages where a woman would be killed or shunned by society if she got pregnant prior to marriage.
Its no longer the 1600s. Treat people civilly in society.
At the end of the day, by bullying other people, you are the one committing a SIN. - 1 y
I don't know why you're telling your sexual history to an absolute stranger, nor do I want to care about it too much. If this is truly your history, I would go lighter on you but you certainly wouldn't get away with anything. And I still wouldn't date you (I'm sure you feel the same about me and that's cool). I do feel sad that you were pushed into prostitution for money, no one should go into that. I'd rather beg or live in poverty than sell myself but that's me. I do not wish harm on sluts. I wouldn't want anything to do with them, nor would I want them in my life. Just like if they were abusers, manipulators, cheaters or pedophiles. I don't care so much about "true sluts". A slut is anyone who engages in casual sex out of free will for any reason. Including financial. I have no desire to "attack" anyone. But I will stay away from such folk with a passion if I can help it UNLESS they truly regret their past and wants to move on.
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Telling the truth and/or carrying out justice is not bullying. Also, sluts aren't in a position to talk about sin in my humble opinion. Maybe I'm wrong. If that's the case, so be it. You "think" we are past that. It is still in the minds of people. It will never be taken away. It can be suppressed. That's all.
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[Telling the truth and/or carrying out justice is not bullying. Also, sluts aren't in a position to talk about sin in my humble opinion. Maybe I'm wrong. If that's the case, so be it. You "think" we are past that. It is still in the minds of people. It will never be taken away. It can be suppressed. That's all.]
The reason why you persecute "sluts" is the same reason why people persecute "homosexuals". Same reason why people persecute those who have kids before marriage. And its because of brainwashing. You were raised being taught that these people should be persecuted.
What you don't understand is that the VAST MAJORITY OF PEOPLE IN ***MODERN SOCIETY*** DOES NOT AGREE WITH YOU. You see casual sex as a sin. We dont. You see homosexuals as sinners. We don't. WE SEE YOU AS THE SINNER.
There is no justice you are carrying out. You're simply bullying good, decent people who don't hurt others, cheat, lie, steal, rob, or kill. how are you proud of that? THERE IS NO LEGITAMATE REASON WHY YOU'RE CALLING THESE FOLKS "BAD PEOPLE"! You can look for all the excuses on earth. But nothing will ever justify them as bad people.
And guess what?
100 years ago. Someone like you who is a non virgin, will be deemed as unfit for marriage too.
Keep yapping your cheap mouth about how virtuous you are. - 1 y
Again, you are throwing our baseless accusations without evidence. I don't care what the "majority" thinks. The majority once thought slavery was okay. The majority in Nazi Germany thought Anti Semitism was okay, the current woke culture things women can be men and men can be women (biologically impossible) which is also bs. So I don't care for the "majority". They can think what you want. I am not going to say I "think" you may be anti homosexual or racist without evidence. Based on what you told me about your sexual life, I do conclude that you're a slut. I am not persecuting you. I don't care what you do. You're free to do it. You have no value in my life. I'm just saying things as it is. If you're hurt, I'm sorry. But I'm honest like that. You've constantly been calling me all kinds of things (without evidence because you know you have none) so yeah. I'm ending this. The time I allocated to you is up. You're just butthurt at this point. Good day.
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You can act like you don't care as if you're not out there to persecute "sluts".
But your anti slut tone of voice, along with your death threats to your slut ex girlfriend, along with you seeing death threats along with bullying of "sluts" as a form of JUSTICE, shows that you're an immoral anti
Trust me, I am not butt hurt. I don't have a hard time dating. Neither do I have any interest in dating an hateful anti.
I am the one looking down on you for being immoral, hating on moral innocent people for no justified reason.
You have yet to be able to come up with a legitimate valid reason on why people should hate on sluts.
It sounds more like you're offended. Thats why you're resorting to calling me a slut non stop. Sweetie, I have no trouble dating. Vast majority of men don't reject women who have casual sex here. So you won't hurt my feelings. - 1 y
the nazis hated on jews. but for what valid reason? NONE.
In fact, I currently work at a jewish univeristy. The jewish people are one of the sweetest , most civil, respectful people I've ever met.
500 years ago, Christians hated on homosexuals, for what valid reason? NONE
200 years ago, Whites hated on blacks and Asians. For what valid reason? NONE
Now you're hating on sluts, for what valid reason? NONE
What have sluts done to you that was so terrible that you're wishing death upon them or saying that they deserve to be bullied as a form of justice?
you have no reason. you have stated no legitimate reason.
this is what makes YOU the immoral person, not the slut.
- Yoda Age: 26 , mho 39%1 y
I don't, my wife is four years older than me, and I've had relationships with women way older than me.
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