Do men cheat if they are not getting enough at home?

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KirbyFan246 · Accepted Answer

Both men and women deal with this issue. Cheating is a biproduct of a lack of communication (not being heard or listened to), a lack of intimacy (Not enough time to be loving, with cuddles, hugs, kisses, and/or sexual acts), and/or Compassion (when you're not concerned and caring for your partner, or their feelings).

Whether or not they actually cheat depends on their morals, because some people won't cheat, even if their needs are not met. I am one of those people. It's important to have open discussions about being sexually satisfied, because this kind of topic can be hard to bring up in a casual sense unless you're open and comfortable talking about it, which is why open dialogue is extremely important. Most sexual needs can be met in the privacy of one's bedroom between two loving partners whom want to please one another and make love.

Only the Loving are loved. If two loving partners are consistently working together to make a relationship work and pleasing each other with everything they do for one another, cheating tends to never become an issue, though it's possible to be tempted. That being said, strong couples stomp temptations into the ground because they love their partners and will do anything to keep the relationship balanced and loving. That's the power of love, you can overcome any obstacle of a relationship, and between two loving individuals whom are genuinely devoted and married, that bond is STRONG. All you have to do is be committed, (Com) Passionate, and Intimate, as well as communicate openly, Trust, Be Responsible for your role (s) in the relationship, and offer room for your partner to be vulnerable at times, (even if they're the strongest person in the world, everyone has bad days, and good partners help their spouses when they're at their lowest, like with a death in the family, or when a tragedy occurs, or maybe they're ill or damaged, or crippled), amongst other small things. Regardless, Love does conquer all, and only the loving are loved. Men and Women can work together, and ward away any temptations that can destroy a relationship, such as infidelity.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

People cheat for a lot of reasons , so yes that can be a reason , But it isn’t just men , Girls cheat as well , Cheating is a selfish decision period , it seems today more people cheat because of social media and having more options to choose from , People aren’t as content anymore , they constantly Compare their lives to others or compare their relationships to others , thinking grass is greener on the other side , The sad thing is you can give your heart completely to someone, , remove selfishness for that person , love them unconditionally and they can still turn around and shit on you. Most people want what they don’t have , they don’t respect what they have right in front of them they tend to get bored and play a victim , when sex dies down in a relationship that pretty much means the relationship is dying down , especially if the sex is one sided , the girl I am with now only gives me sex when it’s convenient for her but if I try to initiate sex , she turns me down , so honestly my love language is not being met from her considering I feel like I am constantly giving without receiving , I express my feelings of concern to her all the time and she doesn’t listen , it’s pretty much her way or no way , At times I feel I want to walk away and meet someone that wants me like I want them , and sadly to say part of me is open to meeting someone else , considering I have expressed my feelings of concern to her over and over and nothing changes , she tends to play games with me like we are in high school and it feels like she is stringing me along keeping her options opened , so all I can do is pretty much play her game , focus on myself and do what’s best for me , I am tired of getting my heart shit on and tired of being used , there is only so much you can give to someone without receiving, My thing is though if I do meet someone else and feel amazing chemistry and connection , That will be my answer to end it with my current girlfriend , I am not seeking anyone else but if that someone else comes to me I will probably be open to accepting it,

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

Men and women both sometimes cheat when the sex at home is non extent or just so so!

Flower7 · Accepted Answer

Some cheat even if they’re getting enough at home. That doesn’t always matter.

Jabberjaw · Answer

The most common reasons stated for a man cheating, is that nothing he ever does is good enough for her.

So basically she doesn't appreciate the things that he does do for her and that no matter how much she does she's always wanting more and more and more and more and more, never pleased.

Part of a woman showing her appreciation for her man is sex. So if he's not getting up enough at home it's likely not just that he's not getting enough at home. That's just a symptom of the overall problem

It's also worth pointing out that man instinctively by Nature want more than one girl. We are just told from a young age that we should want one woman and to choose one woman

It's entirely possible that he simply was not ready to have a monogamous relationship with a woman, or I didn't really want it. It's possible he was checked out of the relationship

But it's also possible that he loves his girl, and he just want to have sex with another girl because that's his nature 🤷‍♂️. There is a an emotional part and then there's a male nature part

One of these are within control so I pointed that one out first

globetrotter22 · Answer

That or there is some sort of “forbidden thrill” about it. Also men don’t get approached for sex as often as vice versa. Sometimes it’s just the fact that a man can cheat is enough for him (still a bullshit excuse though).

Anyway not to remove guilt from the cheating man but from my observations women tend to much more attracted to taken vs. single men when all else is equal. I noticed this bullshit every time I got in a relationship. Other women suddenly came out of the wood works. The only time I ever cheated in my entire life was when I was 16. The neighborhood girl knew I was taken but aggressively came on to me anyway (she was unfortunately more physically attractive than my girlfriend too). I confessed it to my girlfriend, she dumped me a week later and I made a vow to never cheat again and I haven’t ever since.

Ladies just because a man is taken it is not a for sure sign he’s “in demand” or better with women. It’s even worse when you go after a taken man out of jealousy. You creating a f*cked up situation all the way around with this. Don’t do it.

ohshee · Answer

Men cheat because they don't love you like they say they do men cheat because they think they are smart and they're not going to get caught and when they do get caught they act like a little crybaby and beg for forgiveness that's just another manipulation they knew exactly what they're doing when they did it and they decided to do it they decided to have sex with somebody else come home to you and act as if nothing happened like you are completely stupid that is worse than cheating I think men cheat because they want to and they think they can get away with it and they don't give a f*** about anybody else except for themselves

HopefulGuy94 · Answer

No matter what happens there could be no excuse for cheating it is really humiliating thing that some kind of animals cannot even do. It has to be forbidden but I dunno how. Why playing other people's emotions like a toy of a child , what is the logic behind it , why talking to him/her if u r not happy with them instead of talking to them , what is wrong , why making the other person to spend his/her time for nothing , why utilising people's pure feelings against u? Wtf is that thing just why , by the way keep this in mind that if u cheat on someone some other day u will be also much more likely to be cheated on , EMPATHY pls

Waldoe · Answer

men cheat because of biology... BIG difference between the sexes...
Men- Hunter Gatherers, they are always looking for opportunities to breed, we can do it a couple of times a day and it feels so good...
Women- Life Givers, when they become pregnant, they instinctually Protective and nurturing... this last for the next 50 years...

in the meantime, men are hunting for new opportunities for sex... women are loving their child... if it was different, babies would starve, while Mom's just wandered off...

Blame the creator, His plan.. be fruitful and multiply...

rebeliouse · Answer

@heartless2u
not always

i would ask you though how would u feel in a sexless relationship if your not getting any of your sexual needs met. is that fair?

were on this planet max roughly 100 years for very few lucky you dont start to have sex till your 16 18 and then it wanes when you 70ish so thats 50 years that you can enjoy the pleasure. if its not forth coming in that time then would u really choose to stay in that relationship? some have to because of other commitments shared capital kids etc so your then in the difficult position that you can't leave and you dont get your needs met so what other options do you have discuss and agree open relationship and if that is not on the cards are you then punished for rest of the relationship?

IJhonnyI · Answer

Look men cheat if they are the type to cheat, there are loyal people and there are cheaters and that's for all genders male, and female, no matter what there's unloyal people no matter how mad it gets me or gets anyone no one can stop it it's just the world we livin and reason why I don't do relationships at the moment

razelove · Answer

Men and women will both stop being in a relationship if they stop getting/giving attention and affection. What happens from there depends on the person, break up, desperately trying to glue back together a broken vehicle, cheating, what have you.

There are many reasons for a relationship to end, and loss of affection (not getting any) is just one of them.

MrOracle · Answer

Some men will, yes. Others will try to make you happy or take you to counselling or otherwise try to change your mind - for a while - and if nothing changes, they'll leave you. A few will stay for a long time and not cheat, but they're miserable, and even they will eventually leave or cheat, after years of trying not to.

DumbOldNHung · Answer

That depends on the man. My first marriage, I went 22 months before I started having an affair. My marriage now has been once in 2 years, and it’s to the love of my life. And I’ve got to honestly say that I’m starting to seriously think about having a lover. My wife and I have been married for 20 years. For physical reasons, she and I are not likely to have sex again. I would need to have it be ethically non-monogamous, for BOTH of us. It’s a discussion that is down the road a ways, however. In the meantime, I’ve got the web, as utterly boring as it has become.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Some men cheat & some don’t. Some women cheat & some don’t. As for me I always say a blowjob a day keeps side chicks away & when it comes to sex if people aren’t getting it in a relationship their most likely getting outside of the relationship.

As for me I’m not in a relationship but if I were in a relationship loyal I would be.

mobiusforniner · Answer

Yes. And its not sex. Sex is one component of a relationship. Too many women think a man is happy if he has sex. I get plenty but still cheated. Why?

If a man is feeling fulfilled, valued, and with a purpose he won't have the desire to have those needs filled elsewhere. For responsible people, cheating is seldom an impulsive act. A woman who comes into his life filling the voids his spouse or girlfriend leave open, then thats how cheating starts. Same is true if the table were reversed.

Reaper1985 · Answer

well there is an old saying that when if a relationship with a guy. keep his belly full of good food and help him empty his balls regularly. if you want to keep him around long term. but all jokes aside couples that have regular sexual encounters with each other. where they can both gain pleasure from and get to orgasm typically are happier long term. because a enjoyable sex life with between partners is often what holds a relationship together during good and bad times.

Fireguy17 · Answer

it generally comes down to more than just sex.
Usually something (s) else is missing at home.
They can be seaking attention, both physical and mental, someone who appreciates them, seeking valdation, and sex can all be a part of that.
The excitement of doing someting wrong can also be a part of it too.
something different than the same old thing every day.

ChiTown33 · Answer

That's misleading. It's not the amount really. You could say it's seemingly lack of attention. But that's not really true either. It's SELFISHNESS, pure and simple. Don't ever let someone tell you their cheating was YOUR fault. I mean you may have been an unattentive partner (for whatever reason (s)). But THEY made the decision to cheat, Not you.

Adronicus · Answer

Doubt I ever get in another relationship again, I don't trust my own judgement when it comes to women. I learned to live without them. Before I was jaded I never cheated but would instead communicate that I wasn't happy, this is why & if it doesn't change I'm leaving.

baserunner611 · Answer

True Story, I man was with his wife in bed, she want to make love. He say no got up walk around Philadelphia, PA for 4 hours for some to rape. He climb two apartment building than raped a girl he was catch but the police.
He just want to know if he get away with it. He want to know he get away it

Ditto626 · Answer

A lot do but not all of us. If there's something I can do to help my partner get in the mood I'll do it but if she absolutely doesn't want it and I'm not happy I'll end the relationship first before I find another partner.

Djaay · Answer

People cheat because they can and want to. Cheaters are'nt those with solid convictions or with great substance as an individual. They're busy being what they're NOT and they're the epitomy of humankind. The funniest thing about cheaters is that it takes two at the same time , male and female. And they always find each other at the expence of others who who are'nt cheaters.

serious · Answer

The answer is No. In general that one reason is not the most important reasons.

However, yes if a man's sexual desire is unusually high and he is not getting enough at home then that might give him a reason to seek elsewhere.

DuoMee · Answer

Rephrase the question: Do partners cheat?
Being honest, just about everyone thinks about.
Actually having an affair with others shows a lack of moral, commitment and generally being spineless. Honesty is a huge bonus, if you can find it. Goes together with trust 😉

Beatrix7 · Answer

yeah my ex boyfriend cheated on me for 2 yeaes left me for her now still my friend nd still wants to sleep with me cause he said he can't get enough off her fuckn wanker

laraWM · Answer

Maybe some do and it can be some root cause but most of the time, it comes when you are being invisible and not listen to the other one. If you talk to each other it is less likely it happens

Anonymous · Answer

Men who cheat do it for exactly the same reason women cheat... they are emotionally unsatisfied in their relationship. Men and women tend to have different needs that must be met to satisfy them emotionally, but in the end they cheat for the same reason.

clemdenim · Answer

it is seldom about how much, or how good the sex is, it is more about something different, or someone different to talk with, the one nighters are about just a different partner for a change, the girl on the side is more of a friends with benefits. may be hard to understand , but he may still love his wife, and have no desire to leave her.

Panzer21 · Answer

Its certainly increases the chances. Not getting sex might make a man feel like his lady isn't attracted to him or doesn't love him anymore, he'll either drop the woman or seek out someone else who fulfills those needs.

1GoldTwins · Answer

It's possible, but don't blame yourself if he does. Cheating is a choice. That is in his control and his alone.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on the people. If someone is not courageous to tell that they want to break up, they can cheat. Women can cheat if they are not getting enough at home too (sex/care) but i think coward people cheat.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes but also if thd opportunity arises. I always make sure my guy hasn't a drop of cum left before he leaves the house espicially if he going in a night out with his friends.

dustybiker · Answer

People chest when they give themselves permission to.

laurieluvsit · Answer

Well, if they do, I'd say that would be a major reason for it, yes.

Anonymous · Answer

A woman that denys her man sex, is taking from him one of the main justification of the relationship. So she is in fact testing the mans commitment, and some would say abusing him if her reasons for doing so are arbitrary.

Lionman95 · Answer

Yes it´s one of the main reason why a guy is cheating. If he doesn´t feel like his girl is giving all her life he will look for it somewhere else.

aialex · Answer

People cheat because they want to cheat, no matter why, where, how or who they are.

AviatorTom · Answer

That's the main reason escorts and prostitutes exist... because they do what isn't happening at home.

itsalyssaagain · Answer

Not always. It could be a factor to catalyse cheating but a decent man will always be decent, and an idiot will find any excuse to cheat.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's like a man's nature. all the male animals do it. but sometimes they kill each other or kicked out of nest or being eaten by female. I don't think it's a big deal as long as he is willing to share the place together after marriage. he still loves her wife and fooling around is acceptable.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

I think so yes. That's why my dad cheated. Even when they fucked, she would literally just lay there and not even moan. No blow job. No shower. How fucking lame.

LazerBean · Answer

Most cheaters will cheat, regardless of circumstances.

Tjw78 · Answer

Cheating qualifies as evil in my book. I have more respect for myself and the people I date, than to go down to that level.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Many do, the less casual sex a man has had, the more likely he is to cheat. In my experience

Subarugirl · Answer

No, the cheat because of a lack of integrity. If he wanted some somewhere else you would get divorced not sneak around like pathetic looser

VikingWarLord · Answer

Biitch ever tells me NO, I'm definitely gonna go find it elsewhere. Life is too short to NOT ENJOY the best pleasure on earth, SEX

Pudsmucker · Answer

I would say yes they would do the cheating if they are not satisfied at the house. Lot of women use sex as a weapon to give what they want.

Luopio27 · Answer

Some cheat because of the excitment of doing wrong and chances of getting caught. Goes for both genders.

RHK36 · Answer

Some men AND women that cheat use it as an excuse. They trash for doing so regardless of the reason. There's no valid reasons to ever cheat.

DizzyAster2 · Answer

No, it's not a direct correlation. If couples are not having enough sex, then there's other reasons the couples needs to investigate with communication.

Neilbud · Answer

I'm going with no. A man might leave if he's not getting enough. But a cheater will cheat no matter what. Hell just cheat faster if he's not getting enough.

Hanrej · Answer

Some cheat anyways. The reasons why are many and it's too hard to gaurd against all. Instead everyone needs to take responsibility for their actions rather than the reasons behind them.

Creampiekarl420 · Answer

Yes we do and we don’t have to have sex but jerk us off or something -KEEP HIS BALLS EMPTY- at that point if he cheats he is just a pervert or the girl was really hot

genericname85 · Answer

No. Maybe some idiots do. But normal men will try to fix it and if that doesn't work, they break up.

libsaretards · Answer

Do women cheat if they are not getting enough at home?

Anonymous · Answer

Not all men NO. Only some men. If you can't communicate or whatever. Not every man cheats and not every woman cheats.

Anonymous · Answer

Some do. Others just get used to being invisible. What's more interesting is what these women expect their men to do just because they don't feel like putting it.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I don't, but I'm not staying in a relationship I'm not satisfied with either.

RuthlessAggression · Answer

Many do but not all. They feel like they can't be honest about what they want, so they go behind their partners back and cheat

MountAverage · Answer

Don't make this about gender and be less generalizing, and you might end up with a reasonable question.

alance99 · Answer

Not true, some people will cheat no matter how much they get in life and no excuse is valid for cheating

Christian65 · Answer

guys also cheat when they get used to the girl and she becomes boring to sleep with, even if he has sex with her frequently.

Rizwan_khan · Answer

It is not about only men women do cheats also if she didn't get enough at home but yeah we can say mostly are men but now every thing is going equall.

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