If he is interested in this girl wouldn't he add stories so she get to know him as a way to talk orso vicevarsa?

[Anonymous]

I go into a few details to understand me better.. so please read it fully i dont have friends to talk about this kind of stuff sadly.. we live in an social media time so this kind of things happens...

I saw him a few times at weddings and will see him soon again and it looked like he signaled some intrest in me ( and if he's intrested than he knows he will see me again soon) i know him he's the brother of a friend but never talked to him so i saw he has an instagram.. and my curiousity is high... there is a reason why i do not send him immediately or follow him so please dont tell me that but yeah so

It can be just in my head but mostly when i added a story after a few hours or next day he will add a story (our insta is public we re not following each other) sometimes after days i dont post he doesn't post and than when i post a story a few hours later he post a story..
But about 10 d ago orso he added a random girl on instagram and suddenly he doesn't add a story anymore (Even when i add something)
There were like 1 other girl following him but he didn't followed back so she unfollowed him i think, he's following list is not large and needs a cleanup to think he deleted her… after they started following each other he unfollowed a random girl that didn't follow him back eventhough she follows a lot of random guys too…
she is the only random girl that he follows others girls are married or family because he is not a total stranger to me i just never talked to him

The girl is very active with posting stories daily and she has a lot of guys on her insta

He is not typical story adding guy but still its like almost 2 weeks…

If he wanted to know her or to let her know about him and he's life a bit wouldn't he post stories so she can comment on it as a way to talk to each other? Showing a bit of he's life… and i think he want to have a relationship to marry…

i know its stupid how i think and do... but im very sure im not the only one

[spartan55]

You've posted about this guy multiple times and you are still trying to 'figure him out' or whatever? Sounds more like you are obsessed and stalking him hard. You say it's a social media time like it's the ONLY option to get to know someone/start a relationship. That is absurd. How is that working out for you?

[Asker]

not about this guy just stories about what im doing in my life very lowkey actually and not daily... its absurd i know and its not the only option but there are reasons why this is the most safe option for right now and time will show how it will progress maybe start talking but if he's actually interested in another girl i want to stop thinking he might wants to be friends with me and who know dating etc...

[Asker]

but i see that we (you and i) have a big age gap to understand i think...

[spartan55]

Haha, the age card. I have been online since the internet began and you weren't even born. I've seen and experienced both sides (real life, online) and know there are large differences that very few young people consider. So if you are implying that I'm 'out of touch', or still using a rotary home phone 😂 That certainly isn't the case.

[Jamie05rhs]

Here's a novel concept:
How about actually TALKING to someone if you want to get to know them?

[Asker]

i would actually, but his sisters did dirty to me.. "forgetting" to invite me for her bachparty and when a friend asked if they forget me 1 week before, her big sister said "but we have a chairconcept and there is not enough of it oops.." bs ofc. than at her wedding i felt he signaled something and a few times more i dont know if me talking first to him is the option since i think his sisters did dirty to me like nope you're not welcome in the family... because actually there are better girls around and perhaps his family are right if that was really the reason...

[Jamie05rhs]

Aww 😕