Why would he chat a lot with another girl if he was in love with his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Hello, I have a crush on a man. He’s got a girlfriend. People say they’re in love. Why would he chat with me almost everyday and ask me a lot of questions? And why he told me he doesn’t know if he would call it dating when I asked him if he dates her? He knows I have feelings for him and still keeps in touch with me even though he’s probably in love with someone else. He never talks about her and when I ask about it, he doesn’t look very comfortable talking about it. He doesn’t flirt with me but shows interest in my life and my problems. What do you think about it? We are not even friends. There’s a weird relationship between us that I don’t know how to call. Sorry for my bad English and have a nice day.

[spartan55]

You know this guy has a girlfriend and you continue to chat with him. This is very disrespectful to his relationship. The right thing to do is back away from this guy. Immediately.

[Asker]

We are colleagues. I have to talk to him. And I won’t ignore him if he wants to talk. It’s a little bit complicated. I don’t want to talk about details, but if I told you more, you wouldn’t be so judgmental.

[spartan55]

I didn't say anything about ignoring him, I said back away. There is a line between professional conversations and personal ones. Hopefully you know where that is. You can say I'm judgmental, but you have a part in this.

[Anonymous]

1st 90% of guys like to keep girls around..
(Normal Friends , friends with benefits , Girl Friend)
He put every girl in her zone From his point of view..
2nd maybe he dont care about you..
He is just curious and wanna just take your mind..
(Guys knows how to take girls minds)

[Asker]

I’m sorry but what does ,, take someone’s mind” mean? I’m not a native speaker.

[Opinion Owner]

Its mean like what u do now..
Thinking about him all time lol

[Asker]

Oh, ok. :-) And why would he want me to think about him if he didn’t care about me? When I don’t like a boy and I know he likes me, I try to avoid him. He does the opposite. It kind of hurts me, you know. Especially when he wrote that he thinks about me a few times. He is always so nice, it would be better if he didn’t give me mixed signals.
And what do you think about the fact that other people say he’s in love with her, but he talks about her like it’s not that serious? Does he love her or not?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know if he love her or not
Maybe her play with her too
And why he do? To keep you..
He dont wanna lose you in the same time so if he didn't give you sweet talks you may dissapear

[Asker]

Ok, thank you very much. I think you are right about it.

[Opinion Owner]

You are welcome..
But my advice for you..
Take care of your self..
Nothing is more precious than you..
Sadness kills

[Asker]

Thank you so much. <3 I’ll try not to worry about him.

[Opinion Owner]

Try to care about more than one
This will help i think lol

[FilmGuy93]

Maybe he's insecure and uses the other girls for an ego boost.