Why would an old man start a conversation with me and my mom just because we spoke in a different language?

[Marianna546]

He has been in that cafe some days ago and today he again was there lmao... So we were peacefully drinking coffee and he started asking dumb ass questions like "Are you foreign?" and etc etc and my mom said "Why do you care?" and he was like "Oh you are so mean... you need to level up a bit" why are some men so damn immature? do they really think we women MUST reply to any creep who doesn't have manners and stare at us?

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+1 y

Foreign in that country i guess means "easy" to those perverted greeks...

[WindAtMyBack]

Maybe he was just being friendly. Maybe it's a culture thing and people don't do that where you are from.

Where I'm from nobody would think anything about it. People walk up and talk to strangers all the time. Where I'm from your mom would have come across as extremely rude and bitchy.

From my perspective there is absolutely nothing wrong with what he did, unless there is more to it than what you are saying.

[Marianna546]

yeah he has been sitting next to us all the time and he actually was staring at us in a ride manner

[WindAtMyBack]

OK, yea, that might be a little different. I don't know of any cultures where it's OK to stare at people any length of time.

[Marianna546]

yeah he was weird in general lmao

[WindAtMyBack]

Lol, he won't be the last weird person you come across. I've run into some pretty darn weird ones.

Something I've noticed though is that most of the really weird people are pretty harmless. It's the charismatic people that I'm going to watch closely until I figure out what they're about. A lot of them are Pied Pipers and manipulators. They are people magnets and the people let their defenses down.

[Marianna546]

yeah truee

[BeMuse]

What's rude about asking if you are foreign? You sound like you have low self-esteem and are ashamed of your heritage. Most normal people would be like, yep I'm from Denmark or Italy and am on vacation or they'd say nope I'm I am just multilingual.

[Marianna546]

not it was the way he was staring ans asking that in greece there are a lot of nationalists and racists i love being Russian lol

[BeMuse]

Typical people ask questions like that because they interested in meeting people from different countries. They don't want anything from you except conversation. They are being a host for their country and in process learning about different cultures...

[LazerBean]

Because people are curious about other cultures. That's it. People ask my mom and I all the time. It's not a deal at all. It's like when someone complements your jacket and asks where you got it, it's literally just making conversation. Geez.

[Marianna546]

My mom has experience with men like those trust me the way he was looking at us wasn't ok

[Marianna546]

He was nasty and Weird

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Because he's a racist. That's it. That's the entirety of it.

[OneManOnly01]

Isn’t it obvious? He was hitting up on your mom.

People here are saying he was just curious but I don’t think a normal guy would go out of his way to stare at your mom and then approach her and start a conversation without even having anything relevant to say.

He was just trying his luck and he was hoping he could get something from your mom so I think it’s pretty obvious he was hitting on her.

And I believe that talking and socialising with people like this is just a dumb idea in general. The conversation should start naturally, if you try to go out of your way to forcefully interact with someone (like he did with your mom) then it’s obvious you’ll come across as a creep.

[Whatever2929292]

Some people have no boundaries really and aren't trying to be rude it is just how they are. They just say stuff to you and stuff like this. Personally I don't talk to strangers much when I am in public

[Marianna546]

By the way about that girl... I also think she is a troll but she tries so hard to make me feel ugly, a bitch and stuff... Anyway thanks for your opinions <3

[Whatever2929292]

I think that she is projecting who she is onto you and other people. You're welcome when someone follows me or accepts my follow I try to answer their questions as a thank you

[Marianna546]

hehehe i will follow you back you seem cool and intelligent. She for sure is projecting that! like what a sane person would do that?

[Whatever2929292]

Well thank you!!! That meant a lot. Yea I agree with you. I don't know why some people do that they are just bad people who enjoy hurting others

[Marianna546]

but why hurt me? i literally am sweet with everyone here

[Whatever2929292]

That is what they enjoy doing. You have been nothing but nice unless someone came at you first.

[Marianna546]

exaclyyy... she makes me want to cuss sometimes

[Whatever2929292]

People make me cuss on here all the time. LOL you are nicer then I am

[Whatever2929292]

I was going to send some nasty messages telling her to leave you alone since I think that same user is bothering some others as well but she turned everything off

[Marianna546]

you think this is the same user? lol then she was sure is a troll

[Whatever2929292]

There is a chance it was. It might have been the same person under another account or anonymous

[Marianna546]

lol she called me racist just because i once said something abut black peoplelol well they definitely aren't saints they put on fire places in america and are very mean (some of them but idc what she thinks)

[Whatever2929292]

Marianna546 well... I mean nobody is all saints. I think she is a deranged leftist who gets off on harassing people online. Some people are bullies and stalkers

[Whatever2929292]

Some people will attack the same person for YEARS on end

[Marianna546]

Yeah exactly

[Whatever2929292]

I have seen some really nasty cases it really sucks when someone attacks and you done nothing to them

[Marianna546]

Υeah well I don't know really

[Whatever2929292]

I mean hopefully this does not go on that long. I think she sees people who she thinks are better then her and she has to tear them down

[Marianna546]

She thinks i am racist, a bad person I don't know why i literally didn't say anything bad about anyone

[Whatever2929292]

She is projecting who she is I guess. People call me stuff like that when I NEVER said anything racist or sexist or whatever I am being called

[Marianna546]

Lol some people misunderstand racism i guess i know i am not

[Whatever2929292]

Yes they do for sure LOL. Many people who use that word do not know what it even means

[Marianna546]

Lol racism is when you kill black people call them niggers and stuff i never touched black people and we have people here who are black and i had a crush on an Albanian boy once lol

[Whatever2929292]

Marianna546 yea and you don't seem like that kind of person. Racism is when you think one race is superior or inferior to another. People on here have also called me a racist

[Marianna546]

I don't think anyone us inferior lol

[Marianna546]

Some years ago black people were inferior though

[Whatever2929292]

I mean if people think I am going to be politically correct they are sadly mistaking but LOL

[Whatever2929292]

I don't think they were lesser of people. I agree they have been through some really bad stuff in the past. But I literally don't know people who are openly racist and even if they are they would never admit it

[Marianna546]

Yeah exactly🤣...

[Whatever2929292]

Trust me I get it.

[Marianna546]

Lol yeah

[Whatever2929292]

lol yeah. Most people don't think that stuff about you. I don't

[Marianna546]

Of course they don't i ama good person

[Whatever2929292]

I have a good feeling about you

[Marianna546]

Thanks

[Whatever2929292]

You're welcome

[Whatever2929292]

Its been great talking to you

[Marianna546]

yeah to u too

[Whatever2929292]

thanks that means a lot

[Th3ft]

So… you and your mom are both very beautiful woman and as a guy who has been called a creep at times I can say that you would both be hard to not be interested in however pretty faces dose not make it okay to creep and I’m sorry this guy was such a jerk about it! Hopefully he doesn’t bother you anymore!

[Avicenna]

Maybe he was just curious. Once in Germany I saw an older German man ask two South Asian women which language they were speaking with each other- he was just curious.

[Guy__]

For a long time I thought Greece would be one of the few places I'd like to visit, I'm sure not all people in there are shitty.

[EnglishEuropean]

What country was this? I'm guessing Greece because Greeks are known perverts.

[Marianna546]

Exactly

[Creampiekarl420]

To be fair ( sorry if this makes you uncomfortable) you’re mom is hot

[Marianna546]

thankss

[Guy__]

Bro she looks like a normal mother of an 18 year old.
And why would it permit an old guy to say rude nonsense to a girl?

[Marianna546]

@Guy__ my mom is very pretty...

[Guy__]

Most women are pretty

[Creampiekarl420]

@marianna546 no you’re pretty she’s a baddie💯 ( again sorry if that makes you uncomfortable 😂)

[Guy__]

She's not 10 years old just because she is close to her mom, why would an 18yo be uncomfortable being called pretty.

[Creampiekarl420]

@Guy__ would you be uncomfortable if I called your mom hot most people would I know I would 😂

[Guy__]

She's now in her 50s as I was the youngest boy...
But I wouldn't mind if she doesn't mind.

[Marianna546]

@Guy__ not most...

[Guy__]

You are exceptional but that level isn't a requirement to be called pretty.
I still value your personality more than your face.

[Marianna546]

@Guy__ you think i am cute but u value my personality too

[Guy__]

Yes you're perfect for a relationship.

[Creampiekarl420]

@guy__ @marianna546 can you two dm each other and stop 3rd wheeling me

[Marianna546]

@Guy__ thankss

[Anonymous]

You totally missed your opportunity. I'd have said, "Yeah, I'm foreign and I don't speak English".

Probably because you bottom feeders always assume every guy that talks to you is just dying to get into your knickers. To paraphrase a movie.

[Mate100]

He's mostly interested in one of you. Pervert alert!

[athlete_for_lyf]

Ignore him just stay away if he makes u uncomfortable.

[Anonymous]

Christ you and your mother sound like wonderful guests.

[jjj101010]

Maybe he was trying to hit on one of u

[Marianna546]

weirdo

[Snsl153]

What did he even mean when he said "level up"?

[Imsmurter1]

Sounds like homeless guy

[NYCQuestions1976]

This is why people don't speak with one another.

[RuthlessAggression]

Level up?

What does that even mean

[Kim7mik]

Who is he