Do bully abusers who pick on women chose me because of my giving generous trusting heart?

[Nki7xde]

I think i realized its cause i am giving and trusting by nature and willing to be frinds with everyone off the bat and give love. They are abusing my nature

[Avicenna]

Bullies pick on those they think they can get away with bullying

[Nki7xde]

What is meant by get away with and why wiuld they get away with it with me

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm afraid that is how it works for bullies. They pick on the nice, the weak, timid.. they see it as easy prey!

I don't suggest you change who you because of them though because then they win.. Just be more careful in future who you trust!

[IJhonnyI]

No they pick on people in general

[Nki7xde]

I dont get it. Yes they do but how come im one of the people

[IJhonnyI]

That's just the life we live in people pick on people that have never done anything

[Nki7xde]

How do you deal? When it happened to you.

[IJhonnyI]

Look personally people know not to pick on me I just give off that don't fuck with me energy but it's not a good way too live because sometimes people you care for will be affected in the process so advice for you is don't let it bring you down forget what they THINK about you and just KNOW who YOU are no need for peoples OPINIONS to make you a bad person you were gifted with a giving an generous trusting heart don't let the people that don't deserve it mess you up just be careful on who you choose to trust and be generous too no need to be mean for no reason that's just in general

[Nki7xde]

Thank u so much i feel you ❤❤ love ur advice

[IJhonnyI]

Take care 🙏🏼💯

[Anonymous]

Yes, they see you as an easy target.

[Nki7xde]

I need to possibly stop being so frinly and open to everyone. At least not to those assholes. I can lile make an energy shift especially with them. Riht.

[Opinion Owner]

Then focus on that.

[Nki7xde]

Im already begun and i feel better already!!!

[Iron_Man]

Nope