What moves men to cheat?

[WizzardGirl]

I was shocked about Shakira-Pique news
Especially when I saw a picture of a woman he cheated on Her with
How is it posible?
Why?
If its only sex, its movee by physical attraction
But Shakira is amazing... how why... im beyond confused

[MrOracle]

To start off with, men have a very strong biological drive to spread their seed and to desire VARIATION. Variation is something that no one woman can give. For the vast majority of human history, there was a shortage of men, because the world was such a dangerous place, and because men did nearly all of the dangerous jobs: hunting, construction, sailing, mining, exploring, and obviously war-fighting. This is why plural marriage was so common - in such a dangerous world, and one where manual labor was the only kind of labor that existed, women on their own normally couldn't survive. So you need to keep in mind this underlying drive that virtually all men have.

In modern day, we've evolved civilization and society and we have rules that, in most cases, encourage us to go against our instincts in order to help stabilize society as a whole. Marriage and monogamy were big parts of that, as was religion. But this assumes that all men are taught those rules and morals (many aren't), and that they value those rules and morals (many don't), and that society is there to back that up (Radical Feminism ended that in the 1960s).

As Feminism spread through society, and destroyed the old rules that governed male/female relationships, things went back to a pre-civilization set of rules: he who has the power makes the rules.

Today, the vast majority of women pursue almost exclusively the Top 10% of men - the men they consider the most desirable. This isn't hyperbole - study after study has confirmed this (and, yes, there are a few exceptions). In the past, this simply wasn't possible - people got married and were removed from the pool of single people, and your pool was already limited to people in your geographical era because there was no way for most people to meet anyone they didn't live near. But with so few people being married, and especially so few being married at younger ages, the pool of single people is huge (which should already tell you how broken the system is - more single people means the current system is a failure). And technology has increasingly allowed people to pursue people outside of their immediate area, even though that's not really practical, and this has caused people - women particularly - to increase their standards to insane levels, and for average women to be contemptuous of the idea of being with an average man.

What's the result? Well, the men that nearly all women pursue - the Top 10% men - have nearly unlimited options with women. Women constantly hit on them and throw themselves at them. Those men - no matter who they have at home - nearly all cheat, because the opportunities to do so are constant, and because that's how they lived before they got into their current relationship, so they feel entitled to do so.

The majority of men - the lower 80-85% of men - rarely have the opportunity to have a woman, and they have few opportunities to cheat, so most don't cheat - but to most women, these men are invisible and irrelevant, because in their world, only those Top 10% of men exist.

Women today will pursue those Top 10% men even knowing full well that they have a history of promiscuity and cheating - hell, many times the man was cheating on someone else with her, with her full knowledge! So why they are so surprised when they get cheated on by those men, I'll never understand - every MAN on the planet knows it's going to happen. Those men cheat because they CAN, and because they are driven to want to by their biology, and because few have the moral foundation to deny themselves.

[motownplayer2000]

Lol women don’t understand that looks isn’t the end all be all for most guys. Yes looks attract us, but that won’t keep us interested. Men are simple beings. We don’t need a ton. We need energy, effort and enthusiasm. We need a woman that’s willing to keep things spicy, willing to be adventurous and do things, light-hearted, fun, and can carry a conversation. Most women can’t do that and expect a man to do everything for them. Especially when they know that they are very good looking and can get dick whenever they want. So yeah, that usually won’t keep a man

[PJH359]

For me, it was lack of intimacy and eventually it made me not care and I fell out of love with my ex wife. She was a narcissistic alcoholic and I just couldn’t stand the mental and verbal abuse from the constant gaslighting or the embarrassment at social or family events when she always drank way past her limit. I simply lost the desire to be close to her and even became less attracted to her physically. For the last three years of our marriage I had not touched her. In that time I had met 3 women with whom I had sexual relationships and social affairs. It was such excellent sex because they fulfilled such a desire within me to be close to someone who really liked me and treated me like a man…someone important and desired. I began to fall in love with one of the girls, 20 years younger than myself…but the constant sneaking around and paranoia got the best of us and we mutually ended the torrid affair. I miss her to this day and think of her often.

[IJhonnyI]

Same reason a female would cheat no one is special nor innocent all I know is I don't cheat unless I've been cheating on first but that's just me

[007kingifrit]

if im playing trouble and she lands directly on my piece when i was just about to slide into home, i sometimes move my piece 1 sq backwards. i know it's cheating but i am NOT going back to start

[Texas2stepper]

Didn’t Shakira flap her tongue like a whore for the camera during the Super Bowl halftime show?

[WizzardGirl]

Since when its sexual?
Do you get turneed on seein g a simple tongue flap?
You jave issues mt dude

[Texas2stepper]

No I don’t. She looked like a goat. Thousands of people thought it was vulgar and I don’t have issues thank you

[billmunch]

It's a thrill.

I also like when my SO cheats on me. It adds a litle zip to the sex life

[Anonymous]

Same thing that moves women to cheat. To answer your question, one only need look at your own gender.

[jahaims]

All cheaters are trash regardless of gender. Trash humans do bad things. It is that simple.

[IsoUser]

Once I am with a girl there is nothing that would make me leave or cheat on her Ever!

[cootjuhh]

I don't know but glad he did. time to hunt shakira 😁😋

[teamvic]

Opportunity, and he liked what he saw

[Anonymous]

Dude that is awesome! 🤣🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

looks only last so long