Im really dumb. What guy wants me?

[Dumbbitcc2]

At work im useful but im dumb so ill never probably be promoted. Not that i necessarily want to be. Im a total follower. Not a leader. So yeah. A dumb follower. Its fine with me i just need a man to want me so i can follow him.

[fonduegirl]

Men love the submissive kind of women. How do you think anime is so popular? I mean, all Asian dramas show you.

[Dumbbitcc2]

What Asian dramas are there that you see that in? I never really got into that genre but heard its good

[fonduegirl]

Many. Almost every. Want some good recommendation?

[Dumbbitcc2]

Yes please

[fonduegirl]

Rinko Wants to Try, Love is Phantom, Scums Wish, A Virgin Woman Of Literature etc.

[Dumbbitcc2]

Wow the actors/actresses are so gorgeous haha. Thanks i will check these out.

[WhitneySnow]

Some guys like submissive girls. And don’t be so hard on yourself. You can be useful without being super smart.

[Shamalien]

I wouldn’t say some…it’s kind of our default to like submissive women

[Dumbbitcc2]

@Shamalien its sad then that men dont really ask me out unless its to go to the club and drink which means free sex

[WhitneySnow]

@dumbbitcc2 that really sucks. Tell them no and maybe they’ll ask you out for real. Guys respect you more if you’re not easy.

[Dumbbitcc2]

Thank you ! Hope they get the hint

[serious]

Well, it seems you know yourself very well and you are completely happy and satisfied with who you are and what you are. The way I see it you really don't seem to to care about anything else and you are kind of proud of yourself.

That itself is a good thing, men also find this thinking quite attractive.

You said you just want a man to like you so you can happily follow him, it shows you are willing to comply. That is great.

I am sure there are plenty of men out there who take lead. I wish you best of luck for the same.

[serious]

@dumbbitcc2

Just saw you are on Xper1. Welcome to GAG and I hope you will enjoy your stay here.

[Dumbbitcc2]

Thanks serious. I hppe i am not proud. I wish a man would ask me out

[serious]

@dumbbitcc2

What I meant to say is its fine. I respect that. Nothing wrong with being happy and to be proud of who you are.

Even I am like that.

[serious]

@dumbbitcc2

I am sure someday a man will ask you out.

[serious]

@dumbbitcc2

Anyways you can always PM me if you need any help or support in understanding things or if you just need some company and to talk. I will never mind that.

[serious]

@dumbbitcc2

To you other comment about me accepting and understanding you. You are most welcome. I am also exactly the same and hence I understand well.

[Crankor]

There's someone for everyone. Just might not be the type your looking for. Focus on yourself in the meantime. Finds ways to make yourself happy and like yourself more. Usually learning new hobbies or skills

[Dumbbitcc2]

Yeah i am open to different guys i just dont know any unless they come in my line of sight.

[roy_ricky09]

I disagree. Work on yourself and develop your skills. It's that hard.
First change the attitude and find out why you think you can't be a leader and address those why's.
On my books page on Instagram... I've listed few books that can help.


https://www. instagram. com/ardentbiblio_roy

[serious]

@roy_ricky09

I get the point but maybe she never wants to change that. She seems to be happy and content with who she is irrespective of the consequences.

Even I am also like that. I never wish to change who I am irrespective of the consequences. Some people are just like that. It is a fact.

Hence I understand if she doesn't want to change herself.

[roy_ricky09]

That's a problem then

[serious]

@roy_ricky09

That is fine. As I said it is choice whether a person wants to change or not. If a person never wants to change and does not care about the consequences then so be it.

It is the person's problem.

[serious]

@roy_ricky09

For an outside person, a 3rd person may see it as a problem but the person who in involved does not think that it is problem. For them it is not a problem and so they want to do nothing about it. They are happy and content.

That is what I am trying to say.

[roy_ricky09]

Happy? I doubt that.

[serious]

@roy_ricky09

It does not matter what you think. They are happy whether you believe that not. They are living their lives and I can understand that because I am also like that. Simple.

[roy_ricky09]

When it doesn't matter what my opinion is, why the heck are you reply here? Hypocrite

[serious]

@roy_ricky09

Relax.

Don't resort to name calling and stuff like that. I am making my point in a proper way. I am not making my point in general and for people who are like her and me who think the same.

To be happy you don't need to achieve great things in life. You don't need to be super rich and be a great leader or whatever.

Happiness is highly subjective but I suppose you won't understand that.

[serious]

@roy_ricky09

I can reply in any way I want to. I can reply wherever I want. This is my choice. If you don't like it then don't read it and don't respond.

Simple.

[roy_ricky09]

You dumb. You have your own opinion to give don't justify here. You just proved my opinion right by doing all this. If you start make sure you have the guts to finish it.

[serious]

@roy_ricky09

Go ahead and keep saying what you want. Really it doesn't matter. I don't waste my time on people like you who have no sense of understanding things.

Go ahead and keep babbling. Good luck

[serious]

@roy_ricky09

I don't waste my time on people like you. Call me whatever you want too and satisfy your ego and pride.

No more replies from me.

[roy_ricky09]

That's it? No balls now? Pathetic loser

[Dumbbitcc2]

@serious thanks serious! Thanks for accepting and understanding me.

[Anonymous]

Gee with that kind of salesmanship who could resist. 🤣

[Dumbbitcc2]

I dont tell people IRL this.

[Opinion Owner]

No but you think it. And if you think that little of yourself you probably project it if not visually probably in some way verbally.

[Dumbbitcc2]

I am extremely quiet so probably visually.

[Opinion Owner]

No you misunderstand. Everything you say AND DON'T SAY, says something about you. Not saying anything is saying something still.

[Dumbbitcc2]

I am a bit confused

[Guy13]

That should not be issue.

[Guy13]

Watch though…You’re looking for an Ephesians 5 guy…

[Dumbbitcc2]

Can you describe what he i like

[Guy13]

It’s easier to read it yourself.

[Shamalien]

Guys love girls like that

[serious]

@Shamalien

Yes that is true.

[Dumbbitcc2]

I am so glad to hear that

[TallnBig]

There's a place for everyone somewhere

[TallnBig]

Please don't be so hard on yourself and don't let anyone take advantage of you

[Dumbbitcc2]

Thanks i try to