My boyfriend doesn't want to invite me over?

[Starcluster]

My boyfriend is Japanese. We've been dating for a month and a half. He lives by himself (at least that's what he says), but doesn't want to invite me over. He always says that his apartment is messy and dirty. I'm wondering whether he's hiding something.

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He's 29, I'm 23.

[boggboss]

Its possible he is hiding somthinf or embarrassed to have u over

[JohnK123]

Maybe his family doesn't like that ur a different ethnicity I don't know

[Starcluster]

His family lives in another town tho

[JohnK123]

Ya but r u Japanese too

[Starcluster]

Nope

[JohnK123]

That could be it

[SandandWaves]

is he coming to see you, where you're at?

[Starcluster]

I live in Tokyo, he lives in another town. I'll be visiting his town soon and wondered whether he would invite me over, since he lives by himself. But before I even asked, he said that he doesn't invite people over because it's dirty.

[SandandWaves]

I wouldn't waste my time on a guy that said that to me. Also I would not go see him either.

[Starcluster]

Could you explain to me why do you think so? It'll be helpful, thanks

[SandandWaves]

when a guy likes a girl he will take the time to clean up fpr you, he would want you over you are his prize. He wants you happy.

[SandandWaves]

He isn't putting the effort in for you, you are making it easy for him to see you

[SandandWaves]

you deserve a better guy

[VikingWarLord]

What's your ethnicity

[Starcluster]

Bulgarian

[Anonymous]

Maybe he thinks its too soon for that?