Guys are you courteous and chivalrous only to pretty women or to all women in general?

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Jamesshinobi · Accepted Answer

im chivalrous to a fault. i guess all chivalry is a fault, thats why its not aroumd any more. to the pretty they are unappreciative and expect it (so id say to answer your question yes most people are chivalrous more to pretty) and the "ugly" (i use the word rarely as i dont believe there are truly many "ugly" people.. maybe Amber Heard) are more appreciative and not used to simple kindness or courtesy (again answering your question) sorry im drunk as shit. i quit drinking 6 months ago for health reasons but told my best friend 4 days ago i would drink in his honor for becoming an American citizen amd not to worry about me getting addicted again because i quit cold turkey last time. (i lied I've drunk every day since)

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

I am courteous to every women or person I meet really... I am equal with my kindliness to people in general. I would not say I am chivalrous to women in general but I am very chivalrous to women that I date. So I guess I am more chivalrous to women I am attracted to, because I see pretty women all the time and even though I think they are attractive I am not attracted to them until we are dating. But I definitely do not go out of my way to be especially kind to a pretty girl just because she is pretty.

Rose_84 · Accepted Answer

In my experience only pretty women or the one who wears makeup enough to cover her real face.
They treated my ugly and average classmates like a crap but were showering the pretty ones with gifts and attention. Then they wonder why a woman never respects them or stays loyal.

Spikey_uwu · Accepted Answer

As someone who has both bummy and pretty modes omg the pretty girl privlege is real. Like not even just dudes but people in general just treat me better and are friendlier to me.

Whatever2929292 · Answer

I try to be nice to EVERYONE!!! Though the only women I give special treatment to is family, friends, significant others, etc.

I don't think women are more special then anyone else because of how they were born. But I try and be nice to everyone

Weapon77 · Answer

All women to the point that I guess girls I like don't know they're special 😂 Not sure what to do about that. Feels wrong to basically ignore the girls I don't find attractive, especially since a lot of them make great friends!

lucas262 · Answer

My dad told me to treat every woman like a lady, till she proves she isn't one.

I believe chivalry is a public display of one's value to me. The idea is your not better than me, your irreplaceable to me.

That said I was raised in the south and for the most part people are just nice to each other, so I'd it's yes mam no mam, pick up heavy things just being considerate.

Now romantically chivalry is equal to simping so I'd reserve it for a relationship.

I firmly believe people should gradually earn better investment from you male or female. No more of this giving your whole heart or all of your shits or fucks at the start. Save it till they earn it because you have to decide your value and thay isn't to grow your ego beyond reason thats just a fact in my opinion

Table4YTwo · Answer

I am many things.

I am a gentleman to animals
I am a gentle and generous lover
I am a man of commitment

But chivalry died a long time ago when women were given the power to take half of mens everything including the kid even if she doesn't have a job, relied purely on the mans paycheck and is not of sound mind.

I see many discrepancies in female behavior, I see many intolerable qualities in females that is celebrated such as the idea you can slap me and I can't do anything back.
I will never be Chivalrous to a women if she isn't my partner. I cannot trust a women if I do not know her.

MCheetah · Answer

I'm not courteous and chivalrous to ANY women. Feminism told me that was "sexist" and that women don't need my help. So I'm all about that "equality" game. Carry your own heavy sh*t, change your own tires, and fight off your own muggers. I only help people if they're going to appreciate it or at least say "thank you," regardless of gender.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I try to act the same to all people. The truth is I might be a little blunter and offensive to beautiful people. Think it's triggered if they're narcissistic about it. Otherwise, I don't give a fuck and leave them alone. In fact, I respect them for keeping it out of the limelight.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Only to a lady not a ho. If she's a virgin waiting til marriage or a married woman, either of which behaves appropriately then im gentlemanly otherwise she's a ho and i can treat her however i want seeing as other men already have.

SeekingVirginWife · Answer

Manners maketh man. It is important to treat a lady with respect. Unless she is a ____ing _______ then she deserves to be _______!

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I'm more likely to be nice to someone I'm NOT attracted to. I believe in reparations. I want to level the playing field. "Ugly" girls deserve love, too!

dynamicyandere · Answer

Everyone. Women and men. I reflexively opened the passenger door of my car for a male coworker of mine since I was giving him a lift somewhere and he was like, “I- Er- … Thank you.” 😂

Massageman · Answer

I try to be helpful and accommodating to people who act like they may need or deserve it. If that makes me a "gentleman", I guess I'll just have to live with that.

AviatorTom · Answer

I try to be courteous to all women. It's frustrating, though, when I hold the door for a woman and she looks at me like I'm an alien and blurts out "I can open my own door!"

wolfunknown · Answer

Why keep it in a catagory? Why not just be kind to everyone, men, women, childern...

Lliam · Answer

I'm courteous and chivalrous to all women. I enjoy being a gentleman and treating females as ladies. And I'm courteous to both men and women.

ohsheeT · Answer

I'm just me if I'm somewhere and I meet a girl at the same time at a door I'm going to open it or hold it open until she gets there doesn't matter who she is or what she looks like.. I do it because I want to not because of beauty or anything else

Pyrofox · Answer

For me it comes at the cost of a thank you or a smile. If I get a vibe its a woman with a really nasty attitude I instead just pick up my speed and bolt. I have little need for that negative energy XD.

iSlipKnot · Answer

It's ingrained in me to be chivalrous to everyone. Pretty or not, I'm holding the door open. It's important to do what you can to bring positivity or perform kind gestures. You'll never know what kind of day someone is having.

Man-O-Metal · Answer

All women. I don't treat the opposite sex based on looks.

dolemite89 · Answer

i’m courteous and cordial to everybody regardless of gender and i don’t think women in general deserve chivalry anymore when they are considered our equals. I’ll hold the door open for my mother or if i had a pregnant wife or something that’s different.

Bluemax · Answer

I believe I'm most chivalrous to the elderly.  However, studies show that we tend to treat good looking people better, both men and women alike.

IsoUser · Answer

To be perfectly honest I am completely courteous and chivalrous to all girls no matter their age, all girls deserve respect no matter the age because they bring out the best in us Guys to be honest.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I behave that way with all women, regardless of my attraction to them.

Anonymous · Answer

I am not chivalrous to any female under the age of 70... none of them deserve it.

bolverk · Answer

I'm courteous to any who are courteous to me, the sex of the person has nothing to do with it.

MrCon10t · Answer

I’m chivalrous to all people. Only interested in women though. It’s a man’s honor to treat a woman with respect and consideration. Even if she’s an ungrateful Karen.

Lionman95 · Answer

Generally to all but it depends on my mood and my relationship to them. Because if our relationship is bad my motivation to do so is lower.

Neilbud · Answer

I'll be a little more caring to a girl I like. But other than that no. I try to treat everyone like they are human beings.

whiskeyontherocks · Answer

I used to be very chivalrous.  Sadly I stopped because of the rudeness I experienced from random girls, and the lack of appreciation from my girlfriend. I stopped and it all went away.

Anonymous · Answer

I literally cannot remember when last a man opened a door for me or helped me carry something, etc.  I don’t ever see men doing this unless it was a husband to his wife, that’s about it

OddBeMe · Answer

Only the ones most likely to give me sex. So no one.

Sonorous · Answer

I like to be chivalrous to all humans. I don't look to see their attractiveness level. 💀

VanillaSalt · Answer

Neither. People get basic courtesy from me. Women get no more or less than a man would.

DonkeyDan · Answer

I'm courteous to everyone, and my chivalry is to all women.

serious · Answer

I speak properly and treat all women with respect. Basic respect as a human.

driven159 · Answer

I can only answer for myself I do to all women it's my nature

007kingifrit · Answer

all women in general, i'm not mean without a reason

UniquelyBasic · Answer

I try to be kind to everyone but I go maybe a little further with women Im attracted to though.

RicFlair312 · Answer

Every lady in the world gets the MVP treatment. I always had that feeling. My mother is a woman, I would what every guy to treat her the same way.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm courteous to everyone. Chivalrous? I do that for ME not for any woman. And if I'm less likely to do it for an unattractive woman it's more so as not to mislead her. Some women misconstrue being friendly for attraction.

Anonymous · Answer

If she is ugly, I will just be nice.  If she is pretty, I will give her money.  If she is hot, I will move a mountain if she asked.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I got offered help more often in my good looking days than in my meh days.

Prof_Don · Answer

I’m chivalrous to all women regardless of attractiveness or age 👍🏾

AdithyaR · Answer

I'm courteous to everyone, gender isn't a factor in that.

ReasonCalm · Answer

Only someone who's my girlfriend or over 50 as everyone else don't show no respect for the chilvery.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

Ahh, memories of Aunt B. Fat lady in HR who was in charge of payroll. You don’t piss of Aunt B.

TheoPfeifle · Answer

My courtesy knows no boundaries. I hold doors for men, too. 🤷🏼‍♂️

superdonkey · Answer

I used to be to old women regardless of age or body type but now no way I'm afraid you're going to yell rape or me too or something

MartinGoulet · Answer

I am generally courteous, toward everyone who needs it. The situation will determine how far I will go.

CubaPirate · Answer

I'm too aware that being courteous is offensive to lots liberal minded feminists. So I'm very careful with my displays of gentlemanly conduct

maximumpower · Answer

courtesy is manners.  everyone rates same until they prove they deserve otherwise.

Twalli · Answer

Everyone, even men. If I treat everyone the same, my intentions are never misunderstood.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Both. I don't treat people good or bad based on physical looks.

Gent207 · Answer

I am kind to all until I have reason not to be

charlsmalls96 · Answer

I try to treat everyone the same, tho I honestly i'm probably seemingly less courteous to pretty women since I get nervous around them 😅

PatriceONeal · Answer

All women. But women killed chivalry a while ago.

Birdlegs · Answer

I’m like that with everyone

RavVid · Answer

To all women in general.

Creampiekarl420 · Answer

Why would any straight guy be nice to a woman he doesn’t want to have sex with?

Anonymous · Answer

i leave people alone, unless they are getting murdered or something i'm not going to do anything to help them or give special treatment

Staximus · Answer

All women unless they have a bad attitude

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