Guys are you courteous and chivalrous only to pretty women or to all women in general?

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[DaveJord]

I am courteous to every women or person I meet really... I am equal with my kindliness to people in general. I would not say I am chivalrous to women in general but I am very chivalrous to women that I date. So I guess I am more chivalrous to women I am attracted to, because I see pretty women all the time and even though I think they are attractive I am not attracted to them until we are dating. But I definitely do not go out of my way to be especially kind to a pretty girl just because she is pretty.

[Jamesshinobi]

im chivalrous to a fault. i guess all chivalry is a fault, thats why its not aroumd any more. to the pretty they are unappreciative and expect it (so id say to answer your question yes most people are chivalrous more to pretty) and the "ugly" (i use the word rarely as i dont believe there are truly many "ugly" people.. maybe Amber Heard) are more appreciative and not used to simple kindness or courtesy (again answering your question) sorry im drunk as shit. i quit drinking 6 months ago for health reasons but told my best friend 4 days ago i would drink in his honor for becoming an American citizen amd not to worry about me getting addicted again because i quit cold turkey last time. (i lied I've drunk every day since)

[Rose_84]

In my experience only pretty women or the one who wears makeup enough to cover her real face.
They treated my ugly and average classmates like a crap but were showering the pretty ones with gifts and attention. Then they wonder why a woman never respects them or stays loyal.

[TheCougarHunter]

Sad to read your post. But not all men are buttbags

[Spikey_uwu]

As someone who has both bummy and pretty modes omg the pretty girl privlege is real. Like not even just dudes but people in general just treat me better and are friendlier to me.

[TheCougarHunter]

Reminds me of that Hollywood movie 'The hot chick'

[Whatever2929292]

I try to be nice to EVERYONE!!! Though the only women I give special treatment to is family, friends, significant others, etc.

I don't think women are more special then anyone else because of how they were born. But I try and be nice to everyone

[Weapon77]

All women to the point that I guess girls I like don't know they're special 😂 Not sure what to do about that. Feels wrong to basically ignore the girls I don't find attractive, especially since a lot of them make great friends!

[Asker]

Awesome, you sound like a very decent human being. Kudos to you :)

[Weapon77]

Well thank you lol I've been called too nice many times. Not sure how to take that. I'm not even a pushover like I used to be. I feel like I just have manners in a world where no one seems to, so people thibk it's weird

[lucas262]

My dad told me to treat every woman like a lady, till she proves she isn't one.

I believe chivalry is a public display of one's value to me. The idea is your not better than me, your irreplaceable to me.

That said I was raised in the south and for the most part people are just nice to each other, so I'd it's yes mam no mam, pick up heavy things just being considerate.

Now romantically chivalry is equal to simping so I'd reserve it for a relationship.

I firmly believe people should gradually earn better investment from you male or female. No more of this giving your whole heart or all of your shits or fucks at the start. Save it till they earn it because you have to decide your value and thay isn't to grow your ego beyond reason thats just a fact in my opinion

[Table4YTwo]

I am many things.

I am a gentleman to animals
I am a gentle and generous lover
I am a man of commitment

But chivalry died a long time ago when women were given the power to take half of mens everything including the kid even if she doesn't have a job, relied purely on the mans paycheck and is not of sound mind.

I see many discrepancies in female behavior, I see many intolerable qualities in females that is celebrated such as the idea you can slap me and I can't do anything back.
I will never be Chivalrous to a women if she isn't my partner. I cannot trust a women if I do not know her.

[MCheetah]

I'm not courteous and chivalrous to ANY women. Feminism told me that was "sexist" and that women don't need my help. So I'm all about that "equality" game. Carry your own heavy sh*t, change your own tires, and fight off your own muggers. I only help people if they're going to appreciate it or at least say "thank you," regardless of gender.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I try to act the same to all people. The truth is I might be a little blunter and offensive to beautiful people. Think it's triggered if they're narcissistic about it. Otherwise, I don't give a fuck and leave them alone. In fact, I respect them for keeping it out of the limelight.

[bamesjond0069]

Only to a lady not a ho. If she's a virgin waiting til marriage or a married woman, either of which behaves appropriately then im gentlemanly otherwise she's a ho and i can treat her however i want seeing as other men already have.

[Asker]

The thing is how do you know, jus by appearance?

[bamesjond0069]

Best guess if i dont know the girl.

[SeekingVirginWife]

Manners maketh man. It is important to treat a lady with respect.

Unless she is a ____ing _______ then she deserves to be _______!

[Asker]

What does this blank stand for?

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm more likely to be nice to someone I'm NOT attracted to. I believe in reparations. I want to level the playing field. "Ugly" girls deserve love, too!

[Asker]

Would you explain a bit more this? I got lost.

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, let's start with the foundational premise: Chivalry is supposed to be egalitarian; correct? The commonly understood social standard is that you should be universally chivalrous to everyone, and that you ask for nothing in return. Well, if that's the case -- if I'm not getting anything out of it -- then I think it's safe to conclude that it's not about me. It's not something I do to benefit myself. It's entirely philanthropic. Therefore, what does it matter who I help? It doesn't, at least as far as I'm concerned. ... So, if it doesn't matter, why not choose to help the less fortunate?

[dynamicyandere]

Everyone. Women and men. I reflexively opened the passenger door of my car for a male coworker of mine since I was giving him a lift somewhere and he was like, “I- Er- … Thank you.” 😂

[Massageman]

I try to be helpful and accommodating to people who act like they may need or deserve it. If that makes me a "gentleman", I guess I'll just have to live with that.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/cKIf4JgI97Q

[AviatorTom]

I try to be courteous to all women. It's frustrating, though, when I hold the door for a woman and she looks at me like I'm an alien and blurts out "I can open my own door!"

[wolfunknown]

Why keep it in a catagory?
Why not just be kind to everyone, men, women, childern...

[Lliam]

I'm courteous and chivalrous to all women. I enjoy being a gentleman and treating females as ladies. And I'm courteous to both men and women.

[ohsheeT]

I'm just me if I'm somewhere and I meet a girl at the same time at a door I'm going to open it or hold it open until she gets there doesn't matter who she is or what she looks like.. I do it because I want to not because of beauty or anything else

[Pyrofox]

For me it comes at the cost of a thank you or a smile. If I get a vibe its a woman with a really nasty attitude I instead just pick up my speed and bolt. I have little need for that negative energy XD.

[iSlipKnot]

It's ingrained in me to be chivalrous to everyone. Pretty or not, I'm holding the door open. It's important to do what you can to bring positivity or perform kind gestures. You'll never know what kind of day someone is having.

[Man-O-Metal]

All women. I don't treat the opposite sex based on looks.

[dolemite89]

i’m courteous and cordial to everybody regardless of gender and i don’t think women in general deserve chivalry anymore when they are considered our equals. I’ll hold the door open for my mother or if i had a pregnant wife or something that’s different.

[Bluemax]

I believe I'm most chivalrous to the elderly.

However, studies show that we tend to treat good looking people better, both men and women alike.