Guys, do you worry when your girlfriend goes clubbing?

[MoniqueTLC]

Not at all

Yes, I'd rather she didn't

[MrOracle]

I never dated girls who went clubbing (unless she was with me) - I would not have found that acceptable, anymore than she would have wanted me to go clubbing alone. And just to give full context here, I was a club DJ for a while, so I've spent a LOT of time in clubs - but when I was working, I was WORKING, not out hitting on girls. That didn't stop me from seeing all of the activity, and I know how clubs work: their real purpose is for (mostly single) people to find hook-up partners, and anyone who says otherwise is lying to you. Dancing is a secondary concern, and mostly for people who are already in a relationship.

[Whatever2929292]

As long as I trust her and know she isn't doing anything wrong. I don't care what she does as long as she has good morals and values

[Weapon77]

I said not at all, but it might be misleading if I don't elaborate. To me, clubbing is a huge red flag, so I never date party girls like that. Not clubbing alone, mind you, but you can tell pretty quickly when getting to know a girl if she's unnecessarily wild (into drugs and other risky behaviors). I'm a psychologist and know that kind of behavior is usually due to some sort of mental illness. HOWEVER, I will allow for the fact that there might possibly be some girls who are perfectly healthy and great who like to go to clubs with their gal pals sometimes. I might consider dating someone like that, but it probably would never work out because I doubt our personalities would mesh. I would never go to the club with her even if she asked becaue you can't hear ANYTHING there, so what's the point? I'd much rather go to a nice dancing bar, even though I don't care for bars or drinking much. I also prefer outdoor activities, and I'm not sure how well that preference would go with a girl who likes clubbing.

[DoctorSex]

In the documentary, "the science of sex appeal", a female scientist proved that a woman is prepared on the subconscious level, below the level of awareness most times, to cheat on her man if she goes out to the club.

When you look at the club scene (which I've worked in for over 5 years at one point), nothing good happens, is a sad sad place filled with degeneracy.

As a man, you have to ask yourself deeply, what is it about that scene that your girlfriend prefers than staying in with you, or why is that her means of 'medicating' stress and anxiety.

Sure, ecstasy and cocaine may be great for some people to medicate on, but my guess is, there's deeper problems at play.


Kind regards,

Dr Sex

[dynamicyandere]

It’s just weird to do if you’re in a relationship in my opinion, whether that be guys going to a strip club without their girlfriend or girls going to a nightclub without their boyfriend.

[Dex402]

Yes, those days were hell.
She wasn't very respectful or responsible when drunk.

[WhyMe247]

If I had a girlfriend, yes I’d be worried. That old adage has always stuck with me: “be wary of girls’ nights out. Another shoulder to cry on is another dick to ride on.”

[lucas262]

would be for her safety.

Its the club She may cheat, but I don't wanna be on eggshells forever.

[r4nd0mus3r]

i wouldn't be with someone who went to the club even semi regularly.

[Danny_dan92]

I’ll say this. If I get to the point where I worry about her? I let her go

[Anonymous]

I don't because she never goes clubbing. And I would not go clubbing without her either. That's just a shitty thing to do to a partner in a committed relationship.

[Anonymous]

Yes but not because of her. There are guys out there who are crazy and try to force women to do anything.