He said I'm too hot for him becuase he's a nerd what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[NamerOfStars]

Ask him what he means. If he's just trying to break up with you gently, that's one thing, but if it's just insecurity, then seek to remedy that (assuming that's your goal). If need be, tell him you're too hot for him to decide who you're going to go out with, and if he's REALLY a nerd, he lacks the social clout to keep you from dating him. (Do make it clear that you're not entirely serious if you go that route, though).

[slatyb]

Ask him what he’s afraid of — that you will leave him for some gym rat?

It’s also possible that’s his way of saying “sorry, we don’t have enough in common for this to work.”

[humanearth]

Do you like him
Do you want to date him

If you do

Don't let no or that excuse stand in the way. You want him, go get him.

Who cares if your a girl chasing the guy. Women done this since the dawn of man

Toxic male or toxic female trash talk is all bullshit. Its ment to get people distracted, so they don't really see what's going on

[RedStealthOperative]

Maybe he subconsciously thinks he's gonna get used or played. Be persistent, and let him know how much you're into him, with detailed reasons!

[Asker]

I would never do that to him and he's a quiet guy

[RedStealthOperative]

I don't believe you would. But generally speaking, a guy or girl who is approached by someone who they think is way out of their league might find it suspicious, especially if it doesn't happen often. There's the possibility of them being a part of a bet or something like that.

[MrCommodore]

Buy a Star Wars t-shirt and show him your inner nerd 🤓

[Asker]

I'm into gaming that's nerdy enough

[MrCommodore]

Ok, in that case why does he feel you're too hot for him because he is a nerd? Sounds like you need to increase your nerdness to make him feel more compatible with you.

[Asker]

I'm into gaming and have nerdy hobbies myself plenty to talk about

[exitseven]

if you really like him tell him nerds can be hot too.

[Luopio27]

I wonder why no female opinions are here!
Maybe you are not his type.

[RuthlessAggression]

He thinks girls "like you" won't go for "guys like him" because of what we're accustomed to

[Jamie05rhs]

How do YOU feel about it?

[Asker]

Sad cause I liked him

[Jamie05rhs]

You like him? Then tell him he's wrong! Tell him that you want him!

[Asker]

he's also a quiet guy

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay. Is that good or bad?

[Asker]

good for mebut they tend to believe they are not good enough

[Jamie05rhs]

So tell him that. Tell him that he's good enough.

[In_Trance]

what does anyone actually do with that?

[Asker]

I guess I'll keep telling him I like him so it doesn't matter

[Juxtapose]

And you didn't once try to reassure him?

[Sidjg]

Are you really pretty? Why would he think that

[GoggleDumb]

Take it as a compliment lol

[The_Naughty_Guy]

Do you like him?

[Asker]

Yes I do and I said he was pretty cool the first time we talked

[noohair]

Nerd up

[Anonymous]

thats weird