He is too hot for me, what am I supposed to do?

[GreenPaisley]

I've started dating a guy and I have the feeling he's too much for me - too hot, too smart, too friendly and the kind of man a lot of women would love to spend time with. I'm shy and reserved - to some extent I'm a loner but I don't feel lonely. I'm not good-looking but I love taking care of myself and dress properly - and that's exactly what he's noticed right away. We have met while I was volunteering and for this very reason he's always telling me that I've got a heart of gold. So after a while we ended up exchanging our numbers and going out together... the problem is that now I'm a bit confused, I sort of think I don't deserve him because I'm just a creep compared to him. He could have chosen lots of other gals who look ten thousands times more attractive than I am. But still, he seems honest towards me. What do you think? Am I too worried? I can't really make up my mind - I'm losing it.

[iwannalicku]

okay you need to stop thinking of yourself as not good enough you are every bit as good as anyone else and if he likes you that means he's already picked you so you should pick him back be happy enjoy life for life is good and if you know he likes you let him know that you like him don't worry about the other people other girls how pretty they might seem because you know what beauty is within and it seems to me like you are extremely beautiful because you have all the right thoughts wondering about him and how it might make him feel or look think about you and your happiness because I think you need to tell him how you feel and bridled try not to be so shy I know it's hard but try and don't worry about what other people might think only worry about the two of you because in the end of the day that's the only thing that matters is what you two are doing together and how much you love it and love him it's just my opinion

[Lynx122]

Girls often worry too much and have a bad opinion of themselves just accept that he likes you. I usually try and talk a girl out of beeing insecure but it keeps coming back. Just remember prety much al girls are insecure and it's ok but don't psych yourself out too much. If anything's gonna ruin it too much insecurity could be it. So just enjoy it and don't be negative. Be proud of yourself and positive ! You can look up things about how to change your mindset and be more positive.

[meow_ness]

I bet your gorgeous but you don't know it.
Have more confidence!! If he picked your to be his girlfriend that means your worthy of him.
Stop comparing yourself to others it makes you look pitiful.

[TacosRAwesome]

Just let things happen. If he's into you don't question a gold thing.

[JohnDoe3000]

The way you describe yourself you a) probaby underestimate your own looks, b) you are probably a fair bit more intelligent than most of those other girls you think he could have chosen and c) girls are pickier than you might think: just because you find him wonderful doesn't mean he had lots of other girls wanting to be with him (for example, most girls wouldn't give a rat's ass about him being so smart and friendly).

[Anonymous]

Why not let him decide if he likes you. 🙄