I met a hot guy, full of himself.. a badass, a confident daring man, deep voice, large hands.. but then I was thrown off by how short he is. What's your opinion on this?

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I met a handsome hot guy, full of himself.. a badass, a confident daring man, deep voice, large hands. Absolutely hypnotizing. But I was then thrown off by how short he is.. Turned off.. What’s your opinion on this?

Is there something wrong with me?
How am I supposed to be intimate with someone that short?

Im shorter than him, and all the girls that F”ed him are too. But the being short thing turned me off.

Truthatanycost · Accepted Answer

What you need to do is just be 100% honest with yourself. If his height bothers you that much just forget it. I have no problem if a girl I am into, isn't interested due to my height, or for any other reason. Just be honest and you cannot go wrong. As for your comment about being protected, that's more about training than height. A well trained short man will win against a lesser trained taller one and vice versa. People are attracted to what they are attracted to and for the most part, that won't change. Just accept it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I love how much short guys overcompensate lol. It always cracks me up.

DianaWest · Accepted Answer

lol, i don't care as much about a man's height as long as he has a hot face and a decent body/personality. i saw this super hot guy with a gorgeous face and beautiful green eyes, and i was like, damnnnnn. i am pretty short myself, so i don't mind any man who is about my height or a little taller. like i wouldn't mind if a man was 5 feet tall, but under that and sorry, this ain't snow white and the 7 dwarfs.

LexiLuv91 · Accepted Answer

I'd make some sort of witty little joke right about now.. but it'd probably just go over his head 😂 You shouldn't let his height allow your overall attraction to him be short-lived (pun intended) and the only downside (no pun intended) is that y'all can't ignore the "ask for assistance for items on top shelf" signs at Walmart like most everyone else 😂😂😂

exitseven · Answer

It is something that was beyond his control. He has done the best he could with what he had,. That says a lot about him. So he is a little short. Big deal.

Kyle-Jackson78 · Answer

girl, My ex boyfriend was a 5ft 5 hispanic guy, Im literallly 6ft 2, he was the "Dominate and protector" while i was the "girl" in the relationship, i felt safe and protected with him and everything, its a preference, Its not wrong, I like being towered over too, like if he was 4ft 11 i get that, But if he is like 5ft 8 then thats a bit stupid unless your like 6ft 7.

FiguringItOutGirl · Answer

As long as you’re shorter than him then who cares? The sex will be just as good, if not better, than with a tall man with comparable skill. I hear similar height sex slaps. Give him a chance!

TsAubreyKate · Answer

Protect you 😂 so you would take a 6’3 pussy over a 5’8 badass but you’re worried about being protected looks only get you so far and a lot of guys try to intimidate with their appearance when in actuality they’re soft I hate muscles for show and a lot of guys workout just to look tough ever wonder why guys take their shirts off before a fight so you can see how strong they look

UncleBertie · Answer

That's fine. You're no different to many other women - you fixate on appearances, driven by self-perceptions of inadequacy. Those negative perceptions are readily transferred to others. While it is normal to experience negative self-perceptions, understand that the "instant turn-off" response is all about the self and reveals nothing about the other person. Such responses are an opportunity for honest reflection, self-discovery and personal growth. Put simply, you need to grow up.

AviatorTom · Answer

You say he has large hands, so maybe he's not short everywhere. 😉

katiesmuff · Answer

It shows you are a very shallow person who probably missed out on a really fun time and a spectacular fucking!

desidoll · Answer

How short are we talking about here? I would consider anything above 5’7.

DizzyDesii · Answer

If he's 5’8+ then thats not short unless you’re over that height yourself

MrtoddsWildRide · Answer

It's your preference. If you met a hot guy and then got turned off because he had bad gas would you ask yourself the same question?

degrassielilover · Answer

Honestly, sometimes our short kings are the best. I haven’t been with tall men either, but I wouldn’t knock it. He can control his height.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Well if height bothers you then it doesn't get better than him shrinking when older

Anonymous · Answer

😂😂😂 this made me laugh lol But it's fine if that puts you off. I'm like that too, the slightest things give me the ick. I'm assuming you met him online?

LegendaryIcon · Answer

aren't girls supposed to be about what's "on the inside"?

Anonymous · Answer

How could a short guy protect you? It depends how he trains. If he’s into combat sports he can probably beat bigger untrained guys despite his height, it he’s just a gym rat he’s probably useless.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Troll

Anonymous · Answer

It's just an accepted form of discrimination in society. I'm a pretty short dude myself. But yeah it's best if you don't approach if you're turned off to begin with.

driven159 · Answer

being full of himself should be a turn off never mind anything else

Anonymous · Answer

No one cares. Fuck him and be gone. Or don't, and be gone anyway. WTF is wrong with you? It's only YOUR opinion that matters since you're the only one fussing about him. Sheesh.

purplepoppy · Answer

Bet he's really popular in prison showers

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