Ugh.. is the guys supposed to be pressing the right buttons on a girl or is it the opposite?

[scott04sa22]

Earlier I want to a Farmers market get some 1.5 liters of Coca-Cola also 1.5 liters of Coca-Cola is only $1.49 lot cheaper than getting bottle of Pop from any pop machines. Anyways there's this girl just chatting her jaws away. It's like she never seen a hot guy before I'm mean hotter than Dwayne Johnson 🙄. Anyways while she was chatting away she was not only trying to get his number but she was also pressing his buttons. I thought the guys and the players was supposed to be pressing the buttons trying to seducing the ladies. Unless she's a player too? 🤔 I don't know 🤷🏻‍♂️. Anyways just before I got back I saw a couple not only they were holding hands but he was being flirty with her what it looks like. I guess everyone is in the mood today and sending kids to either their friends's house or their parents houses. Its sucks being single sometimes but it's all good more free time for me. 😄 I'm also off today so I guess my brother wants to spend some spicy 🌶️ time with his wifey 💃🏻.

[SueShe]

Hmm, sorry but I totally fail to understand your question. I must not be the only person that is flabbergasted by your expression since I am the first one to reply in close to an hour since your question is posted.

I never even heard the expression "... she was also pressing his buttons". I am at a loss as to the meaning of what you say. Today being a Sunday, I can imagine that a number of people are in "the mood" today since they don't have to work.

Thanks for shedding some light on your expression.

[scott04sa22]

Come on. You never had a guy come up to you then he tries to press your buttons. it means he's trying to seduce you. Seducing means hey I really like you and I'm trying to get you to go to bed with me. I had plenty girls who I talked too then soon after another guy comes up to her then he starts pressing her buttons then she leaves with him then sleeps with him. I have lots of experiences when hey girl comes to me she talks to me then soon after another guy butts in on us then he does his job to press her buttons then soon after she leaves my table and leaves with him.

[SueShe]

Thanks for the feed-back.

I am totally refractory to that type of approach and would never allow a guy (or girl) to come close enough to "press my button". I guess that, because I am not into that type of approach, I don't know the finesse of that type of language.

[scott04sa22]

That's good. Maybe I need to find someone who is influence proof 🤷🏻‍♂️ or she's really hard quickly falling into another guys arms while she's seeing a current guy she has interests with then quickly ending up as a backup guy or backup boyfriend that more girls are doing nowadays.

[Napoli]

Girls can be charming too...

[scott04sa22]

Yes.. on hotter guys they really liked even though we supposed to do all the work.

[Napoli]

If she is confident, she won't be intimidated. He's just another good looking guy to her.

Confident people are masters of flirting, no matter what gender. They can win most people over & they know it.

[scott04sa22]

Even if their confident. Some people do have problems on flirting and making jokes and other mayhem to keep them entertain.

[Napoli]

Not that girl, obviously ;) ... and that's how she got him.

[scott04sa22]

Yeah... That's how all the good ones are taken... 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Truthatanycost]

What happens is that many guys are desperate, thirsty and very hungry so the girls do not need to make any effort, and do not have the time to ''press any buttons''. When you are attractive, but never desperate. Women act very differently around you, and have the space to make some effort. Just as women can smell desperation, they can also smell a lack of it too.

[scott04sa22]

She was definitely trying to get his number and make plans for the guy later on today. I remember years ago I was talking to someone. She was cute and all but when a guy came up to us he was pressing her buttons and she already wanted his cock then she left me and go with him to his place. and don't get me started because the guy was more attracted than I was. I saw her 5 months later she been with the guy when they first saw each other. So my luck kinda sucks.

[Truthatanycost]

Even when a guy does the approaching, not being desperate is still one of the keys because it means he is not outcome dependent. The guy that was pressing her buttons could have been this way, although there are exceptions to every rule.

[scott04sa22]

Pretty much 🤷🏻‍♂️. When a girl either comes to me or I come to her. She usually runs to someone else then she finds her happily ever either now or later 🤷🏻‍♂️. I would like to dress up as a Cupid with a love rifle shooting pink or red pallets at people 😂.

[Truthatanycost]

Have you seen the 'Meet Joe Black coffee shop conversation'? Although it's Brad Pitt, and acting, it was pretty clever in terms of approach and dialog.

[Avicenna]

It really depends on motivation and relative scarcity (which go hand in hand). If she is really attracted to a guy and perceives him as a catch for whom she would be competing with lots of other women, she will take the initiative and make the effort. But, again, she has to perceive him as worth the effort to do that.