Why does my friend talk about my boobs all the time?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend and I'm kinda into him. Sometimes i flirt very subtley. I talk to him about all sorts of issues in the world. We also share jokes but he mostly wants to discuss my boobs. When he starts talking about my boobs a lot I start joking about his dick cause I can't bear to stay quiet or intimidated. There are some specific words for boobs in our language that i find derogatory but he keeps on using them and he knows that i don't like those words. I feel that he sexualises me all the time by such words. I think it is slightly disrespectful too. Is it a red flag?

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+1 y

Guys whatever this relationship was i think it has ended.

[DaveJord]

I mean yes it can be a red flag... but like you said you are kind of into it him and you flirt with him. So obviously he is probably kind of into you, but neither of you are acting like emotional mature adults. Obviously if you're kind of into him then you need to explore that possibility and you both should be approaching it like adults and not highschool kids.

If your truly offended by it then you should stop flirting with him, and tell him... but you seem to kind of like the attention but nobody is doing anything about it to take the relationship to the next level or explore the possibilities.

So either you set boundaries on this relationship and you're honest with him about the joking, or you two explore the possibility of being more than just friends. If you're truly offended regardless who started it you have crossed lines here yourself so you can not put it all on him. I mean your joking about his dick too, so on some level you have made it okay.

So take some responsibility for your own actions and contributions to this situation and knock it off, and set boundaries and hold him to it.

[maximumpower]

not necessarily a red flag if you're interested in going to the next level with your relationship.
he's clearly interested but not especially eloquent (nor experienced) about how to get there.
don't continue to let him lead you into further sexually-oriented discourse if you're repulsed by the conversation. change the subject or flat out tell him to knock it off.
if he persists, THEN it's a red flag.

[Anonymous]

You're crushing on him and you're both talking openly about your boobs and his dick. This sounds like it's going where you want it to go. I think you both need to take it to the next level with some show and tell!

What size are your boobs? I presume in your conversations the size of his dick must've come up!

[Opinion Owner]

@update: what happened?

[hyperben]

definite red flag, fuck him off to the sidelines until he can act like a gentleman. once he gets his hands on your boobs he will be done with you as "friends"

[Stoner710]

He’s making jokes that it plus guys like boobs so it’s double fun for him.

by the way what language do you speak other then English? I love learning foreign languages

[Th3ft]

Yeah it sure sounds like it! You should either tell him to stop or else or you should talk to an authority. And get him some serious kind of warning.

[Th3ft]

Well good!

[OlderAndWiser]

Start calling his dick "Mister Mouse." Maybe he'll get the idea.

[DryGermanGuy]

Or "Princess Sophia" :-D
www.youtube.com/watch

[BarryLiverstone]

You are flirting with a boob guy. He’s visual and clearly likes how your boobs look. So he’s not a subtle as you are and will talk about them as he thinks it’s a turn on. Are you not feeling happy when he flirts?

[driven159]

So, if you don't like it tell him if he doesn't stop then find a new friend but if you don't want him making jokes about your boobs then the same goes for you making jokes about his cock

[RuthlessAggression]

He's not a "friend"

If you're into him

No such thing as "just friends"

You're not 5, anymore

[Shy_Steve]

I think if he is using derogatory terms towards you he doesn't care about you or your feelings.

[KrakenAttackin]

He probably fantasies about your boobs and wants to have sex with you.

[Anonymous]

He's one horny dude, lol. But if this bothers you, than just tell him.

[Guy13]

That's what guys do...

[Guy13]

I have to agree with Wisdom below... "I love your Christmas decoration... Tiny Tinsel, you say?

[bean2k21]

Probably he wants to be your breast friend.

[FunkyMonkee]

He likes them! Hey, Mikey!!

[In_Trance]

It's a red flag if you don't plan on smashing him

[JamesRandiDebates]

He wants to bone you.