What does it mean if he talks about my boobs a lot?

[Anonymous]

I have pretty big boobs so I'm used to them being a topic of conversation now and then, but this guy I am friends with (i also have a crush on him) talks about them a loooot. He makes jokes about them being huge or tells me that it's distracting when i wear low cut tops. I've also sometimes caught him starring but he denies liking big boobs and also once told me that he thinks i should get a breast reduction. What do you guys think all of this means?

[BoobMan]

Wow--if you have a crush on this guy and he's always talking about your big boobs, it should be REALLY easy for you to make something happen! Why don't you?

[Asker]

Because I'm scared that it would ruin our friendship if he doesn't feel the same way

[spartan55]

Oh please... why don't you look for a bigger ego boost here. You know damn well why.

[Asker]

I actually don't I'm really confused because he keeps telling me they are too big. If never had any other guy complain that's true but with him I'm completely lost wether he's attracted to me or not..

[spartan55]

He isn't complaining, trust me.

[Asker]

Not all guys like big boobs though..

[spartan55]

True, but I don't think that's the case here. Who is "he" that you are talking about here?

[Asker]

Wait what do you mean with who's he?

[spartan55]

What guy are you talking about? What is your history?

[Asker]

Well we used to work together for half a year and now we hangout almost every day. Not always just the two of us mostly with other friends. But I'd say we are very close an tell each other everything.

[Anonymous]

He is obscessed with your boobs, he is in love with them. Be happy, you know how to turn him on and control him. Do not get a breast reduction, you have what most girls pray for. Plus if you do, you will loose your edge with him.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he likes the fact that he can talk about them since he is just a friend. I like big boobs too but I never joked with a woman about them

[Asker]

I think that could be true. We are very close and talk/joke about things we wouldn't with other people..

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sure he likes looking at them too 😊

[Asker]

Haha thanks i guess :)

[ecfresh]

If he’s just your friend then he is teasing you