What does it mean if guys talk like this around you?

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I’ve been at college for about two weeks, almost every night i’d go down to the lobby area and hang out with the people. From 8pm to 1am. Sometimes we are watching a movie, sometimes we’re just talking. I don’t necessarily talk to guys all the time. But i talk to my girl friends. There’s about 7 guys and 2-4 girls most nights. Anyway i notice how the guys will talk like this at time “Girls don’t masterbate right?” “Her boobs are massive” “I just need 5 minutes with her” they’ll say that stuff infront of me and the few other girls. They wouldn’t be talking about us or to us. But does that mean they’re comfortable enough with us to say that weird shit? Or they just don’t care about who’s around

nawtee_me · Accepted Answer

probably saying that to see your reactions so they can tell what you might be willing to do yourself. For instance, "Girls don't masturbate right?" If you answer, "sure we do", or "I don't." then they know what conversations you might be willing to have with them. Or they would know if they asked you out and you said yes that maybe that would happen too.

Are they comfortable enough to talk like that around you, sure they are but probably have talked like that around many girls before you.

If you are okay talking about it then engage with them but assure them that they won't see it...

message me if you like.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

It means they are awkward college boys who are simply geting their kicks by talking about sex in the presence of females. That is probably breaking a taboo for them. And perhaps they are hoping that you will engage in responding to their sexual banter, and that conversation will lead to action.

You are young to be at college; I know because I was once in your position I started college when I was 16.) Find a somewhat older female student to serve as a surrogate older sister and listen to her advice.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think those guys are having some ulterior motives whilst hanging out with 4-5 girls. Typical horny lads.

Prettysammie · Accepted Answer

All my friends are guys. In my experience they just talk like that.

ohsheeT · Answer

No to be honest with you they're trying to prove to you that they are a jackass and they're going to talk about you the same way and they probably have talked about you the same way when you're around a bunch of guys and they're talking their s*** listen just listen because that's who they really are that's what they're all about that's all I give a f*** about they don't care about anything else they're selfish like you said just give me 5 minutes I bet you two minutes and he's done because he's selfish he's immature and he's trying to tell you what a dummy he is all of them are

MrOracle · Answer

in my opinion, they're mostly trying to impress people about how they are so cool because they don't care what anyone else thinks about what they say. They may not even realize that's why they're talking that way, but that's likely why they actually do it.

AviatorTom · Answer

They're guys, looking to see if what they say gets any reaction from you girls. It doesn't necessarily mean anything. At this age, both guys and girls are learning about each other, and in particula, how to communicate with each other.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Just the dumb, fake babble of frat boys… 🤥

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Boys can be showing their immature side really hard to say.

EaterPeter · Answer

Someone must say something. We guys try to take liberty. If there is no check there is no balance at all. We want to get in to almost each and every womens pants. Touch their boobies and vagina and play with. Except few close ones you know.

RealMarek · Answer

It means they talk about you and your friends the same way when you leave the room. Avoid.

RHK36 · Answer

Combination of being comfortable and putting feelers out to see if y'all are as thirsty as them.

loveslongnails · Answer

They're 18 year old jerk offs trying to impress you with their machisimo and manliness. Are you impressed?

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Their testing the waters to see what reaction they get from you there desperately looking for a easy lay

Xtendable · Answer

They’re comfortable but laying it out for you, that that’s what they’re like

Anonymous · Answer

Out of curiosity: the girl they're referring to when they say "her boobs are massive" -- what size would you say she is?

exitseven · Answer

These guys sound like jerks.

Wise4myage · Answer

Id bet the farm he is a virgin.

JohnK123 · Answer

How u in college at 17

collie22 · Answer

its there hormones talking

Jenny-Marie · Answer

It means they have no respect for women.

Yellovv · Answer

They want to try girls reaction about it...

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe wanna do with you..

innerman · Answer

You are their bro,

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