Why did my guy friend ask about my breasts and my bra size and why did he keep saying "Kidding hahaha" everytime I told him to move on or forget it?

[Anonymous]

We were like talking about my vacation that I went to about 5 years ago. Then I was telling him how much of a warm country it is and that I had to wear a vest to sleep to keep cool. I told him that it was about 5 years ago and I was about 11 years old that time and stuff. He was like "Well how was your breasts?". "Did you wear a bra?". "How about your mum?". Like he asked 3 questions at once within a few seconds. He didn't even let me answer the first one before asking another lol... I don't know why he did that, any Ideas why? Anyway after that I was like "I didn't wear a bra that time". Then he was like "Yeah you were 11... Isn't it budding that time?". "Hahaha how about now?". Like again he asked all these questions at the same time without me being able to respond to the first one first. Again I don't know why. Then I was like "Oh please move on". Then he was like "Hahaha kidding". Then I was like "Of course I have boobs now lol". Then he was like "What size? Hahaha". Then I was like "Forger it". Then he was like "Lol Just wondering". "36b?". Then when I took too long to respond he was like "Haha forget it". But yeah he obviously didn't ask out of the blue I think he tried blending it in a bit. But it feels like he's always wanted to ask me my bra size. But I noticed whenever I rode along with the conversation and kept answering his questions he would keep this conversation going, and when I didn't Initiate as much he kept saying he was Just kidding. I don't know why he kept doing that everytime I didn't Initiate or why he asked me bra size...

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He's 25 if you're all wondering...

[BrexitAteMyHamster]

He wanted to talk about your breasts and to have sexual conversation. His faked laughing was his get out clause, in case you got offended then he could play it off as a joke. It wasn't a joke, he was basically trying to sext with you.

[Asker]

Maybe that's true. But I didn't actually tell him my size lol. It's like he's always wanted to know that but Just didn't straight up randomly ask for some reason. It Just felt one thing led to another...

[Fuentes]

Judging by your age just a horny kid who will probs jack off about you later

[Asker]

Lol he's 25 but I don't know if he acts like a kid

[Fuentes]

Bruh he's a pedo

[Asker]

He isn't lol

[Fuentes]

He is of he's asking that and your under age don't be nieve 25 year olds know better

[Asker]

Lol 😂 it's not like I did anything bad

[Fuentes]

The fact he's hitting on you says he's a weirdo you might think it's cool a older guy is into you but their is a reason there's a LAW, so he's clearly a pedophile

[Asker]

I appreciate your concern, though I don't consider it "Cool" since Just asking a question like that doesn't necessarily Indicate that he's into me. I was Just curious as to why he was asking cause it seemed like he was taking Interest in that topic, and felt like he has always wanted to know.

[Fuentes]

See you're so nieve tell me why it would be ok for a grown man to wonder the size of a under aged girls tits? Clealry you find it cool because you don't find it weird if it was a fat santa beard guy with stains on his shirt with a pot belly asked you the size of your tits & he's a grown man you would be creep'd out and call that man a pedo so what's the difference here? So you're one of those people who only call it creepy and call the guy pedophile when he's not attractive to you but both would still get locked up slapped with statuary rape and liiking girlls 1r or younger or 16 and younger either or it'll hit his record and anywhere he moves too he'll have a poster sent out claiming a pedo lives in the neighborhood. Go ahead and let him ruin his life there is LAW and reality he's a cree0 jusy like the pot belly 25 year old

[Asker]

Lol you spelt it wrong it's "Naive" not "Nieve" 😂. No offence but you need to get your grammar correct before going and accusing someone like that, cause there are a lot of misspelled words in your sentences. Also yes I would find it creepy if some old man came and asked me that, though I would forget all about it the next day. Though you're comparing a young guy to an old man Lol. I'm not creeped out about it because I've NEVER EVER had any type of guy ask me my bra size before. By any type of guy I mean not even guys my age ever asked me that. I'm 17 by the way turning 18 next week so I ain't that little lol... and I don't think he likes me lol cause he has a girlfriend. But still I don't know why he asked, it doesn't make him a creep though... we're just friends and he's not even that older than me. It's just a 7 year difference between us... forget that I've seen people that have a 10 year age gap between them but still befriend or date each other. Because when 2 people really want to make it happen, it WILL happen, ANYTHING is possible when 2 people really want to make it work out, and nothing is stopping it from happening. I've seen girls with older guys before, I've seen girls going out with older guys before. You should know that the age gap is not so massive to have an Impact.. There's people out there that have a 10 year age gap between them yet everything still works out for them. We only have a 7 year age gap between us. So what are you going to do about it if he's asked me just 1 question about my size? Are you bothered by it?

[Fuentes]

You're a dumb ass and it's funny you think it's ok it won't be once he's in jail with a record also you're clearly illiterate i said both are 25 just ones ugly with a pot belly and beard and 25 isn't YOUNG hahahahhaa, so you see my age right or do you think i would g9 around talking to underage girls asking their boob sizes? Oh im sorry my grammar needs to be correct first before i go talk to little girls hahahahhaa disgusting their is a LAW and their is PERCEPTION you won't catch me dead asking a minor her boob size you know why? Cause im not a pedo. You're so immature you can't even handle a adult realtionship just look at your comebacks haha and you said w5 was young hahahaha it's not my fault you're ugly and no boy's your age find you attractive so you feel it's so cool and older man who clearly can't get any women whose a creeper asked you your bra size and with the responses im getting from you i don't believe you're 17, plus like i said there's law and perception and you're condoning pedophilia, remember LAW and Perception go look that up lol 2 people don't matter. If he gets caught guess what he's going to Prison as a pedo and his record will be held as a pedo and he'll never be able to support you cause everywhere he goes he's a PEDO. Remember that the next time you think it's ok to condone it

[Asker]

Excuse me? But who are you to call me a "Dumb ass" or "Ugly?" You don't know me personally and haven't seen me personally so you have no right to Judge me, and neither do you have any control over me 😡. Also "Ugly" is about one of the lamest Insult a guy could ever give to a girl alongside "Stupid". You obviously had no better and less lame Insult to say in the book😡. Read my previous message again, I never mentioned that I'm ugly. There isn't even the word "Ugly" anywhere to be found in my previous message. I don't consider myself ugly either. I already have nice fair skin and a pretty eye colour that every other girl is wanting to steal from me and Jealous of me for having. So yeah I have no need to feel ugly or even see myself in that light. Cause I already have what other girls want. Neither did I say that anything whatsoever is your fault. I'm happy with how I am and I don't consider myself ugly. So don't go bashing me like that and stop acting like a dick 😡. Is this why your mum gave birth to you and brought you into this world to do? To go upset and annoy girls? Is this how they brought you up? If your mum found out she would be deeply upset with you. You have no respect whatsoever. As if you are any mature than anyone else. You ain't mature either cause "Ugly" is
clearly a lame Insult that guys use on girls in high school years, cause they can't find any better Insult in the book and they're Immature. And so are YOU. "Ugly" Is Just another lame Insult that an 8th grader would use. And as for the relationship thing, So what if I've never in my entire life had guys approach me, start a conversation with me or even say a single 'Hi' to me? I don't care or give a shit whether they think I'm "Attractive" or not. Cause I'm fully aware along with boys and men comes drama and I ain't willing to put up with that shit. Especially with rude men like you. I live for myself and only myself. I look good for myself and only myself, not for boys or men.

[Asker]

Cause you are clearly acting as if boys my own age think I'm ugly so that's why they don't approach me, and so that's why I seek out older men. However that is not the case, I can get boys anytime If that's what I really wanted. But I don't. There are way more Important stuff to focus on in life than boys and men. They aren't my #1 priority. There are way more Important things to focus on. Anyway looks are nothing. Looks fade. It's the personality that matters. A person can be 'good looking' one day and have a bad hair day the next. We can't always look our best no matter how hard we try. It WILL ALWAYS FADE AWAY. Your true self never fades though. We girls can create fake beauty with cosmetics and all that crap, and guys can create those fake six packs they see on TV. But sooner or later we get tired of doing this kind of stuff. We take a break and then it fades away. So it's not what solely matters. So yeah I don't give a damn about how other boys my age think about me. They're not my concern and they are not my priority. Also I believe any age under 30 is a young soul so it's not like I said anything bad... I'm not saying they're not adults they are, 18 - 29 are young adults to me. Anything over 30 is not classed as "Young" anymore is what I'm trying to say. And as for "Pedo" guys situation, No I don't find anything cool. I was Just curious as to why he asked. Cause I've not had any type of guy or girl for that matter ask me my size. And no it's not that he can't get women and I can't get boys. AS I SAID EARLIER HE ALREADY HAS A GIRLFRIEND OF 7 YEARS. So it's not like no women want him cause he's taken already. Just cause a person doesn't have a boyfriend / girlfriend doesn't mean that no guy or girl wants to date them. That's Just a sick and ill way of thinking. I was Just curious as to why he was asking me a personal question like that since he has a girlfriend already. I've never had a guy ask me that before so that's why I asked not cause it's "Cool" or some shit like that.

[Asker]

And yes FYI I am 17 years old or should I say 18? I don't know what proof you want. And I don't know what you meant when you said "He'll never be able to support you" I don't need anyone's support I'm fine on my own. So don't go bashing me like that, also I'm on my red days so don't mess with me while blood is pouring out of me and I'm fucking annoyed 😡

[Fuentes]

The fact you just said blood is pouring out of you proves you're nowhere close to being a adult i assume nu are working some fast food job like mcdonalds or taco belll, how else is a weirdo grown man getting next to you and again as i explained to you their is your PERCEPTION sense you're not mature to realize that and their is LAWA Which is reality and law say's anyone over the age of 18 is a classed adult and anyone below is a minor, it's WRONG so don't condone it at all and yeah tell me what man can support you with a pedophile charge on his name? I don't know what reality you live in but no we're not young souls... You 2000 babies man smh it's sad amd disgusting at the same time, you think you can bend laws...
Let me put it to you this way if you were my daughter and i found out you were talking to a creepy 25 year old im gonna whoop that mans ass and have him in cuffs

[Asker]

Why? What's your problem? Yes I'm bleeding down there so what? I don't know what your problem is...😡. I never said that having a period made you an adult. I Just told you that to not mess with me. But clearly you wanna mess with me so don't blame me for being rude in the first place. No I ain't working at any fast food place. I'm at college full time. I don't think he's weird either. He's friendly. And yes I AM 18. So what are you gonna do about it then? I ain't looking for a man to support me, so I don't know what you're talking about. Below 30 is still young at heart is what I meant to say. And who are you to tell me and give me advises like this? You ain't my dad to tell me all this. Lol you can't be a dad 🤣, dads don't go around calling random girls "Ugly" and "Dumb ass" and telling them that they can't find boys their own age or aren't "Attractive" enough. You've clearly got some "Mental developing" to do. Cause that's not something my dad would do or does for that matter.

[Fuentes]

Then your dad clearly raised a dud who thinks pedophilia is ok when it's not and no im not young in the heart lol and no you're not 18 hence your profile stating under 17 you know why because you're young, im just stating reality for you and college my ass, sounds like a real fast food worker that's where's those weirdos come from

[Asker]

Excuse me? Don't bring my dad into it. Say what you wanna say with me but leave my family out of it. As if you were raised any right, cause you are clearly rude and so uncivilized. I'm sorry but I will turn 18 tomorrow so there's really no difference. Yes I do go to college what's your problem then? Well I ain't a fast food worker and neither is the guy who asked me that. He has a different profession, he's a doctor. So no that's not a fast food worker.

[Fuentes]

A Dr in college? Have you not heard of Chris Hansen? and the people who have no issue talking to a minor here are weirdos im just stating facts i don't believe you're anywhere close to 18 so get over it and yes your dad is clearly a dud ig u don't know that an adult n minor should not be together

[Asker]

He's not at my college lol I met him somewhere else and we became friends. I don't know what you're problem is with that. I've said what I had to say, if you don't believe me then there's nothing I can do about you and you're annoying me. It's not like I need to validate my age to a random on the Internet. Clearly you've had too much Internet. Get a life lol... don't believe me if yo don't wanna. And excuse me my b day is tommorow and I don't wanna spend the night getting annoyed and feeling miserable by some random guy that just doesn't wanna believe me. Everything I say is 100% true. I don't lie for a petty little nonsense thing like age. I have nothing to hide. I'm not like you men that like telling lies day in day out. Don't go bothering me for it. I don't know what problem you have with me. And no I can't "Get over it" cause once I'm pissed, I'M PISSED. I'M TELLING YOU AGAIN TO LEAVE MY DAD ALONE!!! 😡😡😡

[Fuentes]

Again as i said your dad is a DUD if you don't know that that's WRONG lol and yeah i don't believe you cause you tyoe like a 12 year old and clearly you met the guy at your fast food job and he's a weirdo for asking ur boob size becauee he's grown man idc if you say his heart is young you're nobody to determine that lol and that's how i know you're a kid because u think u can determine and change things and you're hard headed so im just gonna drill into you Perception vs reality because you will need to understand that in your adult life in the future

[Asker]

Sing me Happy belated Birthday cause I was celebrating all day. Anyway sorry for my late reply.

[Asker]

Lol I ain't 12 I'm 18. But what's the use, you don't listen. If you don't wanna believe then don't. I've done my part of saying. Say what you want, consider what you want. Wish I was 12 again though lol I would do anything to go back to those times. Lol If I was 12 I wouldn't be working at a fast food place hahahaha... You ain't allowed in the UK to get a Job if you're under 18. So if I was 12 I wouldn't be working lol I'd be at school full time. That is Just stupid to think of. You say I'm 12 and you say I work at a fast food place. Which sort of 12 year olds work at a fast food place? I've seen none around here 😂, it's impossible for someone of that age to be quitting school and doing a Job Instead. The guy ain't a weirdo lol maybe he was asking in general. I ain't trying to change anything lol... the only weirdo around here is you hahahaha 😅 tsk tsk you make you laugh 😅👍🏻

[Fuentes]

Im not here to make you laugh im here to give you insight, n just cause u changed your B-Day to the next day on your acc doesn't make you 18. You're to much on the rush to grow up slow down snd stay away from weirdos no grown man should be asking in general about a minors body part thats just plain wrong

[Asker]

I didn't change it, it Just changed Automtically. I can't control it... I don't like it to be honest. I'd rather be classed as "Minor" again lol... Makes me feel sad Inside. If it were up to me I'd be re born again lol. And by the way Just as you sent this message I was talking to the same guy friend of mine. He's super nice. He's not a weirdo. He's asking if I wanna come over to his house to hang out 😊

[Asker]

Well that's a new one... He's still texting me... He called me "Baby" lol... I've never had a guy call me that before. I like his attention. He's very nice. Lol and he said age is Just a number as long as we get along great it's fine. Aww I really feel like giving him a hug right now ❤... He's saying sweet stuff that no other guy my own age has ever said to me. Forget that I've never even had a guy approach me before nevermind calling me sweet names. He Just texted me and said he'll show me around his bedroom. Aww... 😊

[Fuentes]

I think you're just trying to troll now and it's sad if you're not trolling you're just nieve and i feel very sorry for you, anyways i could care less just know he's a weirdo and LAW beats Perception

[Asker]

You don't need to feel sorry for me. There's nothing to feel sorry about. I don't think he's a weirdo. Yes it does but it ain't weird anymore since I'm 18 now.

[Fuentes]

You need help you're defenitley not 18 sad just sad

[Asker]

Why? Why do I need help? I'm fine on my own, and always have been. It's not my fault that you don't believe me.

[Fuentes]

Get a therapist please

[Asker]

Lol don't need to. You're not my dad nor my brother to tell me what to do. So you can mind your own business

[Fuentes]

Pffft ur life go ruin it

[Asker]

In what way am I ruining it? Lol. A life isn't really ruined Just cause you met another guy that's a tiny bit older than you lol

[Fuentes]

Look you're hard headed n actually annoying me just stop n shut up i don't carw for your ignorance u minor

[Asker]

LMAO and I don't care for your conflict you Insensitive prick

[Fuentes]

Go mute yourself please

[bill_towers]

He gay.

[Asker]

LOL. LAME ANSWER. Your answer is lifeless 😂😂

[bill_towers]

You gay.

[Asker]

Lol do you you have any proof of it? 😂

[bill_towers]

Yeah, cause Ur Mom gay.

[Asker]

Proof