Is he just happy to be around me or does he like me?

[Puppystarfish23]

I have a boyfriend and I love him so very much so I have no interest in this guy what so ever romantically.

I won't lie I used to have a crush on him and i do find him very attractive but I realised it was getting to deep of a crush and backed away from him for awhile and focused my attention back onto my boyfriend again.

Now the feelings have pretty much gone and I just like him as a friend. He has a girlfriend too but and she is also at our work. He never talks to her and never looks happy with her but when I'm talking to him he's always smiling and wanting to be around me. I'm his only female friend at work too. He even said after finding out we were working together today "yesss I'm so excited we get to work together today" and he even had lunch with me and everything yet he doesn't even have lunch with his own girlfriend.

He's always first too always like my posts on Facebook but if it has anything to do with my boyfriend he won't like it.

[Guy13]

Wow, you are a nice lady. I hope your guy knows what a fine 👧.. with exceptional judgment she has. I love the way it is so easy for you to put boyfriend above old crush/friend…. no trying to get something from both of them.
I would put distance between you too. This guy does not believe you do not want him. And he thinks if he consumes your time that you will get confused. I don’t know him BUT he sounds like a wrecker and playboy…

[Puppystarfish23]

So you never found anyone else attractive whilst in a relationship not like I've cheated. I knew it was wrong so backed away

[Puppystarfish23]

I'm guessing your being sarcastic about the nice lady thing

[Guy13]

No. Part of it seemed dead on. Is it one of those lessons learned and more straight shooter thing?

[Puppystarfish23]

Okay sorry I'm just used to people judging me for being honest

[DoctorSex]

Mind your own business. You're playing with fire young lady.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[Puppystarfish23]

When it concerns myself it is my business. I'm not playing any games either.
Doctor cringe

[DoctorSex]

Again, one of my skills is being able to analyse people very well. I was a qualified hypnotherapist for 10 years. Stop playing this game young lady. Curiousity killed the cat and you will have no one to blame.
Kind regards,

[Puppystarfish23]

Of course you do. guess you have a master's in bull shit too

[Waldoe]

DUH... guys find a new "girlfriend" before dumping the old one

[Shy_Steve]

I would say that he likes you but, But you love your boyfriend so don't worry about it.