My friend has started getting massages once every 2 weeks because of his back pain. He is married for 10 years and in his last visit the masseuse was massaging his butt all over including his taint, and he said she rubbed him in the anus area a lot.
He says he enjoyed it and is getting back in a week as it's relaxing for him. Do you think its OK?
Masseuse has crossed the line. No registered professional massage therapist will go there.
Take his partner with him to sit in the room while he's getting the massage.
My wife has no problems with me getting a massage as I suffer bad muscle cramps in my spine and thighs but stay off my butt. I keep my shorts on during the experience.
It's all about boundaries.
I have had many, many massages. And usually the masseuse does massage my glutes as they are an important part of the upper legs, but I have never had a masseuse work her hands or fingers that deep into my backside. That does not sound like any professional massage I have ever received!
He has back pain right? I don't see how he has to be massaged in that area when it's his back. I'm not sure his wife would be that happy about it.
depends if she gives him a Happy Ending. Then no for a married man
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Yeah it’s okay he’s a dude and he has his own consciousness which makes him an Individual capable of Deciding what he likes dislikes wants and doesn’t want.
Same goes for the chick if she wants a Massage therapist to give her a good rub then that’s fine too.
I believe in free will ability to do things without being told it is Evil to make own choices.
odd, doesn't sound professional.
massages feel good but won't solve anything. that's strengthening and stretching and ice and rest.
I don't care...
Not my monkey not my circus. Personally I'd be okay if my wife got weird massages as long as they helped, maybe there's a massage to make you gay even 💋 wouldn't that be frankburger. Bro can do what he wants it's between him and God 🙏🫀
I have never heard of a professional massage therapist doing that.
But I guess if him and his wife are ok with it, then it's alright.
Who wouldn’t like a good butt rub. Wife better get on it.. plus regular head shining and suck. It’s not looking good…
Welll as long as it doesn’t go beyond a massage I suppose it’s ok. I got a full body massage at a swanky five-star hotel once and my butt cheeks were massaged by the lady. It was very relaxing!
That kind of approaches the line.
In the process, did she finger him anally?
No, because he’s married. Sounds like a fun massage though.
If he is ok with it then that his own personal choice
As long as his wife is okay with that (by knowing all about), it is okay. But if he can't tell about this to his wife, then this is not okay.
No I don't there is a sexual element to it, better off seeing a physio imho...
This is NEVER okay... lol.. where does it say massaging the anus helps someone?
That is weired if your friend doesn't have any anus area pain. Masseuse just wanted to touch him.
Seems like an odd place for a massage. Is he getting a happy ending?
I guess there is no problem with it. It is just a massage. She might even massage his Dick if that is just a massage. I see no wrong in it.
Weird but how does his wife feel?
Yup. It’s just a massage.
Ofcourse it is... why would u even ask this
Only he knows how he felt if wants to come back.
yeah, it's ok with me...
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