My friend has started getting massages once every 2 weeks because of his back pain. He is married for 10 years and in his last visit the masseuse was massaging his butt all over including his taint, and he said she rubbed him in the anus area a lot.
He says he enjoyed it and is getting back in a week as it's relaxing for him. Do you think its OK?
Masseuse has crossed the line. No registered professional massage therapist will go there.
Take his partner with him to sit in the room while he's getting the massage.
My wife has no problems with me getting a massage as I suffer bad muscle cramps in my spine and thighs but stay off my butt. I keep my shorts on during the experience.
It's all about boundaries.