Is he not interested or am I just over thinking?

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This guy I’ve recently been talking to says he likes me.. And Saturday night when we hung out he was telling my friend he liked me and stuff… We’ve been texting but I’ve had to text him first the past few days.. We had a good conversation yesterday.. I haven’t texted him today.. and I haven’t heard from him yet but he views my snap stories right away…is he not really that interested? Or is he wanting me to contact him? I don’t wanna put In all the effort to talk to somebody all the time. I did that with the last guy, and just ended up hurt..

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Rosastitch04 Follow
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I’ve been in this situation before and I would say just leave it and let him text you. I know it’s really hard but don’t make yourself the one who has to start the conversations all the time, that’s a crap feeling too.
Maybe he’s busy or there’s a genuine reason he’s not text today. But definitely hang fire and if In a few days he still hasn’t spoken to you in any way then send him a quick text to say, Hi haven’t heard from you in a bit, everything okay? If he explains or whatever and it still ends up being you having to do all the initiating then I’d tell him you don’t want that and if he’s not interested then no bother let’s go our separate ways.
Good luck. It’s hard and it makes you feel crap and I totally understand how you feel but don’t stand for chasing after someone, you’re worth more than that.

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