I feel men feel easily repelled from me without even talking? What could be the reasons?

[Anonymous]

Is it my appearance or vibes I give off causing this? I am a 22 year old girl from India. I have experienced this a lot of time. Guys, even shopkeepers would be rude to me. I have my COVID mask on all the time so it's not like they can see my face completely and decide whether I am attractive or not and behave accordingly. I dont understand what strange thing do they pick up about me in one or two interactions that they decide to be rude to me. And it has happened a lot of of times now with many different men. Please tell, this has been getting me stressed out so much. Seriously, what is that one category of girls you would hate by just seeing her.

[PrettyPriya]

Hi, fellow Indian here. I'm not sure where you reside but I haven't experienced any issues like you have. Generally, people are friendly to me. You know though as well as I do that men in India sometimes do look down upon women. I am not saying ALL men do this but there are certainly a fair share that do.

I am a bubbly and outgoing person. I don't know what your personality is but I have found that being happy and bubbly usually perks people up that I talk to. That just comes naturally do me.

Perhaps it is a vibe you are giving off that you don't recognize. I kind of doubt it unless you are the type that appears to be sad or unfriendly. That is a hard look to pull off unless you actually are like that.

Could you give some more details about what happens and how these guys treat you? I would love to help but need a bit more context.

[Anonymous]

Probably confirmation bias.

For whatever reason you got this idea in your head and now you reinforce the false belief by unknowingly cherry picking the data.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I honestly don't know cause I don't know you and never seen you. But think about it for a sec why do you think that is?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[maximumpower]

Cannot render an opinion based upon information provided.

[Guy13]

Are you in USA and still marrying mask?

[Guy13]

still wearing mask... sorry for typo !! The mask thing can make an immediate difference in many areas. I have felt it in line from others with some Asians that still have the masks on... this was the Wal-mart too...

[Sixgunsound]

Is this only in India or everywhere?

[Avicenna]

Maybe you're misinterpreting?

[Iron_Man]

I’m not sure There shouldn’t be a problem