So I was really attracted to this boy for a while and he's intelligent, mysterious and grade A levels of hot and rarer of all he's also has a really nice personality and is talented. So we didn't talk much but we hung out a bit and talked about stuff we like. I can't really keep a conversation with him because I'm just too nervous around him so I end the convo prematurely and walk off. My friends know I think and I think he does too so a month ago he asked me out and I panicked really badly and responded to him that I had someone else and saw him as a friend only. He said that he must've misunderstood my actions and wished me well with my career and life. He's been acting distant but still acts like his normal self. He acted like nothing happened. After a month I've really regretted rejecting him. He made a new Instagram account and I can't contact him anymore. Help I'm desperate what do I do?
You can't do anything but stop being afraid to Risk and move-on. This is done. I know it is not what you want to hear. Either you confess fully, apologize, and ask if the invitation is still open or you walkway in the guilt/shame of regret grounded in a lie... One that did not have to be and a relationship that could have been BUT still Could Be if you Woman-Up... I hope this plays out as you wish it too. :-)
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May be too late. in my opinion your best chance is to reach out & tell him how you feel, but be careful & do it with tact so you don't come of as desperate, say that "it took you time to process how you feel". Can be a test as well, how he reacts will tell you something about his character.
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Learn from your mistakes and move on if you panic and reject him it means you're unworthy of him.
You turned him down. Why should he continue
Apologize and ask him out.
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