This is not going to accomplish anything or give you closure. This just makes you appear desperate, clingy and quite honestly, crazy. This isn't going to make the guy want to answer you. At all. It's going to make him feel that he did the right thing by ditching you.
Yes, ghosting can be a little harsh, depending on the circumstances. Sometimes, there is good reason for it. If you're tried to be nice and tell the person to stop texting you, but they still text you, then you may need to ghost them to get rid of them. If they won't take the hint and you don't want anything to do with them, what else can you do? Ignoring/blocking them is all you can do.
Guys give girls their numbers for tons of reasons. Most the time, it is to get to know you. They may want to be friends or they may be hoping for more than friends. They at least want to talk to you to see what happens. If they decide they aren't interested, you'll probably stop hearing from them. It isn't necessarily anything you did wrong. Sometimes, things just don't work out. It's all good. Dust yourself off and move on!
Please don't send any other crazy messages to this guy. If you would want to try to get him to talk to you, this is not the way to accomplish that. This is a guaranteed way to scare him off permanently.
Get a grip and stop harassing the guy. Heal and find a new guy.
I think wanting closure seems fair. Being ghosted isn't fun and would just be better if the person straight up admitted they didn't think it was going to work out. Sure it can be disappointing, but it's better to know then to guess what you did wrong or what you could of done right. Ghosting is just really immature and unfair, the only time i think it's reasonable is when someone is starting to show warning signs of abuse.
Well. Their's more likely more to the story. But, let's see if I've can nail this sucker.
U want to know this person more or date. Because of interest. Yet this person is coming off, overwhelming prude. I can't say ur jelly. But u called them batches. So... I don't know if u are asking a question or just venting. But I ain't like this nimrods that can't converse. If a opinion is what ur expecting. Then u did right. U stated ur stance. Just know when to move on. Because u don't want to be one of them bitches. While another is asking for their attention.
Why did you bother? I agree with Melnc - that message makes you look weak, and it's openly admitting that "What you did had an effect on me, and it hurt". Too late now, but that was a wasted message. My advice is shut up and quit while you're still marginally ahead.
Girl no, no. You are doing it wrong. That whole thing screams that you are needy for his response. Please avoid doing that and please find better things to do with your free time, instead of spamming his phone with texts. He will take you for granted, stop expecting him to respond and move on. He won't change, in fact spamming him will have the opposite effect. If he was serious about you he would communicate with you instead of going completely silent on you
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You’re not harsh and you’re wasting your time trying to get these doichbags to gove some useful answer, oe an answer at all. They act like that because they’re selfish assholes and crap people, end of story. There’s no other reason, this is always the reason and now you know and never have to wonder again. Next time you come across someone like this then just tell him ok go to hell bye and then block and never give him another thought ever again, or better yet say nothing and just block and don’t think of him again.
There's a lot of context missing to give an honest response. Like what time of day was it when he said he fell asleep and your proof that he did in fact stay up talking to other women. Not really judging either way just saying there's a lot of info missing here.
worst closure I've seen. that's just you yelling via text and assuming not closure whatsoever. I've thought about our situation and I don't think this thing whatever it is is working. Let's just stop talking to each other and see how it goes.
Honestly you come off as crazy lol in a man's eyes this is what we see cause his excuse is "I'm working I can't spam you back" but your telling him he's not busy or he wasn't sleeping? But people do work lol I would block you pretty quick.
What is the question? Talking to anyone like that just degrades your own character. We all need to let it out. I get it. But let your friends hear the bitchiness (to vent, they understand) and leave the guy with class.
It doesn't seem harsh, it seems like too much... ghosting is wrong yeah but at the same time you come across as a bitter ex, it's taking it to far if you weren't even dating. I would just move on.
I don't know what he did, so he might've had it coming, but of a girl came to me like that expecting to achieve "closure", I wouldn't even bother answering.
He went from texting me consistently to not so that’s why I’m getting mad and he said he would respond tonight which is now and he’s not after I ranted so eventually he should at least say something
wait so this was not even a boyfriend or someone you were seeing but just someone you were texting. Then well defo this was the wrong text and he was prolly just playing around. You showed him that you care but you shouldn't really.
I apologized bc there’s no proof he’s even talking to girls and I asked him if I can call to explain myself… I am having a rough time with family and let it out in him
I understand what you are looking for and hopefully you will get closure soon. Good luck hopefully the next guy you fond will be honest and wanting to chat.
I called out this guy for being inconsistent and then he said he was at work and will text me back and it’s midnight he never did so I got mad again and want to create closure but this bastard is ignoring my texts
He’s clearly talking to other girls and didn’t tell me he was gonna give a shoulder ride to his girl friend and I had to find out through her social media wtf
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