Why a friend with benefits no longer text me after I told him I don't want to be his friends and I wanted more than that?

[Anonymous]

is that means he won't reach me out anymore? simply left me after the fun he had? doesn't feel guilty at all?

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Because you were the "friends with benefits" & that's all he wanted. I had a GREAT friends with benefits relationship with a guy for a hot minute & even helped him with gifts & advice when he found someone "real". Of course I was a little bitter, it was a nice relationship while it lasted, but I knew I wasn't going to be more to him than just a friend that occasionally had really good sex.

You need to just let it go, you agreed to this kind of relationship & caught feelings when he didn't. It happens.

[Asker]

I'm lost, he said he likes me, care about me, etc but why... I got rejected?

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Because you can still care about your friends with benefits without catching feelings.

[Asker]

so he never catch the feeling at all?

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Not in the way you were hoping. Sorry about your luck.

[LazerBean]

Because you are trying to change the deal you had and he isn't interested.

[Asker]

if I didn't try, how long we should do that? until death? until we get very old? he's 30 and I'm 27. other friends are all married and having child. If I didn't try, when would be my turn? i want to date, I want to get marry, I want babies. I don't want to be a single mom having out of wedlock babies. he said we both will take responsible for the baby, I don't think he would even tho he said we both should take the responsibility. if so, then still no marriage and keep making babies?

[LazerBean]

Men do t marry women who have friends with benefits.

[LazerBean]

Don't*

[Asker]

why?

[LazerBean]

Why would they.

[20yearsolder]

No he's stuck with the agreement, you two were friends with benefits. You're the one that changed the rules. He just wanted to be friends with benefits but you wanted more.

[Asker]

actually we didn't make any agreement for being benefits.. it was just happened

[spartan55]

Why did you get into an friends with benefits to begin with? Let me guess... you thought you could fuck him enough to change his mind...😂 😂 😂 😂 Uh no

[Asker]

don't laugh, I really hurt spartan

[spartan55]

I'm not laughing at all, but you act surprised all this happened, and you shouldn't.

[Asker]

he was always give me the attention, etc. I thought this could be more than that.

[spartan55]

Then you should have been in a relationship

[Asker]

I don't know what to do now..

[spartan55]

What do you mean, what to do?

[Asker]

I feel like I want to die , I feel really hurt ,

[spartan55]

Would you do friends with benefits again?

[Asker]

no...

[Anthony20108]

it means all he wanted was well a bit of fun that's it i'm sorry to hear that happened to you but if he was more on like the super attractive scale that tends to happen.

[KrakenAttackin]

Because you are just a cum dumpster to him. Grow up.

[Guy13]

that happens... what did you expect?

[Asker]

I wanted more..

[Guy13]

Right and he liked getting free sex... Of course he did not want any part of "Catching Feelings"

[Asker]

he said he likes me

[Guy13]

He does like your drain line very much...