Should I be concerned why or why not?

[Anonymous]

I am dating a man who has a baby on the way. No he didn’t cheat on me. I started dating him 2 months after they broke up.

She is due in November. He has told her several times he wants nothing to do with her due to her hurting him by suspected cheating.

However , he told her that he would always love her and will do his best to raise their future daughter.

I found out he also told her family that he loved her but he’s disappointed in her behavior and that it’s a nightmare not being able to marry the mother of his child.

Him and I have been having a blast and great sex. He hasn’t posted me on social media at all. When I leave a comment of a xoxo or a kiss he likes it with no response and hasn’t posted my photo.

He always posted photos of his ex and of him saying he loved her. Why not me? Maybe because we’ve been together for a few months now?

Anyway, I’d take it he wouldn’t be having sex with me and hanging out while ignoring her if he didn’t like me …right?

Updates

1 y

By the way they were both engaged. I found her old ring in his house. They were together for 2 years.

[WindAtMyBack]

I think you should stay away. That child needs to be given a chance to have a real father, even if the likelihood of it happening is slim. I think your relationship with him will get in the way and reduce the chances of that child having a more normal life.

I think you can't be selfish on this one. I think you need to be thinking of someone else. I think you should stay completely out of the picture and have nothing at all to do with him. To do otherwise is very selfish.

This man needs to have a chance to make things work out with that child and his/her mother. You would just get in the way of that. I think it's wrong for you to assume that it won't work out, because you don't know that.

I would 100% break it off, with no contact. For now, it's just far too soon and very premature. Wait a year and see how things stand then.

[hafinjun]

Let's see , um, he knocks up a girl he was with (but not married to?) He has a child on the way so in his mind it's a good time to split with her and hook up with you. I guess my advice would be don't get pregnant.

[Asker]

They were engaged. She left him.

[MangoBob]

You need to step out of your friends with benefits situation until he figures out EXACTLY WTF he wants and informs you. Right now you are nothing but a piece of ass to him.

[RealDaveThomas]

he accused her of cheating, yet he's now dating you

[Asker]

Yes he’s dating me and your point? He’s not seeing her anymore.

[RealDaveThomas]

just sayin'

he accused her of cheating, yet now he's dating you, think about it

[Asker]

Yeah don’t know what you mean and she did cheat. She treated him horrible and dumped him like 20 times over dumb stuff. I know this because she admitted it.

Now she wants him back and is pregnant by him. She’s been texting him I love you. He liked it but didn’t comment back

[Anonymous]

Dude's setting up franchises. 🤣