Is there any hope for a guy who has no clue what he is doing in regards to women?

[tempton]

[CelticCrusader]

Speaking as one myself im 26 going on 27 and even my healthiest relationship was unhealthy (i dont blame her she has such a nightmare of a home life she never had a chance of healthy social skills or any kind or form of self confidence. Frankly part of me still loves her and worries about her from time to time.) Im sorry to say that probably 9/10 men and woman will make horrible and abusive partners. Good people who have room in there heart to love another more than themself are hard to find. Dont get me wrong they are out there but i gave up. Its too painfull and frankly expensive and now that I've had sex and eas frankly dissapointed greatly I've just given up. Online dating is only good for getting laid if you want real love and companionship its more luck than a goal. Empty arms at night hurt but i just would rather be lonely at this point and give up thedn keep looking instead I've spent somed more time on inward reflection and trying to do nice things for people i love and on occasion strangers. Its not the kind of happiness i hoped for but you can still find joy in doing good if you can't find love. Its a different kind of happiness and i admitedly still feel left wanting but it comes with a lot less pain and broken heart.

[Gremlinimo]

You say you have no clue, but really i think you'd be better saying you have limited experience.

Learn from what went well and what went wrong. Make sure you're choosing the right women. Commit yourself to 1 at a time. Relax and have fun.

[tempton]

I've never had a women though. I messed it up every time even before I got to ask them out.

[LazerBean]

If he has good social skills otherwise, yes. If he is just in general clueless when it comes to socializing, probably not.

[tempton]

Yeah I'm pretty much clueless. I had girls who where into me but I couldn't pick up on the signals. I've done this with probably 10 different girls. I also have a hard time understanding social situations. I've been going out and practicing but I have Aspergers so it's very difficult to understand people.

[tempton]

I'm not scared of girls or anything I can talk to them and approach them. But whenever I open my mouth it ends with the girl calling me a psychopath.

[MTC29]

You learn through trial and error... mostly error. The most important thing to remember is that woman cannot be figured out, so don't imagine you'll reach a point where you will no longer make mistakes.

[exitseven]

Yes, I was so clueless it is laughable. I just made up my mind one day that I was going to try and solve this puzzle they call females. It is still a work in progress but I did get better at it.

[Guy13]

Grace and Prayer of/to God :-) You are going to need it with all the options devil has roaming around out there.

[Chazmatazz269]

Not until he learns that you can’t understand women. You can understand A woman, but you’ll never understand them collectively.

[FilmGuy93]

Of course... but you have to start educating yourself about how to deal with women. I would recommend watching podcasts like The Roommates.

[maximumpower]

Sure.
Everyone has to learn sometime.
Best way to get there is to start dating.
Do a bit of reading in advance, then get at it.

[SpaceGalaxy]

Yes, there is. Become financially rich (if you are not already), buy a Mercedes Benz, and drive around!

[Anonymous]

Their is always hope. Consider looking into a life coach.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

There is a bitch for every dog 😂

[Iron_Man]

He needs to be trained